Five months ago I moved back home with my mom after a relationship I was in ended badly. But since I've been here my mother has been letting me and the rest of the world know she doesn't wnt me here. She asks me for money all the time even after I've paid my rent, and when I don't have it she threatens to kick me out. Now before moving back home I never asked my mother for nothing, not even a single cent. And I prided myself in that, but the one time I need something from her I feel like she's dogging me. I am in fact going to move in January, but in the mean time things seem to get worst. The other day she asked me for some $ and I told her I didn't have it so when I got home from work, there was a note telling me she's tired of me taking advantage of her. Seriously I don't know what she's talking about cause I never ask this woman for NOTHING!! I don't want to argue with her, but I'm tired of her hurting my feelings whenever I don't pay up. What can I do?
2006-12-17 15:42:25 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When a grown child returns home his relationship with Mom will never be the same. Sounds like your pulling your weight; and mommy-dearest is making you suffer so you won't do this again! GET THE HINT !!! Move ASAP. Mom got use to you being on your own. Please do yourself and move up your move-out date. That's why people say "you can never go home"...it doesn't exist after you're grown. Godloveya.
2006-12-17 16:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend have his Will so as? He might want to go away his sources in accordance to HIS desires and get all of it down in writing, large and criminal, beforehand he turns into to sick to do it. because you 2 at the on the spot are not married, he also needs to call you as his health Care power of criminal specialist. because it stands now, because you at the on the spot are not married, his mother and father would have you ever barred from his medical institution room for the period of his very last days considering they are his closest kin. I have seen it take position at hospitals the position I have worked. Your boyfriend might want to talk to a Wills, Estates, and Probate criminal specialist once a chance so as that HIS desires and needs may be said. make sure that you keep a replica of all criminal papers so as that they don't "disappear". do not ignore that lower than the regulation until eventually you're married or are registered loved ones companions, you do not have any criminal rights no count number how lengthy you've been at the same time, His mother and father, as his closest kin, would have all the criminal rights and also you'll have none.
2016-11-30 21:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by hertling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get everything in writing if you must. Then she can't argue that you aren't keeping up with your end of the deal.
If you have a rock solid plan to be out by January, then put up with her sh*t until then, & swear to yourself that you will never rely on her again no matter how bad you need her help.
2006-12-17 15:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out now
2006-12-17 15:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a friend move in with them until January.
2006-12-17 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own place ASAP and move. And don't ever be like your mother is someone comes to you in their time of need.
2006-12-17 15:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you go stay with a friend until you can get a place of your own that way she cant keep getting money of you. as long as you are paying her rent while you are staying with her you shouldn't have to give her any more money
2006-12-17 16:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move!!!
2006-12-17 16:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her...and move out.
2006-12-17 18:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by It's Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋