Okay ... As you all may seen my previous question .. that i was goign threw a really hard breakup and stuff .. I still love him dearly but i gotta move on ... So heres the deal i met this guy that i have been working with and hes really nice.. so we went on a date to the movies ..And we had a great time.. Im not used to the things he did cause I never had a gentleman take me out before I mean I thought I was in a movie.. He came to my house brought a flower to my mom and me.. Open the door for me.. (Lil things) But, my first time in that environment so I was shocked. Were two complete different persons he’s this rich person who likes music I hate, into sculls im not ... Funny things but were completely different.. We talk every single day.. And he wants to go on another date with me.. But I freeze when im with him I feel he’s too good for me.. and I just got out a relationship .. What should I do ? .. Why do I feel were so different and that makes me feel stupid. When im with him ?
2006-12-14 02:29:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds as if this guy is a charmer, since you have only been on one date and you don't feel ready take a break from the dating scene for awhile and let the guy know you are dating that you think that it is too soon to date and that you appreciate everything he has doen for you so far, you obviously don't want someone who intimidates you, Maybe this guy is rich but does not care about money or what he is wearing, some guys do that. He could be thinking the same things you are thinking, but you could talk to him and let him know how you feel and find out what he thinks. You don't really have to havea lot in common to like each other as long as the respect and loyalty are there and the communication line is open. If he is any kind of guy to start with he will take you for who you are and won't be interested in what you have. This other guy on the other hand that you are no longer with and are trying to forget, it can be hard but there are ways to that, emerger yourself in things you like to when you are not working or on a date, like work on a project you have been meaning to get around to or watch your favorite team on tv go out with your best friends for lunch or have them over to your house or apartment, You know you don't love this other guy anymore and you know what you have to do, but it is up to you to see it through, Do what you feel you have to and not what will satisfy the other person.
2006-12-14 02:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Krowlik Darl, it is tough to be a Christian especially when you (and pls don't take this the wrong way) Esp when you have been up to your eyeballs in it an also a new Christian, or backslidden heaps, so you have never really got the meat of God. Believe me, because I have honestly been there, and the battles, spiritual/physical mind games were almost too hard to bear, "How much can a Koala Bear?" *smile* Darl I am going to tell you something now that has taken me many yrs to learn and it is the secret of living a great life. You have probably heard it before, but I may just tell you something more too. But all of this is necessary; You must formand have a personal Relationship with Jesus. ******* That's the main thing, every thing else He will help you to find, if you want to. Like; Church and going to ladies meetings, and or Bible studies are a must especially in the beginning. You must put in effort to get results , Yeah? And here is Gods, well there's no secret in it, it is just that some/many religions don't believe in it. Be baptised in water, sorry for your sins and ever confessing and being alert to them. And how it all is achieved is by being Baptised in the Holy Spirit. Jesus prior to leaving us, promised He would give us a helper, that would guide us into all truth. Then you will speak in tongues (another way of praying) If i were to write you all I wanted to It would almost be a book. So please read and ask your Pastor about being Baptised in the Holy Spirit?
2016-03-13 06:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it can never be a 100% match coz all of us are unique, sometimes to achieve something in life u have to give up some thing. Seems to be a good guy, if yiu want him in your life, See if you can blend the taste. For eg if u dont like the music he likes, try to se why u dont like it measure pro's n cons and if there are more pro's accept his taste afterall, how long will the music go on?? Also never ever ever ever think u are too tiny for something always keep yourself so high that before making your destiny even God should ask you tell me what's your advice??? All the best
2006-12-14 02:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that you are improving the quality of life you have been needing for a long time.
You evidently were in a bad relationship and a tough breakup. Ok. Move on.
This is your chance. Don't blow it by being so hard on yourself.
You deserve having someone treat you like a real lady!!
2006-12-14 02:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and enjoy the time. There is enough time ahead of you to determine if he's your knight. Go out on a few dates with him, see if you two connect. It will help keep your mind off the old one and give you something to look forward to.
And try not to over think the situation. I know, hard to do and if you figure out how, please tell me!
2006-12-14 02:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Buttons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your lack of self esteem and that you are used to someone not treating you as well..that doesn't mean you aren't good enough or smart enough or pretty enough..i would bet he would also be the type of person who could help bolster your self esteem just by showing you how you should be treated..and there is nothing wrong with having differences..sometimes that makes the relationship far more interesting
2006-12-14 02:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You're just nervous about starting a new relationship because it is unfamiliar. We are creatures of habit afterall.
Take the chance and believe in yourself. I'm sure that he has noticed that you're nervous. Just take things slow and enjoy the new experiences you encounter.
One more thing, don't worry about whether you are worthy of his attention. Who he grants his affection to is his choice.
2006-12-14 02:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy his company go out with him. Let him know you enjoy his company but you just got out of a serious relationship and you are not ready for another one.
Even if nothing happens you could end up with a great friend.
2006-12-14 02:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes opposites attract. If you really like him, and he likes you, it's sounds like a good match.
If your insecure about your feelings, try talking to him.
He may understand and try to help you, after all it sounds like he is someone worth investing time in. Go with the flow, and follow your heart.
2006-12-14 02:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by looking at yourself through his eyes not yours. He obviously likes you and wants to spend time with you. Tell him about your recent breakup as an excuse for being shy around him and tell him you would love to go out with him again. Start having fun!
2006-12-14 03:49:28 · answer #10 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋