Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

well i had a boy friend then we had sex then he breaks up with me what sould i do?

2006-12-14 02:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by shelbie l 1 in Singles & Dating

I need suggestions on how to discuss the fact that I'm really close to walking out on my Husband. I've talked to him about his drinking and the problems that have arose this year because of it. Everytime I bring it up he says he understands where I'm coming from and swears he'll change, but he hasn't. Last night I woke up smelling smoke and found him passed out in a chair with a lit cigar. First of all we don't allow smoking in our house. Secondly he could have burned down the house.

I've told him I'm concerned for his health and our marriage, but this obviously is not working. I don't want to tell him to stop drinking just stop over doing it. It's always when there is something important going on,it's getting really old making excuses for why he acts the way he does.

I love my Husband, he's my best friend, but I can't go on living this way. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-14 02:22:58 · 19 answers · asked by LJ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

WIthout calling her my girlfriend, and without offending her by saying she is just a friend, because we are more than that. Thanks!

2006-12-14 02:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And my salary has not changed...I must be damn crazy.

2006-12-14 02:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by althea0019 1 in Marriage & Divorce

u know its too soon to get involved with someone else but miss the companionship and the security of someone else being there?

2006-12-14 02:22:01 · 31 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

I was at the airport and this guy 44 was waiting all day for his internet g-griend from russia to come in to portland. he sent her 4th for trip then 2 th for travel expenses. the last plane from over seas came in at 11pm and he was standing there when i left. she was27 he said. he couldnt get a passenger list and didnt know what she was booked on.

2006-12-14 02:21:41 · 3 answers · asked by robert c 3 in Singles & Dating

My 15 year old daughter has a friend from school who has an older sister who goes to the same school. She is 17 or 18. She recently started working at grocery store I shop at. I go every weekend and 2-3 times a week on the way home from work to pick up a thing or two.
Anyways I am always friendly with her (she is there most of the time) but nothing the slightest bit inappropriate. However now my daughter is telling me (and my wife) about her friend's sister talking about me - about what I bought, whatever. She also drives her sister over to our house sometimes and makes some kind of excuse to come inside (such as use the bathroom) or even go around to the backyard to say hi if I am mowing the lawn or something.
OK so now this is sounding a little creepy but I don't know what to do. I don't want to give my wife the idea that I am inviting this attention. I also don't want to make a big deal out of what is probably no big deal. Another store isn't an option it is out of the way.

2006-12-14 02:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was at my girlfriends house and we were playing cards and I lost a bet to her..

She said I have to dress up like a girl for a day. So she said we should get on Yahoo! Answers and ask the good people what she should make me wear.

She said she wants you to pick everything for me to wear from head to toe and that she will pick the answer she likes the most and wants links, pictures, and details of what you want me to wear.


I am being a nice guy and going through with the bet so please be easy on me!!!

2006-12-14 02:21:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I was at my girlfriends house and we were playing cards and I lost a bet to her..

She said I have to dress up like a girl for a day. So she said we should get on Yahoo! Answers and ask the good people what she should make me wear.

She said she wants you to pick everything for me to wear from head to toe and that she will pick the answer she likes the most and wants links, pictures, and details of what you want me to wear.


I am being a nice guy and going through with the bet so please be easy on me!!!

2006-12-14 02:20:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well there's this guy that likes me but i don't have the same feelings for him. he always get mad at me if guys talk to me in school, talk to me in the phone, and even if they go to my house. he checks my cell phone. what should i do? should i tell him to stop or i just stop talking to him. ( i don't want to hurt his feelings)

2006-12-14 02:18:55 · 4 answers · asked by angelica v 2 in Singles & Dating

Did you want to run away from the relationship?? what happened?? How did it end? (if it has)
Im asking this bcz i have just recentely got out of one, where both our downfalls where so similiar it cause drama etc...
So to make me feel better in my broken hearted state it would be nice to know there are others out there that know what i mean...
It will take me a v.long time to get over him i think and i am still sorta in love with him :( even though i was the one to brake it off

2006-12-14 02:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Singles & Dating

by the Christmas tree. I opened my present early, I just had to see it. She got me a new hammer drill. I've always been bad at waiting. She didn't say a thing she just left. What's going to happen?

2006-12-14 02:17:46 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

SHES THE GREATEST EER w. we find ways to be togehter at random times...just looking for smart ideas from all you lovers...lol thanks for the help

2006-12-14 02:17:17 · 5 answers · asked by Tyler H 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was in a gang and i know that he wants me to join but i told him no and i want to know what i would do if i did join!!! i really am considering it even though i know that it is wrong. i really want to be with him because of his personality!!! he isnt allowed to tell me anything about the gang deal so maybe someone else can

2006-12-14 02:16:54 · 3 answers · asked by octashiathamoneymaker 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with someone for about 5 years now. Not really close, until we started working together. I have recently learned from a co-worker, who is also my friend that she has accused myself of being a user of people. Where this comes from, I have no idea! We have never borrowed or asked anything of her, or her husband. On the other hand, I am expected to cut, color and highlight both her and her daughters hair whenever she feels necessary. She has even asked me to drive over 50 miles to pick her stranded nieghbor up(that I do not even know).
She has also started a rumor, that when my husband was out of town, I was meeting with someone else in another town close by(never cheated, no reason to).
Long story short, I have gone above and beyond for this person, because that is what friends do.
What would make her tell such blatent lies about me and how would you approach the subject without incriminating your other friend?

2006-12-14 02:16:41 · 7 answers · asked by sharon_misspriss 3 in Friends

One of my best friends is always saying something sarcastic or just plain whines when I mention that I-went shopping,got a guy´s number,talk about a warm childhood memory e.t.c. I must mention that she´s a university student,and doesn´t work-I do-so she doesn´t have the income that I do,but other than that we´re basically in the same position.Is this behaviour a little over the top or is it just me?

2006-12-14 02:16:12 · 2 answers · asked by allstar86 2 in Friends

My friend of nearly 20 years moved away, got married and had a baby in the last few years. Since she left she doesn't make any attempt to stay in touch. I went to visit her and found out she was engaged-had been for months-just had 'forgotten' to tell me. She never makes contact first and it's getting to me. We've been travelling together, went to nursery, school and college together. I thought we were good friends.
Should I tell her how I feel or walk away from this friendship?

2006-12-14 02:16:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-14 02:15:24 · 27 answers · asked by stephy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:15:11 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother has CHF and we have been dealing with this for awhile .Sometimes she breaks down and cry because she cant do for her self and i have been thier from day one 100% .I am not coplainiing we get along like sisiters.I dont mind helping her with what ever she needs .I even pay all the bills .I let her use her check on her self.I dont date because i dont have the time,but my mom thinks its because i spend all my time at home with her and my chikdren.I am fine with how things are but she feels she is holding me back but she isnt how do i get her to understand that I love her and i just dont feel like dating .Even thought i havent dated in 2years,its still okay.I wish i can find someone for my mom she is 49 and she doesnt leave the house because of her sickness.I work all day and then when i come home my focus is on my mom and kids But i know she gets depressed because she just burst in to tears sometime and i dont know what to do .Its breaking my heart .

2006-12-14 02:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by AMBRASIA C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a man that doesn't really cheat on me but there are alot of things that he's doing that isn't right... When I am alone I keep thinking of cheating on him to hurt him! I know if I do that would really disappoint him because he don't expect that from me. Although we have our differences he was always there for me through sickness and health. When I had nothing in my apartment he was there from scratch... What should I do?

2006-12-14 02:14:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am Japanese, White, Hawaiian mix...which one nationality would you pick to date if you had to?.....Yeah I know I will get some thumbs down on this question but I want to know out of curiousity.....

2006-12-14 02:14:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so this is why I got mad at my girlfriend. I am in a band and I have made a few cd's. My first cd that I made had a thanks to my ex in the liner notes. The cd came out 7 months before I met my current girlfriend, by then I had been broken up with my ex for about 3 months. Last night my girl was going through my stuff and found the cd. She read the liner notes and saw that I gave a thank you to my ex and her family. So at this point I was asleep. She wakes me up and starts yelling at me, saying that I don't care about her, and that I loved my ex more then her. Of corse I got mad and told her that her jelousy is getting out of control. So she says the only way to fix the situation is to change all of the cd's liner notes. Mind you these cd's are in circulation, and spread across the United States, so that is impossible. Did I act out of control? Am I wrong?

2006-12-14 02:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Tyler C 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 02:12:51 · 21 answers · asked by withaglutelikethat 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i come off less crazy while staying true to myself ..im tired being called "drama" ...

2006-12-14 02:12:32 · 16 answers · asked by pivotalperson111 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this realy cute guy. but idont know how to get him tolike me back. im always to nerivice around him what should i do

2006-12-14 02:12:12 · 9 answers · asked by smilyface292 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is mainly for African American men. I had an African American man tell me that "B*****" is a term of endearment (over the weekend). I say women should not be labeled that term unless their actions merit such a label. The guy feels that just because his boys use it when women aren't around, it's OK to use it when they are around (even around his girlfriend). I think it's disrespectful and should not be a label for all women. He feels it's only not OK to use the word when refering to his mother or girlfriend/lady. What do you think?

2006-12-14 02:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by withaglutelikethat 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont get it

2006-12-14 02:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you and your boyfriend were friends for years and years and together for only 4 months and he just recently found out a female he used to deal with off and on is claiming that she is 5 months pregnant and its his?Stay/support, or leave.

2006-12-14 02:10:20 · 10 answers · asked by FASHION*DIVA 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was once in a relationship but I lost the man because I was not ready for sex.I have been lonely since then.

2006-12-14 02:09:46 · 25 answers · asked by teresa osimon cherma ondiege 1 in Singles & Dating