I have been married for 3 yrs & my wife is not talking to me what should I do?

Question

We have a 3 yer old son so I need to know what to do for his sake so please help me by answering this question thank you.

Answer 1

TALK 2 HER! TELL HER YOU LOVE HER! WRITE HER A NOTE! SEND FLOWERS! WHAT EVER YOU DID SAY YOU ARE SORRY ON A BLOW HORN FROM OUTSIDE YOUR HOME. WHATEVER IT TAKES

Answer 2

Kind of hard to answer, not alot of background here....have you guys been fighting lately? Are their any economic issues? How are you as a family as far as spending time together?

You should step back and take a look at the whole situation. What kind of husband and father are you being for your wife and child? If she is being distant for no reason, maybe she is suffering from some issue that she is afraid to bring up to you. Here is what you should do...

Get a sitter for your child and plan a "date night" for just the two of you, go out to a nice dinner. After dinner go for a nice walk either in a park, on a beach or something like that. Ask what is going on, what you can do and what needs to be done. Be there for her...if you love her, then you will be her "rock" of support. Good luck with this..

Answer 3

Your question is very vague, being a wife myself (and I do get mad at my hubby)--most of the times its because he has either 1. treated me as if I was his child not his partner, or 2. He forgot to do something he said he was going to do.

Usually if he asks me what I am mad about, I tell him, I don't ignore him. Sometimes if I am really stressed with kids (we have 3) or with work, I won't talk to anyone until I have had a chance to calm down and wind down. But it also never lasts more than a couple of hours.

Something may have happened at work and she is upset about it and needs time to mellow out before she says or does something she will regret.

You may have done nothing wrong, but then again unless you ask what is wrong, you may never know.

If she says leave her alone and don't bother her, wait a couple of hours and approach her again, watch her mood, you will know when she wants to talk again.

Answer 4

Have she done this before if so you know it will pass. you know why she is mad so just go make her feel better about whatever happened. If she love you she will have to just get past her anger. Pray that she does. I know you probably don't want to do this ,b ut communicate. Ask her what is bothering you if you really don't know ,but most men have an idea because when you rub women the wrong way they uausal respond quickly. I hope you can resolve the problem because you can if you want to.

Answer 5

Well why isn't she talking to you? That is the question and if you two are ready to call it quits yes you should be thinking about your son. Children from divorced families are exposed to lots of things that they should not be, however, sometimes it is best if the parents are not happy. If you believe your ready to call it quits, then you should contact an attorney to get information regarding divorce, children in divorces and custody issues. GOod Luck

Answer 6

No one can give you an answer for this, not even yourself, unless you have some clue as to WHY she isn't talking to you. If she won't open up, try asking her to persue some marriage counselling with you to see if you can get to the bottom of things. Without knowing the cause it is impossible to find a cure.

Answer 7

Tell her your are concerned, sincere, and clueless, and apologize for whatever you've done, or didn't do, but didn't know it. Buying flowers and candy, yes, it still works, do that too. Ok, that doesn't work, she has to have told her close friend, her mom, or someone she works with. Go to them, ask if they can shed some light on the situation.

Answer 8

Sit her down and have an open conversation. Let her express her feelings to you and then maybe you could do the same. Try to work things out in a calm and loving way. If possible....

Answer 9

She hasn't uttered a word to you in three years? Christ...I should be so lucky. What's your secret man? Is it patented? Do you realize how much money the men of the civilized world would pay to get their hands on something as great as this?

You're sitting on a goldmine my friend, let me tell you!

Answer 10

think to yourself if you did something wrong, if you can't think of anything you did, then ask her..just be upfront. tell her you are concerned about her and the fact she won't talk to you, you are worried about her. that b/c of this you are concerned that your son may pick up on things and get the sense that something is wrong between you two and you don't want him affected by whatever is happening between you.....maybe she will see that and start talkin to you.

Answer 11

Show her that you want to work things out. Show her that you love her and tell her so. Communication is the most important thing in your relationship . If it breaks down you have to get it back.