Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

we have been seeing eachother for a year and a half, I have been waiting for her to leave him, she says she needs to get a better job, to be able to afford a place for her and her kid, I dont see the end in sight, do I continue to wait for love?

2006-12-17 15:51:39 · 39 answers · asked by jaymegibow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in the 5th grade amd i really like him but i don't know if he likes me or not and my best friend likes him also and she is always near him because the teacher moves us around and i don't know what to do because last time i liked a boy i wrote 3 love leaters and totaly lost him for good and that was in the 2nd grade HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-17 15:51:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with a guy I used to date. We were dating till 4 months ago. About a month ago, he told me that he would like to date me again and see if we have a real future. At the time, I turned down his idea. Since then, he's been emailing me more often, telling me more about his day, trying to make next dinner plans while we are on a dinner, etc.

The thing is, one of his female friend had a key to his place while we were dating and it bothered me. That was one of the reasons we broke up. A few weeks ago, he told me how he got the key back from her (though I didn't ask about it). He said he would give me the key if we were dating.

He recently came back from a short trip and gave me souvenir. In the plastic bag, there was a receipt along with the souvenir, which indicated he'd bought two souvenirs. It made me wonder who he gave the other one to.

Do you think there is no chance between us if these little things make me doubt his feelings for me? Can he be trusted?

2006-12-17 15:51:07 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetie 3 in Singles & Dating

My baby is four months old and my sister-in-law ALWAYS brings her four and five year old to family gatherings ill. She is really sneeky about it too. At my baby's christning, she brought her son who informed the family (as he was double-dipping his chips in the dip) that he "puked" that morning and my sister-in-law told him "Shhh." She was never going to tell anyone. Does anyone else have this problem. How do I keep my little one healthy with an insensitive family member like this? Does anyone else have this problem?

2006-12-17 15:50:47 · 5 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Family

I am about to get married in less than two weeks, and i want to know about experiences people have had. Any advice? I know we must be honest and communicate, but what have people learned from experience that makes and keeps a marriage successful?

2006-12-17 15:50:01 · 25 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, I've liked him since the day he came into my class last year (homeroom, English, and history) and he's known since the 3/4 mark last year. He said he didn't like me then, but now it's different. He's almost gone to two dances with me (once he got sick , another he got grounded) and he's walked me home from school. Does he like me? If yes, what action should I take?

2006-12-17 15:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by Spikey Paws 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, so i got my bf a few things for xmas, and then when i asked him what he wants he says nutttin, nd he tells me if i get him anything thats hes going to be mad at me because he doesn't want me to waste money on him. but he aways wastes money on me and i know hes getting me a big xmas gif. what should i do?

2006-12-17 15:49:29 · 2 answers · asked by missy29 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and I broke up a week ago and I always miss him more after I drink wine. Any women feel this way? I just really want to make out with him!

2006-12-17 15:49:28 · 5 answers · asked by Psychgirl35 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I lost our baby in Jan 2000. Since then we don't seem to be able to "connect". For awhile I was "medicating" myself with alcohal to dull the pain and loss, both from lossing our baby and also to deal with the distance he had for me. We ended up seperated for awhile. I got rid of the alcohal (cus it's stupid) When we tried to reconcile. His idea of reconciliation was to pretend nothing was ever wronge, not talk, and work as much as possible. The distance was crazy... then he had an affair, and lied, lied, lied. His idea for that was for me to "just get over it". He has said he feels so close to me when I'm happy... What do you do when happy is just an act? When you tell yourself to be happy, when your not. When you are pretending to be "happy" for somone else's benifet? I feel so guilty for having any other feeling than "happy" because my feelings are "such an inconvenience to him. I might put him in a bad mood or something. Anyone relate to feeling bad for feeling bad?

2006-12-17 15:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 15:47:57 · 8 answers · asked by Cara B 3 in Singles & Dating

i need to kno how to make out! i want to outstand this guy...how do i practice! i NEED the 411!

2006-12-17 15:46:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and his mom isn't really ok with me liking him

2006-12-17 15:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He like metal music but none of his favorite bands are playing and he can download music so cd's are pointless, he likes to go motor cross racing. But he has everything he needs with that,he dos'nt really like sports so can you please help Im at a loss

2006-12-17 15:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend hasn't felt out my vulva yet ever since we dated, we have been dateing for 3 weeks, what hints would he give me that he wants to feel out my vulva?

2006-12-17 15:45:08 · 6 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. But, I'm not sure if he wants to get romantically involved too, as in bf and gf. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why me and not some other pretty girl who goes to our school...I'm average looking, and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. Do u think he wants more that just to go to a dance? Should I ask him if he wants more, or just wait and see? Am I exaggerating a simple situation?

I want to be with him.
And not in a physical way. Teenagers doing that=eew!

2006-12-17 15:44:50 · 8 answers · asked by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz123456 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy dated for a year and i broke up with him for someone else but now were starting to hook up again but he doesnt want to make it official... we act like were dating... hang out ALL the time and hes so cute with me im going to his family christmas but this not officially dating thing starting to get to me... whats going on?

2006-12-17 15:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you did get back together with them,did it work out? Seems like when people re-unite,it doesn't last very long.Not all the time though.Just wanna hear other people's stories.Thanks!

2006-12-17 15:43:43 · 15 answers · asked by noname 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 15:43:03 · 23 answers · asked by LIly 4 in Family

2006-12-17 15:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Singles & Dating

Five months ago I moved back home with my mom after a relationship I was in ended badly. But since I've been here my mother has been letting me and the rest of the world know she doesn't wnt me here. She asks me for money all the time even after I've paid my rent, and when I don't have it she threatens to kick me out. Now before moving back home I never asked my mother for nothing, not even a single cent. And I prided myself in that, but the one time I need something from her I feel like she's dogging me. I am in fact going to move in January, but in the mean time things seem to get worst. The other day she asked me for some $ and I told her I didn't have it so when I got home from work, there was a note telling me she's tired of me taking advantage of her. Seriously I don't know what she's talking about cause I never ask this woman for NOTHING!! I don't want to argue with her, but I'm tired of her hurting my feelings whenever I don't pay up. What can I do?

2006-12-17 15:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family

She says that we will only be friends, but always calls and IM's me. I dont even call her, but I flirt every chance I get. We even go out but I just feel like its a waste of energy.

2006-12-17 15:41:56 · 8 answers · asked by sk20007623 3 in Singles & Dating

She gave me clear signs that she was interested, strong eye contact, long hug, always smiling, and giving occasional glances at me in class..but when it came down to it I asked her out and she said she had a boyfriend..what is up with that? This is destroying me

2006-12-17 15:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

that you just negotiated the release of the chocolate hostage, if he/she is about to enter the high risk zone?

2006-12-17 15:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

well im not married or anything but
i want yall opinion abou this
maybe yall are more experienced about this
im 18
hes about to be 19
ive been going out with my bf for 3 years
and everything has been great

but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking
to one of my guy friends
but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything
but he still got mad
and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him

and he was like
"i dont like u talking to him"
but he was soo mad about it

he had never acted this way

im confused
i dont get it

2006-12-17 15:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i start convo's with really hot babes without ne chance of rejection?

2006-12-17 15:40:39 · 23 answers · asked by alonzo h 1 in Singles & Dating

why?

2006-12-17 15:40:30 · 2 answers · asked by Jestarz. 2 in Family

2006-12-17 15:40:25 · 7 answers · asked by ironcitycara 2 in Friends

I'm shy around guys that I like. I don't want to come off as bitchy, which is what I think sometimes happens. Do guys know the difference between shy girls, and bitchy girls?
I need to find a way to be more extroverted!

2006-12-17 15:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by madzxox 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy I like asked my friend out just before thanksgiving... and it was her first time being asked out so she freaked out and said no.
A couple weeks later, me and my other friend started to ask the guy of who he liked and now that I realize it, I guess he still likes/liked her...
My friend says she doesn't know if she regrets rejecting him...
My other friend says that he is getting over her, but I don't believe her... Anyway, this wed. I am planning to tell him that I like him, but I am intensely nervous because both my friends are going to be at the party, and
a) I don't want to be rejected and b) I don't want to have a relationship where I like the guy more than he likes me.
But I really like him... and I can't wait anymore to tell him... but it's just that I don't really know if I should tell him.
Should I believe that he's getting over her and tell him or should I keep from telling him and try to hook them up?

2006-12-17 15:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by justagirl 1 in Singles & Dating

We don't go to the same school and I haven't known him for too long. In other words I don't know much about him so don't tell me to get something he likes. I went to a couple of his band's performances and he's seen me there for sure (I was in front row all the time >o<). Christmas break is coming up so I just want to give him something small like chocolate...or someting cute maybe...well you know...any suggestions?



P.S.
He's shy(has a hard time talking to girls) and supposedely falls down when a girl talks to him(like "she talked to me!").


P.P.S.
I won't be the one delivering because as stated above, we don't go to the same school. I'm sending a friend who goes there. Also, no stuff like t-shirts of big stuff like that(if that makes any sense...)

2006-12-17 15:38:35 · 4 answers · asked by asian_sticks 1 in Singles & Dating