2006-12-17 16:09:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are compleately wrong. So many handicapped persons have made history. YOU SEEM TO BE SUFFERING FROM COMPLEX. Please get reid of your complex. I find from your questions and answers you seem to be a very intelegent girl/lady and you should be bold enough to face socially everyone. I also find from you questions you are a multi talented person. i have got a few best answers for your questions earlier. I am like your father and i can guide you more and if you want you can contact me at jayaramanms@gmail.com. Do not loose confidence. I know a girly very closely and was moving with her for the past 8 years or so. She is a dwarft and se is just 3'8" She had passed out her CA exam in the first attempt and she is employed in a MNC firm now. This is just an example. -
2006-12-18 16:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Though you have not given the full details, it would be possible to answer the problem with a very very broad view.
Let's admit that the relationships are complex, irrespective of whether these are by blood or otherwise. So do not expect much out of these and do your part sincerely. If it works, fine; if it does not, it was not supposed to be like that. Or else expect the worst and whatever better & little you get would make you happy.
If seen in a narrowminded manner, the blood relationships are by compulsion and one does not have much of choice. But can you imagine life without any relatives? So, it is worth it to maintain these even if the cost of maintenance means a lot of sacrifice and compromise. Yes, you should not compromise your values for these...
As far as your problem of getting along with the close relatives is concerned, the above may be a liitle help.
Regarding the new relationships, you shall have to be careful to look for the very desrving persons and then move ahead with confidence. If you are sincere and no nonsense, you shall always get a good response. And, yse have faith in people and yourself as well. Faith here does not mean blind faith.
Caution: You need to know your self, esp. with regard to your own attitude and habits. This shall help you know as to why people tend to go away from you.
2006-12-18 02:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
trying and trying
i think u have problem in your self
ask to your father or mother about your child
and u can know what happen. maybe it is about your character.
if u really just trying and trying
just make this life is so fun with your creatifities and u can produce a lot of money that u can invest it in some social program
and u will know that u re close with them with ur money. it can very comfort for next life
2006-12-18 00:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by RHEIN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont need to worry for that dear. You have more talents and more intelligent than others. U have priceless things in life which common people dont have. So to say u r great Shalini dear. Best of luck. Take care. I feel pity for u. I will be ur friend. my id is jujubhagi@yahoo.com
2006-12-18 03:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Meera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
examine what happens to not allow close relationships to develop. Is it you? Is it the poeple you are trying to form relationships with? Is it your approach? Are you shy? Are you not happy with yourself? Are you trying to hard? If it is any of these things, or even if its something else you can always fix it. give an example of how relationships dont work for you and I can help you better so we can find the reason why it doesnt work out. once you understand why, then figuring out what to do to fix it is easy
2006-12-18 00:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by latenightdrives 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The desire to success is nothing but to prepare oneself for achieving the goal. Therefore be positive and keep on trying. You will definitely success. When there is a will there is a way.
2006-12-21 08:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by sanatan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out, be positive, share wht u feel.
and if u need a true friend, im thr and truly, no nuscence.
im amit 23 and ill be honest allways, i like making friends and never hurt anyone's feelings. if u still trust people, believe me, thr are still sensible and good people alive.
amitnitin2@yahoo.com
regards
2006-12-18 06:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by AMIT G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel what you feel coz' im a handicap too. maybe even in a worst situation than you have..and yeah, its really hard to make friends or be sociable..well, luckily i have friends who is always at my back...JUST BE YOURSELF, nad never imitate anyone..release your hidden skills and don't mind those people who don't like you! GOOD LUCK! and im your friend!
2006-12-18 02:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
may be your problem is you dont trust on any one and cant share your feelings with any other one. first always trust on all persons. if one want to b ur friend you should welcome him or her. always be positive this will sure make your life change. always help ur friends.
2006-12-18 00:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by Arya sharma 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well there is a remedy for every cold isn't there? my e-mail address is butterfly_angeljb@yahoo.com email me and we'll be online buddies
2006-12-18 02:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by REALITY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋