That a relationship needs to be spiced up a little bit more by adding a threesome or some other thing into the picture. Should one try something to spice things up so that later on in life that can look back and say yeah I did try that or should one just continue on the way things are and not worry or should one worry that things may get ruined if they do not try something new.
2006-12-14 02:30:01 · 20 answers · asked by fhockey1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're dating a dick. And you're making it worse by sleeping with him.
He has little or no respect for you beyond being a sexual creature. A 3some would do nothing but complicate your relationship.
Lemme guess, is he addicted to porn? That's your first clue and the reason why you can never measure up sexually.
Always remember, if you can do better then you should. Move on, find someone who will treasure you for the queen you are, completely, sexually and in all ways.
2006-12-14 02:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by simm 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
not all men just some of them. My bf says he would never want to do that.. ( i think he is full of though lol) he says he only wants to be with me and if you truly love somebody that is how it is. IF he wants to spice things up there are many other ways to do it then bringing in somebody else. Just explore new things and leave the people out of it
2006-12-14 02:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an immature person to me. Did he mention letting you have an extra guy? I bet not. Tit for tat I say. I wouldn't bother staying with this guy. Do it if you want but accept the fact that the relationship will die a painful death. This crap is spoon fed to guys when they're young and the dumb ones buy into it.
He doesn't even understand how to respect you and you probably will never be more than an object to him.
2006-12-14 02:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by CoreSpeedMetalThrashGenreRockRap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way things would get ruined if you dont try something new is if he's a horny guy who does not love you and is only in for the sex..if you dont feel comfortable "spicing" things up, then don't.
I personally think sex should be between TWO people who love each other. 3somes are nothing but a mere way of lusting for another person and getting some from them.
2006-12-14 02:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥JCluvsu2!♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ooooooh this is a hard one!!! You will hear lots of points on why or why not. But, this answer is simple. WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU NEED TO ADD SOMEONE ELSE TO THE BED? Two people should be able to satisfy each other, without including someone else. Although, you can do it, and it can be fun. If he feels that it will FIX something, then something else is obviously wrong. It is your choice, but if he really thinks the way you say he does, then a 3some will not fix things! I assure you!!
2006-12-14 02:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Proffessional word of advice: never introduce another person into your bedroom, it will always end up something else. Yes most men fantisize of such things as this but it is a bad idea when you consider disease and what not. also there are other ways to spice things up, toys, outfits, etc... You will get enjoyment and he will die of excitement just seeing you with them. Flirt with him and show him you are more than he can handle, and he will not want another, because you are already too much!
2006-12-14 02:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good question..My husband asked me to have one..i quickly asked him if we have one with a woman are we gone have one with a man lol just to see what he would say..he said Hell No..so I'm like why would you want me to degrade myself and you are not willing to..I have heard that a 3some tears relationships apart..its like allowing him to cheat right in your damn face..because if he would do it in front of you he most def would do it behind your back fell what im saying..but then i have some friends that say it was a nice experience and wouldn't mind having a girlfriend they both can share..must be out of her mind but if you feel that you have to do that to make a man want you then he doesn't want you he wants his cake and to eat it too..good luck in your decision I hope you are happy with what ever you decide.
2006-12-14 02:41:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Thick Wit It 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like to try new things. If I'm in a relationship I really value and wouldn't risk anything in the world to lose then I would never openly mention it.
If this guy isn't your soul mate, kill your attachment to him, have your fun, and start looking for someone new now.
2006-12-14 02:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by angelicusbeefus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know my husband asked for a threesome. I said hell no and we fought about it for a while. I felt it was a reason for him to cheat. I told him I married him and I had promised to be faithful. If he was unhappy we needed to resolve it another way. If he felt he needed a threesome, I told him he didnt need a family. I also said, if it came up again I was leaving and there was no chance for a second chance.
2006-12-14 02:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not all men. If he really loved you he wouldn't want you to watch him or take part in him shag ging someone else. This guy is a loser be strong and dump him. Or just call his bluff and say 'I'd love to shall I call your friend or will you?' Seriously though he's lower than something on the bottom of your shoe and you deserve a man who will want you and only you.
2006-12-14 02:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋