I have been married for 7 years and I am completely out of ways to have fun with my husband. i am not freaky but i would like to be. Can any men tell me what they like to do and have done to them?
2006-12-14 02:24:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remember, what works depends on your husband & you. This is just one guy’s wish list. You might be able to use one or more of these or they may give you an idea that's better for the 2 of you.
I've taken pictures of my wife naked. Some of them are magnificent & I look at them a lot more than any other nude pictures.
You can perform an erotic dance & strip naked for him.
You might try role-playing your, &/or your husband’s, fantasies. One of my favorite fantasies is my wife losing a bet that forces her to be a topless waitress for a night. To act it out she’ll serve me a drink topless as I imagine her topless in public with her breasts dangling in front of me & other guys as she serves us. We’ve role-played this several times.
The wife as a sex slave scenario is an obvious role-playing choice. Would your husband like to see you as a tourist captured & sold in a slave market or a woman captured by a powerful man who wants her. Several times my wife has been a tourist framed for drug possession & held prisoner in a foreign jail. I’m the police official who tells her if she ‘cooperates’ by performing the very best sex routines she’s ever done she’ll be released after a week or two. Or she can be virtuous and be sentenced to 4 years in jail. She always cooperates to the fullest.
Before I was married a GF once played the role of a prostitute. She never went braless but that night she went to a bar braless and a dressed more risqué than I’d ever seen her in public. When I went in a few minutes after her she acted like a prostitute who let me pick her up. Weeks later I wanted to stop in that same bar just for drinks but she said she’d never go back in that bar again.
If role-playing is not what you’re looking for, try going braless. You can spice it up more with a semi or totally see-thru top. At a restaurant one night I told my wife she'd look better without her bra being visible under her blouse. She said that she couldn't go bra-less under a top that was transparent. However, she exited the ladies' room looking great. She was a little embarrassed because her breasts were clearly visible.
Or try surprising him by removing your blouse & bra while the two of you are somewhere he wouldn’t expect it. On weekends my wife will often go braless & several times she’s even removed her blouse while we were walking in a secluded park or hiking. If you are willing to go topless outside you can spice it up even more by handing your bra and blouse to your husband – or let him take it from you. This could be a nice turn on for him. Even if the risk of being seen is very small, or even zero, it can be a great turn on and if you do give him your clothes you combine exposed nipples with a bit of a power trip for the guy. However, if anyone shows up & he doesn’t give you back your stuff you might find yourself putting on a topless show for someone besides your husband. So you may decide to hold on to your top. However, you being caught topless might really turn him on. And maybe you?
If being outside topless is too risqué or reckless try removing your top while the two of you are driving -- preferably alone and at night. I love to drive with my wife topless & occasionally she’ll do it for me. If you’re in traffic keep your eyes open. Once we heard a very loud racing engine & soon realized that as we passed a truck his lights were high enough to light up the inside of our car. After seeing my wife he increased his speed to catch up with us to get another look. My topless wife didn't notice him till he'd seen her. She looked up & said he was grinning from ear to ear. My wife had a few drinks & he already saw her so she decided not to worry about a trucker seeing her topless & gave me a little thrill. I let him catch up with us & then slowly passed him again giving him another nice look as my wife smiled at him. Sleepy truckers are a road hazard so that was our contribution for public safety. The next day she said "I can't believe I flashed a trucker." I thought it was great.
Good luck. Let me know if any of this works for the 2 of you.
2006-12-16 23:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Scalawag-101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-23 05:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could buy a book like Joy of Sex and tell hubby you want to work your way thru all the positions.
You could go to a "toy" store-if you aren't sure how hubby would react to toys, start with some flavored, warming massage oil.
You could make up a little "coupon book"-oral sex with no reciprocation required, perhaps some light bondage, costumes, etc. Be sure to include one or two coupons for a "random sexual favor". What your hubby picks for those can give you ideas as well.
Good luck!
2006-12-14 02:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mary L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not a man, but I've been married for 8 years and everyone comes to this very same place. For us it took more than me becoming freaky, we needed new experiences. We started to take road trips. IE...Thanksgiving we drove to Maryland, NY, NJ , D.C. and saw Tennessee and Virginia and stopped and did things in each location. One of those things was having sex in our parked car at a truck stop over night in Virginia. That trip spiced up our marriage for weeks, my husband stayed in the mood continuously for weeks. He enjoys role play during making love, he likes to dress up in our best and have date night at home if we can not afford to go out. We set up the house and the table and have a very romantic and flirty night. We actually meet up at locations in separate vehicles and pretend to be on a first date, this is exciting cause everyone wants to make out on the first date. Another thing we did was get a gym membership together. I love watching him workout, totally turns me on. Then when we get home he's a madman and it is great! As my body started getting into shape more and more it turned him on more and more and he wanted to do more and more. We enjoy watching porn together, he loves oral while he smokes a cigarrette, I love it because I get to control him. The best place to start is not what turns him on, but what turns you on and work from there. Men like to see you in the mood, they thrive on your energy and excitment of the moment. When you change your outlook on your day, your clothes, your perfume, how you speak, how you walk, they will notice and it does entice!
2006-12-14 03:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suprise him. do something that will really shock him when he least expects it. like go down on him at the movies or pull over on the side of the road for a quicky. but let it be a total suprise. you can also try dressing up in kinkky costumes... thats always hott lol
2006-12-14 02:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by cockbite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what is normal for you???? if you don't already do it use the "reverse cowgirl" position, and use every room in the house (if you have kids send them to the babysitter), also anytime of the day is fair game if you only are a night person
2006-12-14 02:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introduce some toys...
Get yourself some sexy outfits and just wait for him at the door before he comes home
Role Play
Bondage
I can go on for hours
2006-12-14 02:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different...so there is no point.
Rather than doing things to him...
Why don't you buy some really naughty lingerie and start wearing some short skirts or dresses.
Bet you he will get interested...
2006-12-14 02:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Aussies-Online 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you light a few candles and have a hot bubble bath, some nice mellow music, and a glass of red wine ready for your hubby when he comes home from work tonight....and let things unfold from there...have fun!!
2006-12-14 02:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to do a lot of things that my wife won't do.. I'll probably get reported if I go into them on here though.. ;)
2006-12-14 02:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋