i am going to give up on a R/S. My family indirectly tell'n me tat they dont really like my bf as he is 21(kind of still kids) and im 20. They think i deserve a more mature bf to take care of me. This is not the main issue. The major problem is that, my bf has no trust in me.. no matter wat i do he suspect. I m tired being stuck in between my family and my R/S. Shld i give up? This is a R/S which is not blessed by others.. i find it meaningless..
How shld i ask for a break up?
2006-12-17 15:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have no trust between each other you can't possibly have a relationship. if he doesn't treat you like a friend, it time to find one who does.
2006-12-17 15:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by desert_rose1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship that is not mutually based on trust is dead from the start. It will not work. Add that factor to the family issue and it only gets more complicated. How does this all end up? You miserable.....you wondering why you continued in the first place. Breaking up is never easy but staying in a dead end relationship will only be worse later. Simply say it is not his fault or your fault it just is how it is and you feel in you boths better interest to part company and go your separate ways. No hard feelings it was good while it lasted it just is not for long term.
2006-12-17 15:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if you should end the relationship or are you asking how to end the relationship??? I think you want out of it. Tell him you need a breather. Tell him things are just getting tough and you want to chill it for a few. That way this gives you time to decide if this is really what you want. If he is a great guy and really wants to be with you he will wait it out for a little while.
2006-12-17 15:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if your boyfriend dont trust u then he must be the one that cant be trusted.
Just break off fast with him and find a decent man that will show u more respect.
2006-12-17 15:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 14:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like this guy is your best friend. The one that you should be with should be your best friend and trust you. Dont waste your time, you are young and have a life ahead of you.
If you love someone, you would want the best for them. This doesnt sound like he wants the best for you if he doesnt trust you enough to let you experience life. Let him go and have some fun!
2006-12-17 15:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to learn how to spell and form a logical thought.Next ,you are still a kid yourself.Dont start thinking about long term relationships till you are at least 25.
2006-12-17 15:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by troy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend descent trust you there is no R/S ! There has to be trust!Now have you done something or said something that he might think you are untrue to him if not then maybe you need a new bf Tell him he has to trust you or he is history!
2006-12-17 15:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decisions are your own, your family cannot make them for you. Live your life based on you. As far as the boyfriend, if he doesn't trust you, and you can't seem to prove to him that you aren't doing anything behind his back, then move on.
2006-12-17 15:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you need to cut the umbilical cord that still connects you to your family because your an adult now and you need to learn how to make desicions on your own,decide this for yourself.. If your not happy with your boyfriend get a new one :) :) :)
2006-12-17 15:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋