What is your opinion or experince :help:?

Question

my ex borke up with me and she said that she was cutting copntact yet he keeps containg me one way or another. why does she do this??? can no contact makie someone realise if she loves me still???? does she stil have feelings for me casuse she still does this?? the reason i ask is i miss her and want her back but she has been ignorant to me then normal i dont understand we were togather 3 years lived togather 2 is this a phase maybe there was alot of jealousy in the relationship have you ever done it in a relationship

Answer 1

There could be a couple dozen different reasons why she's doing the "on-again, off-again" thing, but none of the reasons matter. Consistency is vital, and so is keeping one's word. When I say I'll do something, or not do something, I stick with it. Any woman (or man) who says she's cutting contact, and then not doing so, cannot be trusted to mean what she says about other things, and nobody in their right mind wants a lover they can't depend on.