i had a prom last week..me & bunch of friends were staying in 1 of d hotels in town...well that's not the point..the problem is,i invited this guy 2 hang with us & he's crazy over me but i really dont like him..(kinda scared of him)..i just invited him 2 be nice so that i dont hv 2 go out with him alone some other days since that time i hv my friends with me..it began like this,8 first i called him asking if he would like 2 join us but few mins later i changed my mind & call him again 2 tell him he dint hv 2 come but he insisted..well,m still ok with that..then when he came,we talk but i noticed that he was checking on my boobs!!! i was really mad & scared 8 once..then i began 2 find ways so that he could go home...n i think he got the hint & he went back..he was kinda mad & he said ive shudnt hv invited him...i felt really bad after that...he msg my sister telling her that he doesnt like the way i treated him that time & he was mad & embarrased...
2006-12-17 15:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I would not say you are being "cheap", however I do think you sent this poor lad mixed signals. YES, I would like you to come over and join us, NO I do not want you here because I am scared and mad that you were looking at my body.
Unfortunately, if the thought of a male looking at your body makes you feel uncomfortable (because they will keep doing so), the problem lies here, because even he did not know this, but "he got the hint" and left. It is easy to see why he was mad - it was your behaviour. Even though you feel bad, he doesn't feel any better. Take this opportunity to apologise to him, then tell him once and for all that you really do not like him. Stop sending mixed signals, and say what you feel.
2006-12-17 15:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by WMD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are mean if you didn't want him there you never should of asked him. About you being afraid of him that is Bull S**T because I have never seen someone they were afraid of invite them so they could spend time with that person .You just like the fact that he likes you and knew ou could get him to be all ga,ga over you and i'm sure you told all your friends .You owe he an apology
2006-12-17 15:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with being cheap, dumba s s. It's called being a co ckte ase. You know he likes you but you don't like him. So you call and ask him to a party you are having. Once he gets there, you embarass him. You are a heartless wh ore.
2006-12-17 15:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lil confusion and misunderstanding i guess. no, u r not being cheap..being cheap means, u led him but dump him aside after that. hmm... why not write him a card or something and explain to him, apologise ya! clear things out once and for all. it's better this way, cuz he doesn have to keep thinking u being evil! =)
2006-12-17 15:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Juzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im srry but cheap isnt the word you are low.. you knew he liked you you called him up and invite him then try to univite him then you make him feel so much like crap that he goes home? and you need to ask us if you were wrong? come on how would you feel if you were in his shoes? grow up and stop stomping on peoples feelings.
2006-12-17 15:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that was a little mean but no guy should scare you when it somes to your body so just tell him staright up that you saw him checking out your boobs and thats why you wanted him to go, and tell him that you dont like him or else he will continue and think that you like him.
2006-12-17 15:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea u were being mean,,, just call him and apologize
2006-12-17 15:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by whatever21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just been honest
2006-12-17 15:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not cheap,
2006-12-17 15:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋