Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

2006-12-17 16:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by bomberzz23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I offered to pay a guy on my ballroom team to give me lessons once a week. He said he would love to but he didn't want any money for it. He gave me two lessons. Then on the third week he said that he didn't know when he was going to have time because he was so busy. He told me to call him everyday to check. We never had a lesson that week or the next week for the same reason. I asked him if he still wanted to give me lessons and he said yes he did but I would have to work with him and his schedule to work it out. Now we are on the third week of him saying he is too busy and having me call him to check his schedule everyday. I have given him the option of saying that he can't do it anymore but he keeps saying that he does. Should I believe him and keep checking with him every week? Or would you say that his actions speak louder than his words and I should just tell him to forget it? Why would he keep telling me that he wants to do it if he doesn't?

2006-12-17 16:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 16:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by farid 1 in Singles & Dating

dtr=define the relationship. how many of you boys do that? how many girls wish that more boys did that?

2006-12-17 16:22:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been engaged sense July and we have a tentative date for May or June 07. We are going to have the wedding at my church and a casual reception of bbq and booze in his parents' back yard. His whole family live locally but only my Father's side of my family does. My mother is from a city half way across the country with a huge extended family (my living great-grandmother had 10 children). I also have a third branch to my family tree, my biological father's. He died before I was born so I'm really important to his family. He's from another city where I have another living great-grandmother.

So I was thinking that having so many people travel, especially two 90-something-year-old women half way across the country would be impractical. And there's no way that I could pay for that. Then I thought why not just go to them. I could have my wedding in my home town, have a reception, then take a trip out to city #2 and having a second reception with that family and show the video from the

2006-12-17 16:19:55 · 8 answers · asked by kadan 2 in Weddings

After telling this guy, who said a few weeks ago he likes me, I don't know what I want and I don't know if I am ready for a relationship, he has changed. He doesn't call or text me everyday like he usually did.

So last night I aske him what's up. He said that he went out with a girl last week. So I told him that if he has a GF now, I will not want to continue this flirting spree anymore. He looked at me and said just because he went out with someone, doesn't mean that person is his girlfriend. What is that supposed to mean?

2006-12-17 16:19:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b/f of 2 years and I have been engaged and living together for a year we have been together for 2 years,we went through a reaal rocky era,and he treated me like ****.we have canceled to dates to wed,have the rings we bought a few months ago even. We are now soing good,and out of the blue he's spoiling me bought me a computer a wahser dryer anda new stove,but I;m ready to marry I'm not playing house a being a make shift wife that no strings attached you can walk out on anytime what should I do he says he still wants to marry but what's up ? I'm tired of waitng but my kids already love him as a father and i love him too,and why the sudden changge could it be guilt of cheating or something bad?

2006-12-17 16:17:47 · 10 answers · asked by Camy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 16:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by Erica 3 in Friends

I'm 42-yo and am as "horny" now as I have ever been, except my wife has absolutely no sexual desire whatsoever. I have several young ladies in my office that have definitely been showing interest in me and while I do not want to cheat on my wife, I am addicted to sex and want that physical relationship.

I'm gonna burst if something doesn't happen, and I'm tired of spending time with my right, and left, hands.

2006-12-17 16:16:57 · 13 answers · asked by jenna69nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

I just went to my aunt's funeral and the whole time during the memorial I didn't even cry but my sister and my grandparents and my other aunt and my mom did is that wrong to not cry at someone whom you love's funeral

2006-12-17 16:16:53 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Family

i preferARABS

2006-12-17 16:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by Haifa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 16:16:19 · 21 answers · asked by Why_so_serious? 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 16:15:54 · 1 answers · asked by Jestarz. 2 in Friends

thanks for all your answers, it is unanimous.

2006-12-17 16:15:13 · 19 answers · asked by jaymegibow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this guy for 2 1/2 years and we are engaged to be married in June. For the first 2 years things went great, he helped me with my kids (Im previously divorced), helped me with college, helped me pay my bills, and I felt he was my soul mate. Last night, after putting on a huge dinner for my family for Christmas, he snapped. He screamed at me, called me every name in the book, made me feel like a little piece of crap saying that it was over. He punched a hole in my wall and I can honestly say I was scared to death. After about 2 hours of him on a rampage and breaking my phone (I tried to call the cops after sitting on me and punching the wall behind me) he left. He called me about 2 hrs later to talk. He said that he is tired of my not appreciating him and he had had enough. I know that I have a problem. I am bipolar as is my daughter and he does deal with a lot of crap from me daily. Do I leave him for the fear of this happening again or do I demand that he get help?

2006-12-17 16:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by :) 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 16:14:33 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this boy who is leaving to go back to his real home on mon or tues and i wanna tell him that I like him...but i'm afraid he'll say i don't like you or just tease me bout it

2006-12-17 16:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

For a goody good nerdy girl to get a date with a popular guy?

2006-12-17 16:13:48 · 33 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 and he is 18

2006-12-17 16:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by kate n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 16:12:37 · 13 answers · asked by Jeano 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im just curious

mine and my bf is

satisfy you
from puff daddy

hahha kind old song
but its good

im just curious

2006-12-17 16:12:19 · 14 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had a to choose between your man/woman or your career, what would you choose, and why?

2006-12-17 16:11:50 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 16:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Q 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 16:10:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is the most wonderful boy in the world. I love him, and he loves me, but my parents don't approve of him just because he's middle class and my family is lower-high class. They out and out told me that I should break up with him. Should I abide by my parents wishes, or should I continue to be with him?

2006-12-17 16:10:56 · 16 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Family

so i hadnt dated for about a year do to my fears of being played by someone, so a year later meet this girl real sweet and all i really start to like her and we go out,,everything going real nice, im living the dream .. a week and a half later ,she calls me crying to confess that i needed someone else , that i desrvd better becuase she had cheated on me. she keeps crying say is sorry didnt wanna hurt me, that she was drinking and blah blah blah. the thing is that i really like her and wanna giver another chance becuase i had so much hope this would finally work, but im scared shell do it agian so i dont know if should giver another chance or not.

2006-12-17 16:10:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I worry. I worry he'll stop calling. Stop wanting to see. Realize he doesn't like me and doesn't want to be with me. Even though he is a great guy and has never said anything to suggest to me that he doesn't want to be with me. He has even told me he loves me. But still I worry. How can I stop doing that. Worrying wrecks my life. HELP Pls. :)

2006-12-17 16:10:01 · 6 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 16:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

about the size of her ex boyfriends tool, as compared to mine he was 8" or so and im exactly the same size as her thumb, i cant help but feel inadequate,when she starts comparing, does size matter that much?

2006-12-17 16:09:00 · 23 answers · asked by robbie w 1 in Singles & Dating

took the bait. What should I do??

It all started because he keeps his profile set at "Single" even though we have been in a serious relationship for six months.
We even spent Thanksgiving at his parent's place together.

When I asked him about his "single status" on myspace, he kind of acted as if it wasn't a big deal even though most people use MYSPACE to hookup.

So, I set up a fake profile and used my hot friends pic for the profile. It's my friend from back home who he does not know.

Anyway I sent him a message that read. "Hey, I just saw your profile and thought you were real cute and sexy."

HE RESPONDED. "Who you kidding girl, tell me your not breaking hearts left and right."

I RESPONDED."Oh, boy I think your trouble and ornery."

HE RESPONDED. "Nothing wrong with being ornery. It's healthy right.
Trouble is fun.
I think I might be in your part of town next month. Are there any good restaurants in the area."

What is he up to?

2006-12-17 16:08:33 · 43 answers · asked by Robyn 1 in Singles & Dating