Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

Whenever I see a beautiful girl , I take her as a sex object which I should use and then look for another one. Perhaps this feeling of love this not in my inner.

2006-12-14 03:57:49 · 8 answers · asked by Ahmad M 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know that you are in love with a woman and you are ready to marry her? And how do you make sure that she loves you more than anything and that she will never change her mind?

2006-12-14 03:57:05 · 8 answers · asked by Sting 2 in Weddings

My daughters father lives in another state and I have her call him on the weekends. He doesn't answer or he returns her calls a few weeks later. She has a step dad now who loves her like his own. Should I say something to her dad about this or not? I am afraid that if I do I will go off on him because it hurts me seeing how hurt she is by him not calling her. He doesn't have visitation, so when he wants her to come up during the summer, should I let her go? I just think that if he loves her he would call her every weekend and be in her life more and not when it is convenient for him.

2006-12-14 03:56:55 · 27 answers · asked by DawnC36 2 in Family

2006-12-14 03:56:40 · 17 answers · asked by Dragon's Breath 1 in Family

If you can answer please

2006-12-14 03:56:26 · 23 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Singles & Dating

well theres this really fit guy who anyone would die to go out with and well he asked me out and me (being sooooooooooo clumsy)said no and well now hes going out with this girl(who everyone says shes a bully!!!) and i want to ask him out coz he soooo flirts with me and we laugh and were great friends i wanna take it further and i think he does shall i ask him out or shall i wait and see if he wants to ask me out plz help people!!!! god bless ya x x x x x

2006-12-14 03:54:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 25 and single. i ended my long term relationship a few months ago and im ready to start dating again.

i find that guys rarely approach me when im out.

ive asked some of my guy friends why this is and they say its because they assume that i have a boyfriend and they are intimidated by me. what???

what do i do????

2006-12-14 03:54:41 · 16 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is in the service. He just informed us that we are going to be grandparents. We are all excited. We've never met his girlfriend before and she's coming home for the holidays. What type of gift do we get her?

2006-12-14 03:54:27 · 29 answers · asked by sher2003bear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have problem marriage, i met a man who is 10 years younger to me but madly loves me. I too admire his intelligence.and have 8 yrs long pure friendship. Now we both have fall in love .Should i go ahead with it. I hv fulfilled my responsibilities as a mother of 2 at the cost of my feeling for 29 married years.Do i have right to fulfil my desires now. what will my sons say if they come to know about this?Please help.I m in dilemma over ethical- non-ethical issues.Young generation is very clear in their concepts so I expect ans. from them.I m 50 yrs old working lady.I promise not to disturb his married life.

2006-12-14 03:54:06 · 21 answers · asked by vjayashree19 1 in Family

We dated for four years the first two were great. We were young in our mid-twenties. However, he began to use drugs and cheated on me, but was honest about it. He said he need help and was in therapy. However, he moved to Colorado and is doing well but still has somethings to work on. He wants to be friends I find it very painful because I love him and don't want to let go. I feel like he is my soul mate. We had the best times of our life together. He won't say that he never wants to get back together but he will not give me an answer about the future at all. He want to see me at christmas but just as friends. I am still in love with him and he knows it. I am not sure this is a good idea, but he says he wants to see. I think I just need to find a way to move on or do I wait? I still live in Tennessee and he has no immediate plans of moving back.

2006-12-14 03:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by wen 1 in Singles & Dating

When I say sexy I don't mean Cheap or tarty!! At least I hope I don't!! I was thinking a short denim skirt (not crotch showing!!) with a big chunky knit jumper?? Any opinions?? Also not sure what to wear on my feet, I was thinking boots but again don't want to look a tart!!

For those who have not read my last question, Majority of blokes decided it was a good idea for a woman to dress sexy (not tarty) for the first meeting with their friends! Now I want to know what!!

I don't want to wear keans or trow, I do want a skirt because tis the holidays after all!!! And I want to keep warm I don't want to catch my death!! God I sound like my mother!! he he

Help is much appreciated

2006-12-14 03:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by Budapest1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A couple years ago, me, my boyfriend, and his 4 yr.old daughter had went to visit his brother. During the visit, the daughter was lying in the floor on her stomach and her pants had wiggled down to where her crack was exposed slightly. When this happened my boyfriend's 40 year old brother gotten down in the floor and started rubbing his finger up and down her buttcrack and talking about how cute it was. NOT only was it uncomfortable for the rest of us, including her father, but she was mortified. At the time we had not been dating but a couple of weeks, so I didn't really know what to do, and I confronted my boyfriend about the behavior of his brother. He said it shocked him too. I was appalled at his refusal to confront his brother. So I threatened him that if he did not confront his brother and tell him not to ever touch his daughter again, that I would talk to child protective services. Upon this threat he talked to his brother about my stance.

2006-12-14 03:53:15 · 29 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Family

her fiance end up cheating on her. to make it worst it was her friend. who is my cousin. i comforted both fo them. and told them that i'm going to tell. but they promise me that it won't happen again. but lied. they've done it again but now they aren't. the thing is my cousin is pregant with his child. he told my cousin he loves her friend not her. it was a mistake. his still want to be married. what should i do???? my cousin is pregant and my friend is engage. should i tell my friend about this. so she can dump her fiance and be mad at my cousin. or should i just keep it away from her and let her find out on her own.

2006-12-14 03:51:17 · 28 answers · asked by mommie2be 3 in Friends

it has been awhile since i have had a sex drive it is putting a big strain on my relationship any help out there?

2006-12-14 03:50:24 · 4 answers · asked by kelly s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its going to be in a hotel bar so when I get off work she wants me to call her and she will meet me at the car. Why would she do that or am I being paranoid?

2006-12-14 03:49:04 · 36 answers · asked by stunston 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 03:48:19 · 18 answers · asked by cbakakale@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

Tall, dark and handsome? Or something a bit edgier?? You like tattoos and piercings? Or a more clean-shaven kind of guy?

2006-12-14 03:47:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in such a mess.I have been divorced for three years. I lived with my parents for a while three years ago when I left my husband. My ex threatened my life & was heavy heavy into cocaine. I had a three year old & was pregnant with 2nd. I was scared for my life, he said he was going to hurt me & the child. I live in a country club gated community. Well, about a year later, I moved down the street in the same country club with the kids to a house that my dad bought for me & kids to live in. He said I was not to ever allow the ex into his house. So, to make things easier I never told the ex we moved down the street. It is the same town, same country club but a street over from parents. I did not want to provoke a fight with him. He has supervised visitation w/ kids due to drug usage, so I always bring kids to him b/c I am the supervisor. Also, he is not allowed overnights. But now, this lie has gone on & it is three years later. How do I tell him? I am so afraid of threats again

2006-12-14 03:47:31 · 19 answers · asked by Bet L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

about your own looks? is it different from what people compliment you on?

2006-12-14 03:47:24 · 15 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Singles & Dating

i was asked was it a crime to be a bisexual? It means females & males that are married.please help so i can pass it along to my friend

2006-12-14 03:47:06 · 40 answers · asked by m.green1973 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you a Sagittarius ? If so hit me back, right now. This is our time, and the world is within our reach. And if you have a
birthday coming up, or had one, then Happy Birthday. But I
want to know, is there love in the stars for me this month ?
And am I close to finding that "special one". I have been looking
for her location, and she is very near. What do you think ?
Is love around the corner ?

2006-12-14 03:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who will treat me like a princess!!!lol xxxxx

do these guys even exist???

where can i find one???lol xxx

2006-12-14 03:44:47 · 15 answers · asked by Special Lady!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I love this boi to death. He says he loves me and I kno he do but he also loves someone else. Sometimes we get into arguments and stuff but I just can't get over him still loving a girl who talks about him. I'm the one that is there for him when he needs me. I think I should just be a close friend and leave it at that. Man, what should I do. He loves me but he loves another girl. I can't stand seeing them together. He doesn't go with her but it seems he chooses her over me sometimes when I treat him better. I look better than her so I just don't get it. He got her pregnent, maybe that's why he choose her over me. Help me please.

2006-12-14 03:44:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 03:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter has a pussy discharge. I don't mean pussy as in the slang for vagina. I mean pussy, as in it's full of pus. Also, it's coming out of her pussy. My son said she's had this before but should I take her to the doctor anyway?

2006-12-14 03:44:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has one set for himself and another set that he thinks I should follow.

2006-12-14 03:43:39 · 18 answers · asked by bluemoon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last 2 weeks me and this girl i work with have been getting on pretty well. And around work people are always making boyfriend/girlfriend comments about us or stuff, and we both dont mind, well she doesnt seem to.

Thing is we had a work party and the boss well our supervisor (only 5 years older) was all over her and was trying to get her drunk, and she just said that she was my girl, when other ladies commented on it (i dunno if she was joking or just saying cos of situation, or if she meant it a little)

Now where i work we work in areas, and im trying to work with her, and everytime i try i get moved or warned if we talk. Sometimes if we are not talking at all ill get moved. Even when whole team is working in 1 area, ill be put seperate.

Now i know he is interested in her and i reacon he is doing what he can to stop us talking.

I know 100% she aint interesed in him, and in fact its making a kinda thrill whenever we talk to each other.

2006-12-14 03:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him what was the freakiest thing hes ever done before we met sexually & what he told me blew me out of the water !! I thought I knew him, after all we've been 2gether over 6 years !! He said when he was about 20 years old him and 2 of his friends brought these 3 girls to someones house for a "booty call" !! He said the two girls his two friends brought must have been to drunk to perform because when he looked over he seen his two long time friends watching him have sex with the girl he brought in and continued on Knowing that he was being watched !! After he seen that he freaked me out by telling me this he tried to switch his story up & tell me that when he noticed them, he pointed for them to get out & close the door BUT I HIGHLY DOUBT THIS IS THE TRUTH !! IM FREAKED OUT !!! DOES THIS MEAN HE GOT KICKS OUT OF HIS MALE FRIENDS WATCHING HIM PERFORM AND IF SO DOES THIS NOT MEAN IN A SENSE THIS TURNED HIM ON, THEREFORE GIVING HIM BISEXUAL TENDENCIES?? HELP !!

2006-12-14 03:43:24 · 4 answers · asked by MW 1 in Singles & Dating

In all of her past rehab attempts she would check herself in therefore she could check herself out, and I don't think I have to explain the rest. She is currently in a court mandated halfway house type facility. Its a nine month program, the only catch is that it is supposed to be for ppl that want to change, and she lied to them saying she was ready, but her probation officer told her it was rehab or Jail. So anyway after being there for 3 months she get to come home for a weekend. One of my cousins went and got her, she told me I had to take her back, & on the way stop by and pick up her friend & take her back too. But she did not tell us it was 3 hrs out of our way!! While she was home she stole $200.00 from my mom and tore up my dads ATV being reckless driving it with her friends after midnight one night. So I realize that she hasnt changed & tell her not to call me until she does. Now she is telling everyone we know that we have disowned her, and ppl are looking down on us. Help

2006-12-14 03:43:24 · 7 answers · asked by ashleyod 2 in Family

2006-12-14 03:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating