i need advice...i have a enourmous crush on my aunt...she is so beautiful...but she has three boys...single mom...should i tell her? every time i see her its just...wow...
2006-12-17 15:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey, whatever, go for it!
2006-12-17 15:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Love can be confusing. Your aunt is family and I would hope you can love her as family. If it is more than that then you need to get over it and find someone who is available. If you were to hook up you would ruin your life, her life and the lives of your cousins as well as turn your whole family either against her or both of you.
You are playing with fire and too many lives are at stake. Step away from the matches and if necessary distance yourself from her if you can not get control of your emotions. It is not right to harm so many innocent people.
Sometimes love means saying no to your own desires. Do the right thing..for yourself and everyone around you.
If something were to happen you family would blame her as she is the Adult even if you are over 18 so you would ruin her life. If you love her do not make any advances or in anyway try to hook up.
Peace.
2006-12-17 15:30:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kdude 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you realize that this isn't normal behavior? I wouldn't tell her anything. I would keep it to yourself. Do you even realize what that could do to your family? You need to look for someone outside the family, not inside it.
This does show concern because it isn't normal. Why would you honestly want to pursue a relationship with a family member? You need to totally rethink what you are doing and wake up.
I honestly don't know what else to say. I'm shocked you actually would want to pursue it and are thinking like this. It's gross.
2006-12-17 15:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by hanevkidz2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel like you need to tell her...think of the consequences.
She might be so weirded out that she'll never want to be anywhere near you again.
2006-12-17 15:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mattvayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Ignore it and put it out of your mind. You will find another crush soon enough.
2006-12-17 15:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by cloverpondering 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude dont date your aunt gross oh nobody will like u there or way more girls out there ok snap out of it u idiot
2006-12-17 15:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, she's ur aunt, shut up!
2006-12-17 15:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think I rented this porn film once by mistake...
2006-12-17 15:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay?
2006-12-17 15:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by ~♥Chaya♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O.M.G. NO get someone else.
2006-12-17 15:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by belly3661 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋