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2006-12-14 04:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet! after bitter before. Married again to Mr right 20 years now wohooooo
2006-12-14 04:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by abby normal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the marriage. I was married for 11 years the first time & 9 the second time. The first one (the father of my child) was a good guy, until he got on drugs. He later became a born-again Christian which was the other extreme. The second one, I thought I could help. Advice for those who also think this.....you can't. I was relieved both times. I lost everything both times, because I was the bread-winner, but getting divorced was still a relief. I have been living with a wonderful man for over 3 years now. We like things the way they are.
2006-12-14 04:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life before had it's ups and downs.... lots more downs at the end. Life after divorce is just as hard in a different way... Loneliness, and Lots more work raising 2 disabled kids on my own.
2006-12-14 04:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by pinebarrons1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what people say about divorce being great, it is very hard. I chose to divorce after 13yrs and even though it was the right thing for me to do, it was still very emotionally stressful. Life prior to divorce was miserable, divorcing was stressful, life now, is wonderful
2006-12-14 04:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it depends on who has chosen the divorce. For the person who's made the choice, it's usually worse before, better after. For one who didnt see it coming, did not choose, unable to accept, it would be the direct opposite.
2006-12-14 04:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well life was hell before the divorce.. that's why it happened. After the divorce is was calm and peaceful.
2006-12-14 04:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was happy before the split, so that whole process was miserable (to say the least).
Since then, though ... Bliss. Truly. I am happier and healthier than I've ever been. And having a lot more fun.
2006-12-14 04:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by some chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only tell you that the women make up for lost time and are very eager to get some new guys in their bed!!!
So go ahead and get divorced...were waiting for her!
2006-12-14 04:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sux. Almost went through one 5 months ago. She came to her senses and we're back together. Worst 5 months of my life ever!!!! But, I lost almost 70 pounds during the whole thing. LOL!!!!
Merry Christmas
2006-12-14 04:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not realise how miserable i was til my now ex moved out. Everyone started telling me how much happier i was, and nicer to be around so mine was a good one and not hard 50 $ to file and 90 days later done.
2006-12-14 04:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋