I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip???
2006-12-17 15:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A pure girl like you is hard to find, and he might have realized that. Let him come around and try to impress you and win you over, but dont give yourself right to him. Just think about having a nice time, and let it be HIS job to make that happen. If he knows you're saving yourself for marriage, he may be willing to wait. Just don't make any exceptions, for him. Be yourself and don't change your plans too much for him. Let him make time for you. The more a guy works for a girl, the more he wants her, and the more he'll appreciate her when he gets her.
As far as your question, DONT SEE HIM UNTIL HE GETS BACK FROM HIS TRIP!!! Doing this will show him that your life doesn't revolve around him, and that makes you look worth your weight in gold. He'll spend his whole trip thinking about you!!!
2006-12-17 15:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to be confusing? I give you three guesses as to why he wants to see you and the first two don't count.
1) his other one told him to buzz off
2) he can not get anywhere with anyone else
3) either 1 or 2 or both of the above.
2006-12-17 23:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by is4031_us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't a long relationship and not like he broke your heart tragically so don't look too far into it. Maybe he just wants to catch up. Maybe he knows he ****** up a perfectly good thing. Who knows! If you want to see him, DO! Just don't expect anything from it, and just go with the flow and go from there.
Good Luck!
2006-12-17 23:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. He only wants ONE thing. If you only dated for a month and this guy dumped you, AND you haven't heard from him for a whole year, forget about him. He's not thinking about YOU. Just what you can do for HIM.
2006-12-17 23:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Engineer Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but I'm guessing he's horny and hoping he'll get lucky. You dated for a month and consider him your ex-bf?
2006-12-17 23:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE LOVED YOU AND THAT'S WHY HE ENDED BECAUSE HE WAS SCARED. NOW HE REALIZED WHAT HE LOST AND WANTS TO TRY IT AGAIN. HE WANTS TO MEET UP WITH YOU SO HE CAN HAVE HIS LAST MEMORIES OF YOU BEFORE HE LEAVES THA COUNTRY. SOUNDS PRETTY SINCERE AND INNOCENT...DON'T GET YOUR HOPES UP BECAUSE GUYS ARE UNPREDICTABLE
2006-12-17 23:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Crazed Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably really likes you right now as a good friend.
2006-12-17 23:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee! he wants you back....currently going threw the same thing ha ha ha ha
2006-12-17 23:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by aihsertal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably just wants sex......your bootie call????
2006-12-17 23:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably horny.
2006-12-17 23:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋