I set the bait for my b/f on MYSPACE and he....?

Question

took the bait. What should I do??

It all started because he keeps his profile set at "Single" even though we have been in a serious relationship for six months.
We even spent Thanksgiving at his parent's place together.

When I asked him about his "single status" on myspace, he kind of acted as if it wasn't a big deal even though most people use MYSPACE to hookup.

So, I set up a fake profile and used my hot friends pic for the profile. It's my friend from back home who he does not know.

Anyway I sent him a message that read. "Hey, I just saw your profile and thought you were real cute and sexy."

HE RESPONDED. "Who you kidding girl, tell me your not breaking hearts left and right."

I RESPONDED."Oh, boy I think your trouble and ornery."

HE RESPONDED. "Nothing wrong with being ornery. It's healthy right.
Trouble is fun.
I think I might be in your part of town next month. Are there any good restaurants in the area."

What is he up to?

Anyway, I RESPONDED.
" So you'll be in my part of town next month.
If you want a nice tour, let me know."

HE RESPONDED.
"Right on girl, might take you up on that tour."

So was he trying to hook up, or just flirt???

Setting someone up is not immoral.

CHEATING IS IMMORAL!

Answer 1

I know this may sound brutal, but..you need to end this, and FAST. He is clearly flirting and hooking up with other women, and you don't deserve this crappy treatment(and that's an understatement!) You deserve a better guy, not this guy that flirts everywhere and has absolutely no respect for you.

Answer 2

For the person above saying "He did not say anything TOO bad."

ARE YOU SERIOUS!

He is in a SERIOUS relationship for six months and some hot chick he doesn't even know emails him on myspace with some sexy message and he responds back being just as flirtatious!
THAT IS OVER THE LINE.
He should have just ignored the message.
And what is with him telling this hot myspace girl who is really his g/f that he will in her town next month!!!!!!!!!!!!

Come on!
That was definitely him throwing a hint to this girl.

Oh, do not listen to the people on here yapping about how wrong you were to bait him.
THere is nothing wrong with what you did, considering the fact he would not change his profile from "Single."
I'm sure that made you suspicious of what he was up to.

Answer 3

I set a trap for my husband on myspace and I have sent him about 3 fake messages from my fake profile and he never responded...so even if your man is just flirting that is still a no no because even flirting can go to far. You need to make him prove his love and change his profile to say "in a relationship"

Don't be a doormat or a dummy...get some balls and tell him he needs to change the profile or else he will really be single....

Also set up another profile as someone who lives in his area, see if he responds and set up a real date in town...if he shows up then he will be caught red handed and never tell him about any of your fake profiles ever!

Answer 4

Well, so far he has been pretty good and hasn't said anything TOO flirtatious and he hasn't crossed any lines. However, you have crossed some lines. You were "testing" him but you were being decieving while doing it. Eventually he will find out, and how can you go through a relationship with him if you can't be honest with each other, and how can you hide this from him? Won't you feel guilty for doing this? And once he finds out he is going to probably break things off if you are going to play games like this, and obviously you do not trust him. Has he ever EVER given you a reason not to trust him at all? Seriously, you screwed yourself.

Answer 5

Honestly, unless he explicitly tells you, a guy does not consider a relationship serious until you're nearing a year - and even then he's iffy about it.

To tell you the truth, you shouldn't have done this; but now that you have, you have two choices. "You" can either continue with the game and see what happens, making your decision about the continuity of your relationship based on what he does...

.. OR, you can stop the conversation and see if he comes chasing after "you," and THEN make your decision. Either way, I don't believe you'll like how this ends - and if he completely disregarding your feelings concerning the setting of his relationship status on his profile, I highly doubt you should be with him anyway.

Buena suerte!

Answer 6

If you have to ask, you already know. How does the saying go? "Be careful what you look for because you might find the truth?" If you felt he was cheating, then he might be.

No man in a relationship should have their status set to "single".

Find you another man. Because the excuse he gives you will be a lie that will be so full of crap that he is really going to expect you to believe it and you deserve more.

Answer 7

A lot of guys are like this they go out with a girl but would cheat on her like that (i don't know how to snap my fingers on a computer lol) if i were you he would be gone before he could say sorry. Guys like this just aren't worth our time or caring. I know this may sound hard as your in a serious relationship but you have to realize that he is acting as though he is completely willing to throw that all out a window without even taking a glance to see what is going to happen to you for some one he does not even know. I wish you luck with this situation.

Answer 8

What is he up to??? Not being faithful to you that's what he is up to! Get out of this now, it will only get worse, a situation like this only gets worse, never better, and he will keep taking advantage all the while he cheats on you. Not only should he not have it on single status, he should not be on Myspace at all. Don't return his phone calls, make him call you at LEAST 3 times before you pick up the phone once and if he isn't talking about a date, hang up and move onto someone else that is! That simple!

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Answer 9

OOOOH girl my sister did the same thing and she's engaged or should I say was engaged, her ex even set up a meet and when he showed up my sis was there ready to beat his @$$!!! it was too funny of course she left him cause if a dude is going to jeopardize a relationship over a stupid pic and profile imagine how he behaves with women he actually interacts with.... Something to think about!

Answer 10

i would ask your friend if she will play along with the bait. If she is up for it let her go out with him and give you the details. Then you can both go and confront him together in a "gang up" way and totally bust this loser. I would also lose him since he asked this girl out. It means he is a player and is playing the field behind your back.