Did you want to run away from the relationship?? what happened?? How did it end? (if it has)
Im asking this bcz i have just recentely got out of one, where both our downfalls where so similiar it cause drama etc...
So to make me feel better in my broken hearted state it would be nice to know there are others out there that know what i mean...
It will take me a v.long time to get over him i think and i am still sorta in love with him :( even though i was the one to brake it off
2006-12-14 02:18:30 · 11 answers · asked by lazydazy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes! torture is the perfect word to describe the roller coaster of emotions. i wanted it to end but thought it would get better the more i tried to work at it (unfortunately i was the only one trying to work at it) it eventually ended bc he didnt want a relationship and "couldnt see himself with me in the future" (piss poor excuse meaning he was dating around) it took me a couple of months to even want to speak to another guy my age (i was so hurt and disillusioned) but now i have a great guy that treats me far better than i thought ever possible....so it turned out for the good :) hang in there!
2006-12-14 02:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh guurrrl, do I ever know what you're talking about. I'm in one right now. It's tough... and yes I've wanted to run away, but I think it is a matter of communication - we are still learning each other's language, so to speak. There is definitely love & passion there, but also great intensity - both up & down. It's been 3+ months. I would miss him terribly if we broke it off & wonder what I could have done different.
You did the right thing, if that's what you wanted. You never know what the future might hold! Good luck to you!
2006-12-14 10:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by CoronaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I was really into this guy in high school. He was bad news though. We never ended up dating however, but everyday we would talk on the phone, and school, and hang out all the time.
Somedays i was happy, somedays he was a big jerk and I would end up crying. He never wanting to make a commitment. He was always flirting with other girls, and I felt like he was using me.
Our friendship/relationship ended badly. He spread rumors that threatened all of my friendships with my other friends.
I never spoke to him again. He keeps trying to get back into my life, but I won't let him. I was tired of the emotional rollar coaster, and didn't want to have anything to do with him.
And to answer your question, yes It is really hard to get over him. Believe me. But things will work out I promise. I am now in a steady relationship and have been for 8 months, with plans for marriage.
It will take time, but I guarrentee that you will be fine.
2006-12-14 10:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by always confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me....I just broke up with my ex husband,and we have a 10 months old son,its hard to let him go,his my first boyfriend and his my husband too,weve been together for 13 years,but then sometimes its necessary to let go of something or someone for you to become a stronger person,we talked about our problems and decided to give ourself space for the meantime,and see if were really meant to be for the rest of our life,actually theres a third party involved,were still talking because we wanted to remain friends for the sake of our son and because we are christians,No matter how long it would take you to get over him,just remember to enjoy life and that youre beautiful and that GOD will provide a partner for you
2006-12-14 10:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,ve been in alot of relationships and alot of ups and downs. ya i,ve wanted to run planty of times. this is my 2 marrige and i,ve been married for 10 yeaRS AND HAD LOTS OF UPS AND DOWNS lots of scares. but i,ve learned running dont help because i do love him very much so trey to work it out if you really love him life is to short but everyones sition is different if there is any abuse dont go back it dont get better just worse
2006-12-14 10:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by pudding_pops2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will help it sucks but just try to stay busy meet some new people and remember its better to be alone and happy then together and miserable
2006-12-14 10:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was ill when i broke up from a girl years ago but got over it . The human mind is good at overcoming loss
2006-12-14 10:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called Life.
2006-12-14 10:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course those we love the most can only hurt us the most
2006-12-14 10:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really v.sorry to read to your story of love, but dear i've just fallen in love with someone, whom even i don't know, not even his name, age, religion, e-mail address, id, or any of his habit, accept that he is really my prince charming an he often comes in my dreams.
he is my dream boy...........
even he don't know me coz he lives in india..........
(so sad)
but pray for me that at least one day, i meet him.........
2006-12-14 10:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by amina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋