My husband has a x-mas party next week. I don't know if I want to go because a girl works with him that slept with my brother and almost caused their marriage to break. My brother has nothing to do with her anymore and it's good he worked out his problems. But I can't seem to let the idea of this other girl sleeping with a married man, my brother and be ok with it. I so want to hit her everytime i see her, but i don't want my husband to be alone either. what should i do?
2006-12-14 02:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girl that your brother slept with has nothing to do with you. That was your brothers decision and hers. It does take two to tango. Now it's time for you to be mature about the situation. Go to the party to be by your man.
2006-12-14 02:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, get over it. Or let your husband go alone to the party with the easy chick. Life goes on; and it's really not even about you. Your brother did what he did and it's not like she held a gun to his head (or other parts of his body). So all you need to worry about is you & your husband
2006-12-14 02:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the party. You need to remember that even though what she did was wrong...your brother is more wrong because HE is the one that broke his marriage vows...not her. He took the oath in front of God...not her. If you have forgiven him...you should forgive her. We are supposed to forgive because God forgave us. We do not deserve his forgiveness and even though she may not deserve it...you must do it. I hope this helps. Besides...holding a grudge only hurts you. You do not have to be her friend, but you should be with your hubby and be thankful that it was not him that was with her. Look at it that way when you are there and you will feel good about your marriage and have a great time:)
2006-12-14 03:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by Drea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband should be more important that some slutty chick. Go for HIM not her. Avoid her and don't even look at her. She will realize she is a huge skank and you come out on top because you are the bigger person.
Have fun :)
2006-12-14 02:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're willing to forgo an entertaining evening because this one woman will be there? She has too much control over your emotions. Let it go. Everyone else seems to have made peace with it, so should you.
2006-12-14 03:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother has put behind him,so should you.Dwelling on it is getting you no where fast.Go to the party and have fun.
2006-12-14 02:47:53 · answer #6 · answered by birdlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u already no dat your bro has been over her so jus go and lets not rlive da past becuz as long as ur brotha is happy u should be rite? jus try to avoid her but if she wuz to talk u then explain 2 her how u feel and maybe itll make u feel betta.
2006-12-14 02:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by cole_quiyantae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your husband.
2006-12-14 02:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and support your husabnd.
2006-12-14 02:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by jaylen212004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋