I have a man that doesn't really cheat on me but there are alot of things that he's doing that isn't right... When I am alone I keep thinking of cheating on him to hurt him! I know if I do that would really disappoint him because he don't expect that from me. Although we have our differences he was always there for me through sickness and health. When I had nothing in my apartment he was there from scratch... What should I do?
2006-12-14 02:14:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem to be staying in this relationship out of a sense of obligation. Don't! You're smart to realize that there can be other issues besides fidelity that are impt. too. Cheating on someone out of revenge is not a good thing...you'll only hurt yourself. If you are straightforward and honest about your feelings you may eventually make a friend out of this guy and continue to be supportive of one another that way. It doesn't seem like you want to remain in the relationship though and it's only fair that you let him know that. Cheating on him or hurting him in other ways is not fair though. Do the right thing and treat him as you would want him to treat you.
2006-12-14 02:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he's always there for you? What makes you think you can't have it all? A man who will always be there for you AND a man you can trust? Why is that so much to ask for? A man who does a lot more right than wrong?
Always remember: if you think you can do better, then you should. Consider moving on...
2006-12-14 02:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two wrongs dont make a right.
talk to him, if you cant walk it out walk away, well depending on how "not right" the things he does are.
2006-12-14 02:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by delprofundo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him how you feel
2006-12-14 02:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋