Would a man keep calling (irregularly) if not interested?

Question

What does it mean if a man calls but seems to wait for me to suggest meeting up. He also leaves gaps in between making contact, sometimes as long as 2 weeks. He is always very chatty and agrees to meet up when i suggest it. Is he unsure of my feelings or just fickle and not wanting a serious relationship? He is younger than me, so don't want to appear heavy or intense by asking him directly. Wanted some clues from men out there who have acted the same.

We've only had two dates. Isn't it a little early to start asking him where he thinks the relationship is going and what he thinks of me?

Answer 1

I know this is difficult, but sometimes you just have to ask. Perhaps you can call him instead of waiting for him to call you. If he doesn't call you back in a reasonable amount of time (a day or so), then he's not that interested, or as the others have said, he's got other women he's seeing. Bottom line is that if someone's interested, they'll keep calling.

Answer 2

I think your male caller feels a little shy and intimidated if you say you are older. He would not ring at all if he wasn't interested. Stop suggesting you meet up and see how long it is before he suggests it. Meanwhile go to the theatre and enjoy a full social life!

Answer 3

He may be shy, or have many g/fs, or very busy with his other pursuits (job/study/hobby), or simply not very interested in you. When you next talk to him, have a better understanding of where he stands in his realtionship with you, and then proceed from there. Age difference, unless it is substantial, shouldnt be a problem.

Answer 4

he may not be all that interested. or he's got a number of other prospects that keep him busy when he's not with you.

Answer 5

a lady in the streets, a prostitute in the bedroom, a chef in the kitchen and a cleaner around the house

Answer 6

sounds to me hes not really interested sorry but u know i could be wrong gage it u should be able to told yourself