Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

Ok this is the thing, my best friend is married w/2 kids. She has a great husband that try's his hardest to do what he can for her and the kids. Trust me she appreciates it. She talks to people online and has always been honest with them, telling them she's married and has kids, etc. Well she met this one person, again she was honest. He was like cool. Somewhere along the lines he started to have like a crush on her and she started to feel the same for him. She has never ever cheated on her husband. Ever. And it's not like she plans on doing it either, my question is..what do you think she should do. And i know most of you are going to say " She needs to leave that other guy alone", "She's a whore" blah blah blah...Thats not what i want to hear. She loves her husband very very much. I know it's possible to love more than one person. The thing is, is that this guy knows she married and he's in no way wanting to pressure her at all. What do you do when you have feelings for more than 1 ?

2006-12-14 02:35:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 02:34:54 · 14 answers · asked by aachi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well where can I start I was with my ex boyfriend for almost two years. We broke up and he went overseas due him being in the military and I live here in the states. We have remained friends best friends since our break up witch was over a year ago. But thru out that year of us talking..We have still been sexual with each other..tell each other we love one another talked about our future togehter our kids..he supports me with everything that I do.we talk on the phone every single day... only thing is I asked him if we were getting back together he says he dont wanna talk about it until he see's me face to face..then the other day we were on the phone he thought i had fallen asleep on him, and he said to me baby i love you so much im going to marry you I promise. but im still confused because we are not offically boyfriend and girlfriend right now and he said he does not want to talk about it right now..can any one help me do you think he is playing games with me?

2006-12-14 02:34:07 · 26 answers · asked by Life It Is What It Is 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you expect anything back.and if you don't and you tell him this,but he still insists and pays you back is this to give you a hint that you are just friendz and nothing else will ever come of it.

2006-12-14 02:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for over a decade have children together. We met in high school. We had a rough marraige, I did everything you could think of to stay together. I have been a good wife and mother. About 1 year ago I met a man and we became friends it has been 2 years now, friendship lead to an affair. I now have feelings for this man. I don't love him. I think I just like the sex. I now have a hard time having sex with my husband. I know I messed up. I just wish I could fall in love with my husband again. ( For the record I have been to counseling and all.. but I refuse to admit to infedelity. Anyone's advise will help.. Thanks

2006-12-14 02:33:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It was a long term affair involving love letters and adventurous sex without condoms, (anal even, the OW told me) he has, at last, after many lies, admitted all of this! He seems deeply sorry and promises to make up for the hurt he has caused. I am trying to move on but find it hard as I now need to get myself tested for STD, have financial problems due to him being out of work for months and getting emails from the OW, she uses different addresses each time. I feel he has disrespected me in the worse possible way a man could do to a wife he allegedly loves so much! My confidence is at an all time low; my heart is in bits, I cry all the time and feel used and abused! Over the years, he has worked overseas and I have stayed at home to raise our children, I am beginning to think that this may not be the first time as I have had suspicions in the past but brushed them aside! Has anybody else been in this situation and can this marriage survive knowing what I know?

2006-12-14 02:33:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you ever wonder
What world am I living under...
(Accoustic guitar plays)

My world took a drastic change
When you first came
The power that you've injected into me
Makes our love steady and impossible to change

(Chorus)
Oh girl,my sweet honey
I just wanna tell you
You're like my bittersweet chocolate
Brings me everlasting joy yet a little of harsh truth
But I still wanna proclaim to the world
That I will always love you....

Flowers shoot up from the cobblestones
You told me softly in a heavenly tone
That I was your Mr.Right
And a guy like me was really hard to find
I laughed and nodded my head twice
Telling you that you were really nice

(bridge)
And now we're inseparable
Our hearts bonding as one
May our love stay strong for eternity
Not anything can change it,not even money

You're my angel...baby
Your words warming my heart every minute
And now I only pray
For our burning passions for each other to stay...

Do give comments on my song and do be more lenient..coz im only 12 uh..

2006-12-14 02:31:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is a good way to bring in the New Year with my boyfriend?

2006-12-14 02:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Email me and I'll give you the info. If you need to vent, this is the place.

2006-12-14 02:31:34 · 5 answers · asked by koral2800 4 in Family

I admit I suffer from bipolar disorder. This may have been the reason for the end of my marriage two years ago. I admit I have done things that nobody should ever do. But I have learned from my mistakes. I want to make a fresh start.

I have started seeing a therapist for my BP and he has put me on medication. For now it is working. As long as I take my medication on schedule and attend every appointment I am fine.

Lately my therapist has suggested telling my son about my problems. I have not told him that I suffer from BP. I didn't really want him to know. But my therapist says that by not telling him and keeping it bottled up is keeping me from making a break-through.

He comes to me for guidance and support. I feel that if I tell him it would destroy the father-son bond I have worked hard to build. I feel he won't respect me anymore. What if telling him causes more pain and sorrow? What if telling him causes him to hate me? I couldn't go through that. Do i tell him or not?

2006-12-14 02:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

talk on yahoo IM, im goin through so much not eating ot sleeping, I lost 7lbs b/c he sends me mixed signals. I told him I might be Pregant, he tells his mom and his Dad finds out an say "You should leave that girl alone" His family bashes me, an lie, they dont even know me like that. My ex said that we shouldnt talk on the phone or see each other. I called him today an he said the reason why he told me that was because he said so. This has been goin on for a month an it started when his brother tried to run me off the road and I got my parents involved, ever since then his family are blaming it on me, an said I was lting abt what happened on the Highway, this caused my ex an I to break apart, his brother has been wanting to break us up an now he has won. All I wanted was to left alone and this is the result. I dont feel like I was wrong 4 telling my parents. I love him so much, an he says he loves me, before this drama he proposed to me. What should I do, why is he doing this,it hurts

2006-12-14 02:31:04 · 3 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:30:20 · 17 answers · asked by wgk1989 1 in Singles & Dating

That a relationship needs to be spiced up a little bit more by adding a threesome or some other thing into the picture. Should one try something to spice things up so that later on in life that can look back and say yeah I did try that or should one just continue on the way things are and not worry or should one worry that things may get ruined if they do not try something new.

2006-12-14 02:30:01 · 20 answers · asked by fhockey1 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay ... As you all may seen my previous question .. that i was goign threw a really hard breakup and stuff .. I still love him dearly but i gotta move on ... So heres the deal i met this guy that i have been working with and hes really nice.. so we went on a date to the movies ..And we had a great time.. Im not used to the things he did cause I never had a gentleman take me out before I mean I thought I was in a movie.. He came to my house brought a flower to my mom and me.. Open the door for me.. (Lil things) But, my first time in that environment so I was shocked. Were two complete different persons he’s this rich person who likes music I hate, into sculls im not ... Funny things but were completely different.. We talk every single day.. And he wants to go on another date with me.. But I freeze when im with him I feel he’s too good for me.. and I just got out a relationship .. What should I do ? .. Why do I feel were so different and that makes me feel stupid. When im with him ?

2006-12-14 02:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you lend on your family.your family is everything to you without then your nothin.you try and try to make it without you family but you can't.your family is always there for you no matter what you do.you think they don't love you they do.they only trying to protect you from harm.kids see it that ''they won't let us do anything''but its not like that they only trying to help.if only people can relize that there family's are important.

2006-12-14 02:29:09 · 15 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family

Yesterday I was img with my best friend when I noticed my boyfriend had signed onto msn. I imd him but he didn't respond. His status said online (not away/idle just online) and I even got a pop-up that said he had just signed on. He claims he was not online but studying for finals. He swears up n down he didn't log on. Is there any other explanation as to why the msn pop-up said he just signed on and his status said he was online? Or is my boyfriend telling me tales?

2006-12-14 02:28:54 · 24 answers · asked by Relda 1 in Singles & Dating

its actually for myself. What do I do with my life?

2006-12-14 02:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by Egyptian Hero 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a relationship with this girl for a month now, and she decided to break up with me three days ago. All of the details can be found here: http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061212072240AAeNghK I only have one more opportunity to see her in class, and that is our final exam on Monday. I left things on a negative note and want to repair them. Should I call her the day before class and tell her that I'm sorry that I asked indirectly for sex and that I would wish that the other person feel the same? I would also tell her that I thought that I moved the relationship way too fast. Should I call her the day before or try to approach her before the final? After that I would not call her for about 2 weeks to a month. It really hurts inside, I'm having problems sleeping, and I'm getting sick. She said she just wants to be friends but I said no, now I want to change. I want her as a friend and then I want to get back together. Thanks everyone.

2006-12-14 02:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently i went 2 an Australian resort and saw wild kangaroos. I got so aroused and started fantasizing about them. the next day i got undressed and slept with Jane the Kangaroo. I think shes pregnant with my son.Im goin name him Kangaroo Jack. Im so proud iz that a problem

2006-12-14 02:27:54 · 18 answers · asked by Skeeter 1 in Singles & Dating

About what happened after are first time having sex!!!I am at school right now and all his freinds know???What happened was i
borrowed by dads car for a date since my bf's car was in the shop and i had forgotten to pick up mine from the mechanics because it needed an oil change.Since my parents were away i was lazy and just borrowed theirs.Anyway i decided it was time to loose my virginity so to be romantic my bf got wine from his parents place, got some sheets,flower petal and two candles.We parked in my favorite spot with a great view.Everything was perfect and we were cuddling afterward till the car started rolling backwards because we forgot to put the parking break on.The candles fell and the back seat caught on fire.Needless to say the car was damaged .

2006-12-14 02:26:42 · 16 answers · asked by Benny g 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want a laptop for xmas this year but thought such a big ticket item would be out of reach for me to receive as a gift but the other day I stumbled upon my boyfriends paypal account and low and behold there was a payment to a laptop company for $200 on a Ebay laptop. I was excited even though its not a new one but still its a start. That day I was talking to my mother on the phone and I mentioned how I thought that he got me a laptop and she let out a huge sigh and was eager to get off the phone. Thing is not to be greedy but im sure the laptop my mom bought me is a lot better and brand new, but still my b/f has spent a lot on me and I wouldnt want to hurt his feelings. How do I deal with this?

2006-12-14 02:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i had a boy friend then we had sex then he breaks up with me what sould i do?

2006-12-14 02:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by shelbie l 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if a man calls but seems to wait for me to suggest meeting up. He also leaves gaps in between making contact, sometimes as long as 2 weeks. He is always very chatty and agrees to meet up when i suggest it. Is he unsure of my feelings or just fickle and not wanting a serious relationship? He is younger than me, so don't want to appear heavy or intense by asking him directly. Wanted some clues from men out there who have acted the same.

2006-12-14 02:26:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two yrs. now. He's lazy around the house, doesn't show me affection hardly ever, he's an alchoholic, and I've got a gut feeling he's cheating on me. (We live together, and the only car we have is mine, so it would be easy.) On the other hand he's wonderful with my son, and is really sweet to me when he wants to be, he works 10hrs. a day, so he pulls in more money than I do waitressing. That puts me in a kind of financially dependant spot. Yesterday he left for the store to get a pizza, and was gone 2 and 1\2 hrs! I got upset and told him I was moving out....but I don't know if i can 'cuz of the money. I do love him though...ugh advice!!!! PLEASE!!! Only serious answers please!

2006-12-14 02:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

C.D .....should i buy her a new one for christmas

2006-12-14 02:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 7 years and I am completely out of ways to have fun with my husband. i am not freaky but i would like to be. Can any men tell me what they like to do and have done to them?

2006-12-14 02:24:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if some one loves u means(male)how to find easily and wat changes we can find whether he is in love?we hav to find it easily?how it is possible?is it?

2006-12-14 02:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by abirami n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 02:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Singles & Dating

He got mad and broke up wit me because i wasn't at home. I spend a lot of time with my friends and he wanted me to see him but i was already gone. we was 2 gether 4 about 3 and a half months. The break up was very crucial for me cause that was my first love and i lost my virginity to hin and something so minor like that was not nithing for him to break up with me about.

2006-12-14 02:23:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Other than sex obviously........

2006-12-14 02:23:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating