well im not married or anything but
i want yall opinion abou this
maybe yall are more experienced about this
im 18
hes about to be 19
ive been going out with my bf for 3 years
and everything has been great
but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking
to one of my guy friends
but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything
but he still got mad
and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him
and he was like
"i dont like u talking to him"
but he was soo mad about it
he had never acted this way
im confused
i dont get it
2006-12-17 15:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
simple answer: ask him. if he doesn't tell you, threaten to dump him. if that doesn't work dump him
2006-12-17 15:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by neojonako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you've been together for three years I'm pretty sure he has seen you talking to other guys. If not, then this is a big red flag to unhealthy possesiveness
2006-12-17 23:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mother'f3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is guilty of something. He is afraid your talking to your guy friends like he talks to other woman. Just some food for thought.
2006-12-17 23:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by lifeis2short30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's having some personal crisis and suddenly realized it would suck to lose you...
Maybe he doesn't like your friend for whatever reason...
Maybe he was just in a bad mood...
Just talk to him. It could be any number of things, really.
2006-12-17 23:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf feels an invasion on his territory. Just reassure him and blow it off. A mans ego is such a pain in the ***.
2006-12-18 00:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by hothink5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure and has trust issues.
2006-12-17 23:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy and insecurity...and immaturity.
2006-12-17 23:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous, tell him to get over it and that you love him.
2006-12-17 23:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe him and ur bf had a fight and never got their friendship back.....so i guess thats wat it is....or hes just a real jealous type of guy..u knw him betta than anyone else
2006-12-17 23:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥†º н—є—ℓ—ℓ—σ º†♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋