Ok so this is why I got mad at my girlfriend. I am in a band and I have made a few cd's. My first cd that I made had a thanks to my ex in the liner notes. The cd came out 7 months before I met my current girlfriend, by then I had been broken up with my ex for about 3 months. Last night my girl was going through my stuff and found the cd. She read the liner notes and saw that I gave a thank you to my ex and her family. So at this point I was asleep. She wakes me up and starts yelling at me, saying that I don't care about her, and that I loved my ex more then her. Of corse I got mad and told her that her jelousy is getting out of control. So she says the only way to fix the situation is to change all of the cd's liner notes. Mind you these cd's are in circulation, and spread across the United States, so that is impossible. Did I act out of control? Am I wrong?
2006-12-14 02:13:47 · 11 answers · asked by Tyler C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU ARE NOT WRONG!!!! Why should you have to be sorry about something that happened long before she came along!!!!
Does meeting her since, change the fact that you wanted to Thank your girlfriend and family at that time in your life?
Buddy, nip this in the bud...it could just be the tip of the iceberg. And when I say nip in the bud I mean to let her know that her behavior is unacceptable and childish and not something you want or need in your life.
2006-12-14 02:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! FIrstly, she needs to get a grip and find her sense of self-esteem. If your ex and her family inspired you then by ALL means they deserve the thank you! Ask her to imagine if it was her and you sent out the thanks and then yanked it back a few years later. I as a woman can honestly tell you that if she were secure in herself, this would be a moment where her respect and admiration for you would grow. i have read unsent love notes and poems of men i was dating that they either never sent or their ex's gave back at breakup or whatever and when i read them all i could think was WOW he is so awsome of a man to take the time to show he cares and is greatful for the blessings __________ brought to him. This also let me know that I would be treated with the same. I think your thank you line is endearing and you have earned my respect on that note.
2006-12-14 10:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line dude! if you aint married to her then tell if if she don't like what you have to offer or who you are or were then haul A** B**** you aint worthy. Trust me dude you don't want to marry a remotley jealous chic especially if your career or dreams put you in precarious situations (wheter or not you would do anything ). If she is mad about something that clearly was before her time with you then shes whacked and insecure. get out now RUNNNNNNNNNNN!
2006-12-14 10:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by chillndamost 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No your reaction was fine. She is being highly unreasonable. She sounds ridiculously insecure. Please don't tell me that you're really going to change the CD liners.
2006-12-14 10:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got mad, and reacted its okay, you are right. Your girlfriend is jealous but she should not act like that, anyway you break up with your ex.
2006-12-14 10:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by shyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is totally wrong about this. Try explaining it to her again.. Maybe she's one of those people that learn with repetition.
2006-12-14 10:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i believe she is wrong! She doesn't need to get that jealous, it was in the past so leave it there!
p.s. are you from muskegon?
2006-12-14 10:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her problem, not yours. Explain the timeline to her. If she still doesn't get it, then tell her she needs to either get over it or move on.
2006-12-14 10:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, you are totally in the right, ans she needs to get biiiiiitch slapped
2006-12-14 10:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is very insecure- things will not work until she accepts that you(like her!) has a past
2006-12-14 10:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋