Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

2006-12-14 03:08:33 · 19 answers · asked by catrina y 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy and he was really into me at one time. He would text me and then if I wouldnt text him back he would call me right away. Times have changed and I got use to him acting this way and so I have been the one texting and calling him. He never calls me anymore. Do you think I scared him off because I became to attached?

2006-12-14 03:07:42 · 18 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Singles & Dating

I am at a crossroads in my marriage and don't know what to do. My wife and I have been married for about a year and a half. I'm 26 and she's 24. At the time of our wedding I received a phone call at work that she was having an affair. After some research, I found some emails that supported the call. It seemed like it was more of an emotional affair than anything. I confronted her and she fessed up and apoligized and promised to never talk to this guy again. We went through with the wedding. When we got back from the honeymoon, I caught her again talking to him. I also discovered an email account with her name as Mrs "his last name" with emails that suggested a more physical affair, him discussing dreams of having sex with her, etc. Also, in these emails they repeatedly professed their love for each other. She again apologized and promised not to talk to him. I brought her food at work yesteday and he was in her office chatting and she found nothing wrong with this. Should I leave?

2006-12-14 03:07:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have read several questions where people say they started to have feelings for someone they were chatting with. I have not done any chatting online so I might be mistaken but I do not see how that form of communication could lead to strong emotional feelings. Anyone have any experience or opinion?

2006-12-14 03:06:38 · 17 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is it true or is it a excuse, honestly!

2006-12-14 03:06:27 · 12 answers · asked by kase 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it possible to fall in love, and should you tell him? I have bee seeing this wonderful guy for only about 3 1/2 weeks. Out of all the relationships I have had, I never had a feeling like this. Being around him is so natural and comfortable for me, and him. He is really in to me and I am so in to him. I can close my eyes and see me with him in months to come. But is it bad to express too much of my feelings? I dont want to scare him, I want him to be happy and love me back. Whats the trick to getting a guy to love you...I hear so many of my girl friends tell me they can make a guy fall in love with them, whats that about? I think that the love is there, he's holding back. He's a scorpio, and he keeps it all bottled up...

2006-12-14 03:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by jakki09 2 in Singles & Dating

She said "Grey's Anatomy" has a Fall season, and that it's over until January or something. What kind of crap is that?

2006-12-14 03:05:50 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

wat is d best way to impress a guy who has attitude and smartness and in turn ur looks r normal

2006-12-14 03:05:23 · 12 answers · asked by dnt worry 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 03:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And I'm fed up, my sister has been a complete cow.

I have 3 children and my exes were violent
I get no help whatsoever from anyone and I'm also trying to come to terms with my daughter dying.

I haven't had a night out in over a year


I've been so positive recently and I didn't even kick off when I ended up paying her £400 council tax bill

I've got my driving test tomorrow and I feel so useless.

All this as she was supposed to babysit while I took the baby to the contact center to see her Dad.Then she said she didn't want to.

Her response was that I always expect people to feel sorry for me.

I haven't lived in my house for long and she had been telling me that I need to have it decorated ready for them to visit at Xmas.

Why are people so nasty
I'm always the 1st to help anyone if they need it.

2006-12-14 03:05:16 · 21 answers · asked by Elle J Morgan 6 in Family

we´ve only bin seeing eachother for 3 weeks but i really wanna get him this silver braclet with his name on it i saw the other day. what do u guys think?????

2006-12-14 03:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by brokenangelraven 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so my boyfriend is a great guy. He has been through a lot of not so great relationships and he seems to have a big issue with NOT letting things go - specially the things that his exgirlfriends did to him. He talks about it constantly and even gets upset over it. I know that Clinically speaking there are some other issues involved, like his low self esteem, his fear or rejection and not having the approval/acceptance from his dad.
This is the man that I love and would like to someday start a family with, however, I can already see this as beeing an obstacle in our relationship and I would like to help him figure things out, but I just don't know how. Is there anything I can do?
The good thing is that he is not affraid to seek help, because he is seeing a counselor, however, realistically speaking - I'm sure he is discussing any of this issues with her.

2006-12-14 03:04:35 · 15 answers · asked by gabster 3 in Singles & Dating

You've just broken up (his choice) and he says:
" On your wedding day i'll either be your best man or the man stood next to you holding your hand and gazing into your eyes, who knows."
He cares about you so much, wants to be your friend so you're still in each others lives but can't decide now what he wants in the future but knows he can't lose you....
...Would you then wait for this person if you truly could not envisage life without them and love them with all your heart?

2006-12-14 03:04:20 · 22 answers · asked by Fay 5 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem. I've been with Kay for about 3 years and known each other for 4 and a half. Last year august. anyway we were still talking and we were doing the friend thing. at that time we were both seeing other people. i told him i loved him and wanted him back and he told me that he would never get back with me. all in all i just said it was a dead issue. I started talking to greg seriously and then kerron then decided that he wanted me. i told him no and now here i am. I've been with greg for about 7/8 months. he wants to get married and the thing is besides the fact that its too early to get married, i can't get over kerron. I've tried to forget him but i always think about him and what he's doing and i don't know if he feels the same but i just feel like i'm under water. There maybe is no chance for me and kay again considering that his peeps hate me and my faily don't really like him (that would be the reason). But what do i do in the mean time? I dont even speak to him.

2006-12-14 03:04:05 · 4 answers · asked by wifeofkerron 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its what i notice anyways

2006-12-14 03:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does girls look at boys when have a boyfirend ready.?

2006-12-14 03:03:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 03:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by me_adoreu 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 03:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by Shatoya T 1 in Singles & Dating

when u about to want to hug a girl and she plays whit her hair and moves her leg ontot left. buasec this girl did it to me after chruch was over she keep on looking at me then left but i did not say ayeting. thats mean she dont have a boyfirend. rigiht?

2006-12-14 03:03:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi,my boyfriend's father expired a week ago.he is the only son,n he has all the responsibilities to support his mother.both of us are undergrads-engineering.
We planned to go for Masters of Science to US.all our plans were on the verge of being executed.we had already started studying for the exam.
but now he cannot leave his mother alone and go to US.I cant find any solution to this,n i cant even see him heartbroken due to broken dreams.what am ii to do?do i ask him to happily accept this and support his mother......n leave his dreams?or is there any other better way out of this?please suggest some middle way.

2006-12-14 03:02:10 · 12 answers · asked by ankita v 2 in Family

2006-12-14 03:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been sleeping with my ex's best friend.... and we enjoy sex with each but we both are not the types to have serious committed relatioships... we like to be free and just enjoy what we do... we are sort of alike in that way.... do you think us being alike will bring us together, or do you think it will just remain a sexual relationship? me and my boyfriend broke up about three months ago, and then shortly after that, I was sleeping with his friend. but we have came to the mutal understanding that its just sex between us.... and we feel the same as far as having relationships.. we don't want to settle down and we are not looking to get married.... do you think us having the same views might bring us together in a relationship, or do you think we should just keep it strictly sexual..... I don't know what to do.... someone AN INTELLIGENT ADULT please give me some advice should I keep sleeping with him or should I stop and find someone else?

2006-12-14 03:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by Simorah Serenity 2 in Singles & Dating

See there is this girl I don't like tooking to her she is a fat 12 year old girl that thinks she is the most hotties girl in the world but she isn't.

2006-12-14 03:01:18 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

wasted month missing some guy then find out he wasn't all that?

2006-12-14 03:01:13 · 11 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

i am seeking christmas help for my daughter who will turn 1 dec,17 i have tryed many things but i can not seem to get the help someone please tell me what to do.

2006-12-14 03:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by preci0us8212002 1 in Weddings

I am attracted to an older coworker in his mid to late 40's. I am 29. How do I go about letting him know I am interested? He looks at me a lot so I think he is at least physically interested.

2006-12-14 03:00:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married 21 years and have five kids, 18 down to 9. A new woman (married 30 years) came to work at my company, and I have totally fallen for her. She's everything I have always wanted in a woman - beautiful (46, looks like she's 30), smart, edgy, funny and kind, and many other things absent in my own wife. I know she likes me too.

I feel like I have lived my whole life wanting things or people I can't have, held back by responsibility, fidelity and guilt. Our own departmental boss had an affair with his assistant, and wound up divorcing is wife and marrying this woman (who also divorced her husband). He is pretty happy now.

Should I go for it? I don't think I have ever really loved my wife. I was never too excited about her, married her coming off a relationship with another I desperately wanted to marry. Now I have found love again, and I don't know what to do.

2006-12-14 02:59:43 · 17 answers · asked by Jack 5 in Marriage & Divorce

he wants to start a family and i think he is going to purpose to me on christmas ilove him but i dont think im ready i im scared if i say no he might end his life cuz he always says if i ever left him he would not want to live anymore what do i do plzz help someone

2006-12-14 02:59:22 · 1 answers · asked by kase 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm crushing on my neighbor, bigtime. He knows it, but hasn't made any move yet. Another neighbor of mine told me that my crush shaved his head because his hair was falling out; he has cancer. But, I have been suspecting that she likes him too.

Is she saying he has cancer just to make me not like him anymore? But the weird thing is, I still like him, even more! Do you think she's telling the truth?Is that why he hasn't asked me out yet?

PS: She told me that she asked my crush's brother why he shaved his head and then he told her that my crush has cancer.

What should I do?Ask him myself or ask his brother?

2006-12-14 02:59:17 · 14 answers · asked by Jayden 3 in Singles & Dating

We are having some ups and downs. He is depressed because he lost his job. He sleeps all day and doesn't leave the house. I try so hard to get him up and out of bed and to cheer him up but nothing is working. I am scared of what might happen if he doesnt get out of this funk. Its been going on for 4 months. He is not too happy with me because he asked that I "step it up" financially while he goes through this and told me last night that I haven't done enough $$$ wise. I had to go to school to get some training for a license so I should be making more money by the first of the year. That hurt me when he said that because I am doing everything I can to take care of him right now and several months ago he didn;t want me to have a job. How should i cheer him up? and should i feel guilty for not making more money?

2006-12-14 02:58:44 · 14 answers · asked by kerra c 1 in Marriage & Divorce