Well i have this friend that really likes this boy that she is going out with but he likes this other girl and the other day someone got on the girls email that the boy liked and asked him out and he said yes and now i want to tell her but the girl that the guy like does not want me to and im scared that if i tell my friend that her boyfriend is cheating on her. Then my friend that didn't want me to will get mad at me! What should i do?
2006-12-14 02:45:19 · 16 answers · asked by hbburg2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of course your friend will be mad at you, but how mad is your other friend going to be when she finds out you knew about it all along? boyfriends come and go.
2006-12-14 02:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend asking you not tell can sometimes be a bad thing, but being a good friend letting your other friend know that her boyfriend is cheating on her might help since she has no clue that anything is going on, she might be mad at you at first but she will be glad someone had the decency to tell that her boyfriend is up to no good. Don't keep it from her, if she knows what is going on then she will be able to take care of it before something gets out to her about it or before she catches her boyfriend in the act.
2006-12-14 03:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u should start out by taking her somewhere like like to the mall and shop then u both go to the food court and tell her u have to tell her something imprortant . then u say in a concerned way u know i'm your friend and u won't let any thing happen to her then u tell her what's wrong . And if that doesn't work tell her that u tried to help her
2006-12-14 03:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well having lots of experience in this situation, telling your friend or not, well, believe it or not she will get mad at you either way, she won't believe you in the first place only if you have proof should you say anything, keeping it from her she will say i thought you were my friend and she will be mad at you,the best thing is to keep this thing under wraps until you feel safe showing her proof, even if she gets mad, if she's a friend she will thank you when she realizes she was wrong.
2006-12-14 03:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by kylee c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and tell your friend that her boyfriend is cheating. A good friend tells what's best for his/her friend even it hurts his/her feeling. He/She will realize that your right later on.Go Girl!
2006-12-14 03:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kathz A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a simple question. Would you want her to tell you if your man was cheating. Men who cheat do not deserve to have a great girl friend. I'm sure she would appreciate it very much. It could also bring y'all closer.
2006-12-14 02:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by lady bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was the other way around, what would you want. Just go from there. Would you want her to stay out of it or let you know what's up.
2006-12-14 03:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that her boyfriend is cheatin on her! Forget about the other friend because she is doing the wrong thing. It will hurt your friend if you don't tell her. Does he know that you know he is cheatin on her? If he does make him feel guilty.
2006-12-14 02:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hands down. Put yourself in her place, would you like to know?
You're in a damned if you do and damned if you don't situation. But if it were me I would be REALLY angry with you if you didn't tell me and less angry if you did tell me.
2006-12-14 03:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by mannysmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it. She deserves to know. But she may hate you for being the bearer of bad news.
2006-12-14 02:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋