Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

My son has. This upsets me greatly. I can understand if I were dead, or a criminal or drug addict or something, but I'm not. I want to be with my son every day, but my ex-girlfriend just made up a bunch of lies and took him. Has anyone grown up with an experience like that? Has anyone had a father that they loved but was withheld from him because of their mothers bitterness and manipulative nature?

2006-12-14 02:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by deviatedheart 2 in Family

i met her last month and started dating. But she has a relationship that she is stuck with, the former boyfriend has spent so much for especually he paid for her school fees in london but am in love with her, although they had problem until she met me but now the guy is lunching a come back and the lady now said i should stay away from her. she didnt even want me t call her. The question is how do i win her heart back cause i love her too much
dayo

2006-12-14 02:46:40 · 4 answers · asked by d-one 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married my husband 5 years ago, from the second day into our marriage he started being abusive. I slowly lost myself in that treatment. Now I am beginning my divorce, which I am so excited about. My question is what can I do to find myself again, to get back to the real me? Thanks for your help!

2006-12-14 02:46:36 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 02:46:24 · 3 answers · asked by jbird 2 in Singles & Dating

i took her to court last month to see my daughter whom i see on fri from 2 till sat at 2 then my sis has an hour drive to bring her home, (i have no prob with this as i dont want to see mum) not one person was concerned about how my child felt about extra time at my house, i feel like noone cares about her my ex just wants to hurt me, where do i go from here?

2006-12-14 02:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have a 3 yer old son so I need to know what to do for his sake so please help me by answering this question thank you.

2006-12-14 02:45:52 · 20 answers · asked by Jim H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when u about to want to hug a girl and she plays whit her hair and moves her leg ontot left. buasec this girl did it to me after chruch was over she keep on looking at me then left but i did not say ayeting.

2006-12-14 02:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

I've ben through a bad relationship and i want 2 know what i should do? I don't know what to do

2006-12-14 02:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i have this friend that really likes this boy that she is going out with but he likes this other girl and the other day someone got on the girls email that the boy liked and asked him out and he said yes and now i want to tell her but the girl that the guy like does not want me to and im scared that if i tell my friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her. Then my friend that didn't want me to will get mad at me! What should i do?

2006-12-14 02:45:19 · 16 answers · asked by hbburg2012 2 in Friends

My husband has a x-mas party next week. I don't know if I want to go because a girl works with him that slept with my brother and almost caused their marriage to break. My brother has nothing to do with her anymore and it's good he worked out his problems. But I can't seem to let the idea of this other girl sleeping with a married man, my brother and be ok with it. I so want to hit her everytime i see her, but i don't want my husband to be alone either. what should i do?

2006-12-14 02:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok soo my friend has been dating this guy for like a week and hes leavinng to go to Greece cuz hes in the Navy..hes 19 what would be a good gift??? remember they have only been dating for like a week

2006-12-14 02:44:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have enough problems of my own, family, guys, friends. You all know the teen drama.
Added to this, my sisters try to use me against my mom who drinks to much. Sandra, the oldest, doesn't even have a mother-daughter relationship with her and it seems like Jenna only likes her for the money. Sandra's 31 and Jenna's 26.
My cousins grandmother passed away yesterday. That cousin plus three others where all crying and I felt like I couldn't cry because I was the oldest and needed to comfort them.
My friend thinks she may be pregnant and asks me everything and I have no clue what ovulating even is!
Most people get one story for our school newspaper but I got 3 and now the director is mad that I'm not there today because I'm home sick so I missed a deadline.
My spanish teacher got mad that I walked out of class yesterday when I found out that my cousins grandma had passed away and wrote me up for truancy so I may have in school suspension when I get back.
What do I do?

2006-12-14 02:43:56 · 17 answers · asked by Rebalicious 1 in Family

2006-12-14 02:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by Jim H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not going to go out on that night, simply coz every time I go out to party on New Year's eve. I see crazy drunk ppl get into fight and get hurt. I would rather not go out on that particular night.

2006-12-14 02:43:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or vice versa? Is it normal to desire company or is it wierd?

2006-12-14 02:42:44 · 15 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

While in pursuit of a man,she will make an exerted effort to look her best.Once he is caught,(either by ring or housekey) she feels her work is done and begins to let herself go.When confronted,she will call him an" insensitive pig" and blame her "bones ?" ,her kids, medicine,her man or any number of B.S. outside influences. When in fact she knows her weight gain is caused by too much food and too little exercise and is fully within her controll.In some cases the weight is gained on purpose as a way to get out of the relationship.Bottom line, with very few exceptions a womans weight is entirely within her control and manipulated to her advantage.*** These observations are supported by your(Answers users) answers to my last few questions.

2006-12-14 02:42:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:42:10 · 12 answers · asked by petrodollars 1 in Singles & Dating

While in pursuit of a man,she will make an exerted effort to look her best.Once he is caught,(either by ring or housekey) she feels her work is done and begins to let herself go.When confronted,she will call him an" insensitive pig" and blame her "bones ?" ,her kids, medicine,her man or any number of B.S. outside influences. When in fact she knows her weight gain is caused by too much food and too little exercise and is fully within her controll.In some cases the weight is gained on purpose as a way to get out of the relationship.Bottom line, with very few exceptions a womans weight is entirely within her control and manipulated to her advantage.*** These observations are supported by your(Answers users) answers to my last few questions.

2006-12-14 02:41:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 02:41:10 · 28 answers · asked by naomi t 1 in Singles & Dating

because i really need one right now :(

2006-12-14 02:40:28 · 22 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Singles & Dating

we met in july, our first date was sept. 20th Since then we have been inseperable... we have decided to see each other "exclusivily" and things are going well. He rents at his best friends house but he just got married and wants his house back so my boyfriend has 3 months to move out. He just applied to buy his friends trailer( a nice one in a manufactured home community BTW) and was approved, however, he must be approved by the park as well, which may not happen according to his friend...N E way, If he cannot get approved, is it approiate to tell him he can stay with me (paying rent of course) until he can get a place or we can see how it goes and maybe he can just live with me... He is there all the time any way... I know it is soon, and i don't want to ruin it, but if he has a hard time finding another place... I want to help him out....but will asking scare him away?

2006-12-14 02:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:39:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi there. I am a 33 year old U.S born and rasied East Indian Muslim male and recently married a lovely Pakistani woman from Dallas, Texas. She really wants me to visit Pakistan one day as she is from Karachi. I was born and raised here in the USA and from what I see on the news from bombings of Western targets such as KFC, and bombings all over the country, I am a little apprehensive about visiting. She understands but she still wants me to go. Do you think I have a right not to go that is legit? I mean, I am sure most Pakistani's are law abiding citizens but just the anti american sentiment from what I always see and hear on the news is disturbing. Would you go there if you were not Pakistani?

2006-12-14 02:38:55 · 8 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Marriage & Divorce

jk lol...that was just to get you to come to my question. Do you think i have a chance with this girl? Her last boyfriend was taller and bigger than me. Although, we both wore glasses. Like i don't know if i can do this...it seems harder with this girl...shes absolutely drop dead sexy. I don't know...please help!!

2006-12-14 02:38:22 · 16 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Singles & Dating

I was on the phone with my girlfriend and had to use the restroom. Like I usually do, I take the cell phone with me into the bathroom. This time, my girlfriend informs that she "heard" me urinating and thought it was gross. I've done this countless times with her on the phone. Why now, does she decide to bring it up? She tells me all the time that she is taking off her bra and panties while talking to me on the phone. Why is this any different?

2006-12-14 02:38:01 · 24 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by skye m 1 in Friends

I also have 2 older sister, ages 26 and 31. This bothers them so much that at Thanksgiving they stopped talking to my mom. I realize that my mom drinks too much and it doesn't bother me to stay home alone but it's my sisters that have the big problem with this and they don't even live here. Then they want me to tell them everything wrong that my mom does. I refuse to. The 31 year old even wants me to get a job at Sea World this summer and move in with her. I think it's great that she cares but I really don't want to leave my hometown. I love it here in the summer and I love being with my friends. I already have a job and I'm planning to work there this summer. Also, both of my sisters dump all of their problems on me. What can I do to get them to realize that they shouldn't be 'putting all their weight on me' and using me against our mom? What SHOULD I do? Please help me.

2006-12-14 02:36:30 · 7 answers · asked by Rebalicious 1 in Family

please write the reality............

2006-12-14 02:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now and we really like eachother, we mess around, just kissing and a bit of touching. Last night we were talking and we both agreed that we wouldnt see other people, he is not my bf and im not his gf, but we promised we wudnt see other people. we see eachother most days of the week and he works alot. i no im only 16 and he is 18, but last night he said to me, he doesnt want me as a girlfriend untill he loves me. i dont understand what he means by that, i thought usually you date then the love comes or is that just me?? one of my friends said to me that maybe he is postboning us dating as he mite want to keep his options open, i really dont know. some one please help....

2006-12-14 02:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by brokenangelraven 1 in Singles & Dating