If you did get back together with them,did it work out? Seems like when people re-unite,it doesn't last very long.Not all the time though.Just wanna hear other people's stories.Thanks!
2006-12-17 15:43:43 · 15 answers · asked by noname 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, I've done that. I kept getting badgered into it, because he was all depressed and mopey about it and I felt bad for hurting him. It's true, too, for me at least. It didn't work out. I think the reason that nine times out of ten these sort of relationships crash and burn is because: if you had a problem with that person bad enough to where you didn't feel a connection to begin with, chances are if you get back together again it's only going be the same. I mean, what are the odds of someone changing between the first time you went out and the second time? If you're going to question the relationship the first time around, the second time it'll only get easier to get that feeling of "wanting out" all over again-maybe even worse.
2006-12-17 15:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Shinako 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my wife and I broke up twice! It happened over a 5 year span. Then we got married. I can say, we have the best relationship I have ever seen. The break ups were based on differences on opinions regarding freedom. We reconciled both times after talking things out.
I have a buddy too that dated someone for about 7 years and they broke up for 2 months and ended up getting back together and marrying. It does happen sometimes.
I have had it go the other way too.
Good luck.
2006-12-17 23:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by farmhand 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... yes, i have also heard from alot of people that it doesnt last long once people reunite, but not in my case. I met my girlfriend a t a party and we hooked up, a lil while later i dumped her kuz we were too diffeent, after a couple of months we started talking again and we both liked these new features each of us had, the relationship felt so new, now ive been with her for 7 months now and things are going pretty good and it's because since we've seen the bad parts of ourselves, now the new us brings out the good. Well, hope u resolve this, good luck, peace.
2006-12-17 23:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Beto G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I soon realized that we had broken up for a reason. It is too hard to go back once you have ended things. It's best to leave well enough alone. I totally regretted the one time I reunited with an ex. It was a complete and total waste of my time and energy.
2006-12-17 23:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you know what? It was the worst mistake of my life. It did not work out at all. We were even more bitter when we broke up for the last time!
2006-12-17 23:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny A_331 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with a guy for off and on for a few months..it worked really well for a little bit, then i just couldn't take it anymore lol. So yeah. it's really not good. i figure if you break up once with someone, obviously there's something not right, and you just gotta give it up. I don't know. i could be wrong.
2006-12-18 01:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Marissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend broke up after a year and nine months. We got back together after 23 days. Soon after that, we got married. We have been married for 4 months now. We regret ever breaking up and now we are more happy than we ever were. Hopefully we'll stay together. We'll see........... :)
2006-12-18 00:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes that happen once, we got back and only lasted 2 weeks, just couldn't go back how it use to be and we both decided to part. and just be friends
2006-12-17 23:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal but atleast you know your mistakes. me n my boo just got back 2getha and we know how 2 make it work now. at first we were like say this but dont say this but after all if it is continious then u just should stay friends or just dont talk.
2006-12-17 23:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Miz.Thomas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was on and off with this guy for five years but then just recently i had stopped talking to him because i was mad at my self because i couldn't love him the way i wanted to
2006-12-17 23:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinluvr47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋