I have a problem. I've been with Kay for about 3 years and known each other for 4 and a half. Last year august. anyway we were still talking and we were doing the friend thing. at that time we were both seeing other people. i told him i loved him and wanted him back and he told me that he would never get back with me. all in all i just said it was a dead issue. I started talking to greg seriously and then kerron then decided that he wanted me. i told him no and now here i am. I've been with greg for about 7/8 months. he wants to get married and the thing is besides the fact that its too early to get married, i can't get over kerron. I've tried to forget him but i always think about him and what he's doing and i don't know if he feels the same but i just feel like i'm under water. There maybe is no chance for me and kay again considering that his peeps hate me and my faily don't really like him (that would be the reason). But what do i do in the mean time? I dont even speak to him.
2006-12-14 03:04:05 · 4 answers · asked by wifeofkerron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ignore him dont answer calls or anything
2006-12-14 03:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviosly you are not ready to get married. Greg is not the man for you right now. being with a man for 3 years takes longer than 7-8 months to get over if you did really love him. Sometimes you have to be single for a while and find your self. Greg may be a great guy but if you have emotions that have not been settled you both will not work out. I don't think you should talk to Kerron, get all things that remind you of him out of your life. that chapter is over, start a new one and learn from the mistakes with Kerron. Give yourself time to heal. if you don't Greg may get hurt. If you care about Greg talk to him about this. you don't have stop talking, but maybe only see each other once a week or so. Maybe all you need right now is a friend to listen to what you are feeling. Keep some distance and find out what you really want. Definatly tell Greg straight up what you are feeling and that it is not fair to hide this from him. he may be sad at first, but he can't be mad for you being honest. That is a key to a strong relationship.
Maybe you and greg will make it work in the future, if not then you'll find someone else. Be patient.
Good Luck!
2006-12-14 03:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Becky E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your id wifeofkerron? Greg really doesn't stand a chance. You can stop looking backwards to something that may never happen. You can stop letting the past control your future. Or you can wallow away in unrequited love. Your decision.
2006-12-14 03:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about it then follow your heart. But i think that maybe yall are right for each other and you dont want to admit it. so juss do this and i hope it helps.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-14 03:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by country grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋