My bf an I are trying to work things out, but he says that he needs space, a few weeks, he says we only can?

Question

talk on yahoo IM, im goin through so much not eating ot sleeping, I lost 7lbs b/c he sends me mixed signals. I told him I might be Pregant, he tells his mom and his Dad finds out an say "You should leave that girl alone" His family bashes me, an lie, they dont even know me like that. My ex said that we shouldnt talk on the phone or see each other. I called him today an he said the reason why he told me that was because he said so. This has been goin on for a month an it started when his brother tried to run me off the road and I got my parents involved, ever since then his family are blaming it on me, an said I was lting abt what happened on the Highway, this caused my ex an I to break apart, his brother has been wanting to break us up an now he has won. All I wanted was to left alone and this is the result. I dont feel like I was wrong 4 telling my parents. I love him so much, an he says he loves me, before this drama he proposed to me. What should I do, why is he doing this,it hurts

It hurts so much that I take sleepin pills to go to bed, he knows Im stressed out completely, an with the fact that I might be pregnant. His family wont let off my back, if I confront them my ex will be mad, How to i handle this?

Answer 1

Calm down. Go get a pregnancy test. If you aren't pregnant cut him and his family loose. If you are pregnant, you have a decision to make. Take a good long, hard look at this guy and his family. Do you really want to have a lifelong relationship with these jerks?

He is acting this way because he does not love you. People who love you do not treat you this way. Please for your own sake, take control of your life back and ditch this jerk!

Good luck.

Answer 2

several things.

1. If you think you are pregnant get a pregnancy test

2. If you are pregnant...think you are...why are you taking sleeping pills?

3. Your relationship with this guy is never going to get better. Trust me, it is much better to be alone then stuck in a spiraling out of control relationship.

4. You don't have a good relationship with his family- this is basically an ender right here.

My advice is to move on...and forget the guy. It is his loss.

Answer 3

i think too that you need a break.

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