Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

My girlfriend and I have a dream on us both sliding into our grand bathing suits. I in my trunks and her in her fake bikini. I would wait in the pool, standing there flexing my muscles so that I would look ripped when she came into the pool. She would walk in and walk along the edge of the pool where there is a blue thing. I often stick my hand in the blue little shelf to see if any objects have floated in their. I am tha man. Her my women comes. He skin is tan and her suit is made of swimming material. Pow! She hits me right in the heart through my eyes. I aint made of rubber. I wait for her with my muscles flexed. My face is alittle red because of that but ya'll know how it is.

2006-12-14 04:41:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you feel a little intimidated?

2006-12-14 04:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by S K 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi everyone,
I have been offered a decent job in Singapore and until today i was very keen. Suddenly today i have become very frightened, I have a 12 year old son and I am scared it may not be good for him I do not want to ruin his life. What should I do?

I have a house inthe UK I am going to rent out and if the worst happnes we can always come back but as I am about to go in one weeks time I am really nervous.

2006-12-14 04:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 04:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do your eyes pop ot of your head when you see a great looking guy ( like guys do when they sea great looking girl ) or do you contain yourself
tell me how and why

2006-12-14 04:39:50 · 2 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone,
I have been offered a decent job in Singapore and until today i was very keen. Suddenly today i have become very frightened, I have a 12 year old son and I am scared it may not be good for him I do not want to ruin his life. What should I do?

I have a house inthe UK I am going to rent out and if the worst happnes we can always come back but as I am about to go in one weeks time I am really nervous.

2006-12-14 04:39:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if u have ANY advice please tell me!!!!!

2006-12-14 04:39:09 · 6 answers · asked by *~*ShOrTiie*~* 2 in Friends

2006-12-14 04:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by vicama88 1 in Friends

2006-12-14 04:37:54 · 14 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 04:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by tlbg 1 in Family

It was not a bitter brake up even, but there was some pain involved. He told me he would be moving out of the state this summer, and my take on that was I will brake it off now so I won't get hurt later. He went away for about 6 months (war) and I stuck by his side. Based on the letters we wrote and the things we shared I placed expectations that he was not able to meet about our relationship once he came home. I did have a "just cause" to place these expectations, trust me but he was not able to come through and that was another reason I broke it off. My gf said that he had just got back and that I did not give him a chance to regroup or maybe there was someone else the bottom line is he contacted me for the first time since then last night, and we talked for a little while, and he ended the conversation by asking me to be open, and I don't know what that means. I am still in love with him, but I don't like the way things went down. Why contact me now. I broke it off to not get hurt

2006-12-14 04:37:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this guy for about 7 or 8 weeks. I bought him a couple Christmas presents (nothing major). How should I go about giving them to him? I mean, we aren't officially a couple and we haven't discussed the whole present thing.

I feel silly asking this, BTW. Thanks for all of your help!

2006-12-14 04:37:16 · 15 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for three years. I love her and she makes me happy. We have a long distance relationship. She loves me and cares for me very deeply There are possibilities that we will be moving closer together within the year. My friends are pressuring me to break up with her. I am trying to hold in my emotions but every time they say something I want to scream. I respect and love my friends dearly and I dont want to loose them. They think I would have a good relationship with this other girl that likes me. I like the other girl and I think that I could be happy with her. She lives close to me right now and it would be better for the short term but there is a possibility that I could be moving away within the year. If I chose the other girl I would lose my current girlfriend forever. My girlfriend's goals and aspirations in life are a lot closer to my own than the new girl's. My girlfriend just wants me to be happy. I dont know what that is. I am in a lot of pain. Advice?

2006-12-14 04:37:05 · 18 answers · asked by spidersinthedressingroom 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by west_dallas_mami 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:36:53 · 17 answers · asked by ur4a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should be the way of having sex for a healthy marital life as I am going to marry?

2006-12-14 04:36:42 · 8 answers · asked by Rahul Rodriguez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was with somebody, and i've benn waiting for him we've been together for four years last month he tell me he don't love me for real everything he said since the biginnings was a lie. I love him so much i dont know how to get over him i want some advised that can hepl me go over him. for me i think I have a place in his heart but i guess not. sometime I feel like talking to him but when i think of what he di i hate him. he call me and ask me for forgiveness but i dont know how to forgive him , i know that if I forgive him I have to forget about everythings but I can't. He hurt me so much. how can y'all help me to go over him and be able to forgive him.

2006-12-14 04:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by louishebnajoseph 1 in Singles & Dating

i am so scared to talk to him but if i do, hell think im weired cause i never talked to him before!

2006-12-14 04:34:36 · 1 answers · asked by cait12350 2 in Singles & Dating

wondering cuz ppl like odd things.

2006-12-14 04:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Singles & Dating

And you know that he hurt her a lot in the past. What do you feel?

2006-12-14 04:33:13 · 22 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by west_dallas_mami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

wondering cuz ppl like odd things.

2006-12-14 04:33:02 · 11 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Singles & Dating

How much wieght does your birthsign hold in relationships, do you believe certain signs shouldn't date?

2006-12-14 04:32:38 · 14 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

What if I never fall in love? I am 22 almost 23.....and I dont see that happening right now :(

2006-12-14 04:31:32 · 23 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke up almost an year ago and recently my ex has just asked out someone else.i still have feelings for him though i don't know his current feelings about me.and i'm sort of going out with someone else too but i'm not really into my present relationship. so....is it okay????????

2006-12-14 04:31:00 · 16 answers · asked by elle 1 in Singles & Dating

People hear you ?
Your experience is what we want !

2006-12-14 04:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked out this girl about a month ago and I really really like her. I am a senior in high school and she is a junior. The thing is we r friends (not too close but good), she sed "right now she just wants to be friends at the moment", I backed off but now im getting impatient n stuff. I dont wanna give up. I wanna know, r there ne ways or tips to help make the girl think of a guy as more thn friends. Have ne of u ladies experienced this, when a guy asks u out n stuff and u tell him "u just wanna be friends", have u girls strted crushin on them later?? I really like her....plz...help.

2006-12-14 04:30:22 · 4 answers · asked by PRINCE24 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that I have known for some time. When I first met him about a year ago he was really sweet to me and always looked in my eyes and gave me nice compliments and tried to help me with stuff. Over the last 2 months though I have noticed a change. When I used to walk in the room before he was really smiley and welcoming. Now though he looks down like hes really shy and embarrassed although hes still smiling, and finds it hard to talk to me and look at me. He seems really nervous. He speaks really softly to me, still wants to do all he can to help me though and really bigs me up to others. He tried really hard in the beginning to get me to notice him and now that I am falling for him he seems a bit different. My friend thinks its because hes gone from the fancying stage to something much deeper and he is frightened of doing or saying something stupid now. He dosen't move away when I move closer but he is much shyer when we are alone and more confident with others and he winks

2006-12-14 04:29:38 · 29 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, for a couple of years I haven't had much of a social life. Before that I saw plenty of my friends outside school. Then me and my best friend stopped talking to each other, and I still miss him. Since then I've usually not seen any friends at weekends or after school. I occasionally do, but it's the same couple of people. I have friends at school, but I never see them outside. I know the solution sounds simple - 'Just invite them!' but I can't bring myself to do it, and no one really invites me to do anything.
Any ideas?

2006-12-14 04:29:20 · 8 answers · asked by James 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to tell them....but i dont know how to.

2006-12-14 04:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Singles & Dating