Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

my ex and i dated for 2yrs had a great relationship, broke-up because fin. problems. stayd really good friends he started seeing sum one for 8mos. i was hurt over, stayd friz. now 2yrs later still luv him told him. he said he does luv me alot. we said this 2mos ago but, he is really not happy w/ his life right now. he is very broke no money, no job, no car & lives w/mom. a now the other girl has started to call him again. he says she is just a friend only spends time w/me. I'm 15yrs older. what should I do? stay his friend and cont. to support him. or just leave him alone? and does he really luv me, like i luv him? whatz up w/ ex girlfriend?

2006-12-14 05:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by luving2 1 in Singles & Dating

its 1 week off our 1st anniversary and i realy dont know what to buy him. i want to do it traditional so it will have to be paper. but something exiting, cheep and thoughtfull and i stress it must be cheap coz im skint with it being xmas and that

2006-12-14 05:08:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and what did yo say?

2006-12-14 05:08:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm a 19 yr old girl i'm with this 32 yr old man for 1 yrs and 9 months... for e start our relationship was ok.. he will take initiative to make me happier.. we wud go out and have fun. he wud bring me to places for romantic dinners.. but after half a yr.. everything changed. e first few months of our relationship he used to have sex with me 5 or e least twice a day.. and now.. i will have to ask and Hint and it makes me feel like a ****.. and it made my self esteem went down. (I begged cos it a week without sex thn it's a month thn it's 2 months) and for e last 6 months it's like he jus hav sex with me bcos i Forced him to have it.. Which Makes Me feel So Miserable.. I'm Not an ugly girl.. i have alot of guys out there who wants me . but whenever I talk abt leaving him.. he will shout at me and cos we live together its Hard for me . i don't mind trying to make things work out. BUt when i even try to work things out... he Looses his temper and most Of e time i wud end up crying..

2006-12-14 05:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He was born in Chicago

2006-12-14 05:08:03 · 2 answers · asked by behaviorinterventionservices 1 in Family

We live in Rancho Cordova, Ca. It is a suburb of Sacramento. My neice (she will be 13 on Friday) hangs with several friends. She and her 14 year old friend have been observed smoking cigarettes. She talks about she and her friends taking the bus and light rail several miles away from home. They are seen walking over a mile away from her house, and she tells me that some of her companions are 17 and 21. I'm wodering why 17 and 21 year olds are hanging around with 12 and 14 year olds. She has told me that although she isn't, some of her friends are in gangs. I am concerned. Her mother thinks this is all okay, and doesn't really want to deal with it. Should I not be concerned?

2006-12-14 05:07:48 · 16 answers · asked by Dianna 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 05:07:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:07:15 · 5 answers · asked by Hot chick 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

She cheated on me with her ex once. Then she broke with me on the phone one hour before her plane trip to visit her best friend. Then in less than 24hrs her best friend asked her out and she said yes, because I "blew up" when she broke with me, ON THE PHONE, and AN HOUR BEFORE VISITING "her best friend". That was 6 months ago.

Note: I never did anything unfaithful. I still love her a lot.

2006-12-14 05:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live 6 hours away from home,cos of work.! So anyway,bout a month ago i went back home to spend some time, so i was there for about 5 weeks. Theres this guy that stays directly opposite my house. He's 17, i'm 19. So we frequently exchanged texts but never spoke! So we did eventually start talking but not more than 3 sentences at a time. So 1 night i decided to have a house party.I thought i had a crush on him,he is sooooo cute.So Mr.17 was around so i took advantage of the situation!!! Asked him to come, and he did!! Night was damn perfect...he arrived at 9,we kissed round about 12...and the kissing went on till morning (literally!) He came exactly a week later and the same thing happened...but it was just us 2.We ONLY KISSED, NOTHING ELSE!And both nights my parents arrived home while he was there...so i hid him in my closet. We never got caught! Crap part: I think he told everyone what happened and added a little spice(lied about what really hapnd)They all think we slept togethr.HELP

2006-12-14 05:06:35 · 11 answers · asked by Sistr P* 3 in Singles & Dating

i went out with a guy and he cheated on me i went out with another and he cheated on me and it continued on 5times in a ROW! and then the next one turned out to be bisexual. i dont understand. why cant i find "Mr.Right"?

2006-12-14 05:05:03 · 21 answers · asked by inlovewiththedevil7028 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have been dating this girl for the past four months and I have fallen deeply in love with her. The only catch is that she has been dating another guy on and off for the past year and half that lives in a different state. There are things that the girl does and shares that makes me realize she has strong feelings for me, but there are other days it seems like I am nothing. I have asked her if she wants him or if she wants me, but she says she is not sure. She tells me that we click on a different level, and make her feel so comfortable around me. Now he has came out here to visit her once about a month into us dating, but he is coming out here again in a couple of weeks. I want her to hopefully figure out what she wants this time when he comes out here, but should I even wait until then? Do I continue to hangout with her they way I have been, or do I back off? Will distance help her miss me? Sometimes I feel that I am here just when she needs me, but man I love her what do I do?

2006-12-14 05:04:07 · 2 answers · asked by joecool71_3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:03:46 · 19 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:03:23 · 20 answers · asked by ri00 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:02:52 · 16 answers · asked by fsalomon06 1 in Friends

because she was once raped

2006-12-14 05:01:54 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the woman is 29 years old. she loves her son very much and at times it feels quite disgusting to me.Please advise me whether to continue with the relation or not

2006-12-14 05:01:53 · 18 answers · asked by tantrik 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am 39 and marred to a graet woman for 19 years but am a dick with the drink and the wife has had anuff no more **** she said but its hard to stop all together and at this time of year its murder so what do i do HELP...

2006-12-14 05:00:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you walk away and be a "lady" or kick some ***!!!!!!!!
(your house,his house,a car,doesnt matter.....

2006-12-14 05:00:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it good to have relationships before 18 that might not last very long?

2006-12-14 05:00:10 · 13 answers · asked by dragon_girl441 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I started dating this girl 4 months ago...we fell in Love fast and spend almost everday together. We are both in our mid 20's. Recently (last 2-3 weeks) we ran into some rough stuff in our familes...deaths of relatives , fights with parents..etc. So naturally I have wanted to see her and spend time with her in order to get comfort. She on the other hand has been more distant and alot less afectionate. So I have been constantly asking her whats wrong, and if it was me, and how she feels about me. She always reassures me that its not me and that she loves me, but her actions do not back it up. I explained to her that I am only feeling insecure due to her actions, and she said that my insecurity is pushing her away, and so it snow balls. Im feeling taken for granted. I spoke to her today about why she seems to be happier when she hangs out with her friends than when she hangs out with me, and she said its cause they dont pester her about whats wrong. Help?

2006-12-14 04:59:34 · 22 answers · asked by ajwpoet 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:58:36 · 18 answers · asked by Shiv 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm experiencing difficult times getting over a break up and handling the emotions of being betrayed by this "lover" and this has caused me stress which leaded to a bad smoking habbit... i've been smoking when im nervious or sad and it worries me because now im trying to stop... i have been smoking cigarettes for the past 2 wkswhat can i do??? now i always feel a need 2 smoke???

2006-12-14 04:57:48 · 6 answers · asked by CALI GIRL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i really ahve no idea what to get him..he doesnt have any big hobies and he is really not in need of anything. he doesnt like xbox and he has already 2 watch. money range doesnt really matter as long as it is not too expensive. and also i cant get him anything materialistic because he has everything he wants and needs! what should i do?

2006-12-14 04:56:29 · 22 answers · asked by Angel666 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tonight my daughters pre-school is having their Christmas party for the kids and parents. Would this be a good time to try and hit on some of the young hot single moms that have their kids go there too?

I am a 26 year old single dad, so I would not be cheating if you were thinking that. But I have seen some of the moms that drop their kids off, and some of them are really cute!

What do you all think?

2006-12-14 04:55:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he still mad about that I feel so bad. I didnt stand him up on purpose I had other things to do and I didnt call him and let him know that. So he called me today and he wants to hang out and I have no idea what we should do. I asked him what he wants to do and he said that he doesnt know me that well so he asked me what I want to do. Whats a great date that we could go on so we can get to know each other better? Any ideas? Thanks!

2006-12-14 04:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

me and this gay are going out and we dont no what to do? do we go to a movie or out to eat? what can we do?

2006-12-14 04:54:22 · 10 answers · asked by Hot chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by Oceanbreeze 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 04:53:26 · 36 answers · asked by utkarsh sunny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships