2006-12-17 15:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, you deserve much better than him if you really love him this much! I'm sorry that you hurt. Guys can really be idiots at times.
2006-12-17 15:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I'm so sorry. It hurts like no other pain I've ever experienced and I've been transformed into a cold-hearted and mean person because of it. I no longer believe men can love and it has affected almost all aspects of my life. Time will make your crying less and less but it will stick with you and affect your relationships forever. The first several days is so tough but just keep thinking about the other people in your life that love you. Kids? Parents? Siblings? Support from your family during this time is crucial and I suggest you get out of the house and go visit them frequently. If I hadn't had my four sisters, then I couldn't have gotten through it. Email me if you want to vent or have no one else to talk to. Just getting it out can make you feel better.
2016-05-23 03:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Marcia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always hurt when u find out ur mate has cheated. So the best thing u can do is to try to be strong and move on. Don't allow it to bother u for too long because u can't change it. It's on him that he cheated.
U can't keep letting it block u living. Don't focus on it just move on, but if ur still with him lay down the rules that u will not put up with him cheating again because if ur not enough for him then u don't need him in ur life.
2006-12-17 15:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving ain't easy, but that don't mean you will forget. If you can live with it ( and it takes a strong person too) than move on with him. But if he ever, ever does again, don't forgive just leave, because he ain't worth your time. I been there on the she cheated end of it, I feel bad for you sweetie, Good Luck!
2006-12-17 15:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons why moving on and letting go are difficult is because we have this belief that "there is nobody else who can replace our partner".
However, you must think that no two people are the same. And chances are, you will meet other interesting people along the way.
It is about giving yourself a chance to meet other people.
2006-12-17 16:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by nomamalin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend truly loved you then you'd come first and foremost no less he would make you his very dream so he doesn't love you and the only thing you can do and i know it hurts at first but tell him how you feel and then heeling will begin because maybe in time you two can still be friends
2006-12-17 15:51:00 · answer #6 · answered by zwiegele1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if he is cheating on you then he is definitely not worth stay with and to move on just try and keep your self busy and don't call him or talk to him or see him because none of those things help at all
2006-12-17 15:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by dolphinluvr47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love conquers all.
keep your boyfriend satisfied and give him no reason to cheat
2006-12-17 15:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated it once he will always cheat(sorry)
2006-12-17 15:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by joebharper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋