why cant i find a guy who treats me right?

Question

i went out with a guy and he cheated on me i went out with another and he cheated on me and it continued on 5times in a ROW! and then the next one turned out to be bisexual. i dont understand. why cant i find "Mr.Right"?

Answer 1

You are probably just searching too hard. The minute you calm down and quit looking something will happen, trust me. It's like the old addage: "A watched pot never boils." If you watch the water while you wait for it to boil it takes FOREVER, but if you put a lid on it and walk away it boils really fast.

I know it's easier said than done to try to forget, but in the end it works. I had been searching out for a man, and come up empty handed. Then one day I decided that it would happen to me when fate was ready for it, so I just decided to have fun being single, going out, focus on my work, etc. Then one day, I realized that I had the perfect guy right under my nose (He was/is my best friend.). We have been together for over a year now.

Good luck!

Laura

Answer 2

I'm writing a book on the subject, some women have a pattern. You are attracting the Mr. Wrongs with a needy insecure personality. You're like the little lamb the big bad wolves love to prey on. Set higher standards, be more confident and don't settle. We set the stage for how things come into play for us. Take a moment to ask yourself what am I doing repetitively in my relationships to cause repetitive results? Then make some serious changes, starting w/commanding respect and having more for yourself. We have more wrongs than rights(men) because women encourage such behavior by accepting negative and unsatisfying relationships. Even Mr.Wrong can be Mr.Right......with the right kind of woman. The ones who don't take no s**t!( That's who they cheated on you with). Strive to become a challenge no man can resist

Answer 3

Not to dampen ur hopes, but the term "Mr.Right" is only a myth. While its defitnetly not acceptable for a guy to cheat, other men with good traits and yet have their flaws should be acceptable. No one and i mean no one is perfect, thus Mr.Right does not realistically exist. You seem to have been with guys who are cheaters. Now a guy does not cheat because his partner is not desirable to him, for example jude law cheating on sienna miller and douglas [rumoured] cheating on zeta jones and angelina jolie cheating on brad [ rumoured ] for elizabeth mictchell. Notice how very attractive people are cheated on. You may be meeting men who cheat because u meet&date guys from a same area or community so it is best to stay clear of areas or places wih such people. Try new places for meeting potential partners. Why can't you find mr.right ? Or why can't you find a good guy ? Maybe u need yo change dating types ; for example if u date handsome studs, try dating intelligent or normal people for change and like i said earlier u may be looking in the wrong places.

Answer 4

1. You're looking for Mr. Right, who doesn't exist except for fictions.

2.I take it that you expect your 'dates' to be suddenly faithful to only you after a date or two.

3. Relationships are hard work. They don't just come to you when you whistle. It takes two and all it seems you're doing for your part is blaming the guys.

4. Stop looking for perfection and look to make friends first. Nothing is better to base a relationship on.

Answer 5

Hm-mm sounds like you had a rough rut.... Sorry to hear that.... Since was never really popular with the women I could tell you that you are not going to find them at the clubs...

If you work, why not try the restaurants near where you work in the daytime... Or the malls in the evening..... The grocery stores.... The bookstores....

Answer 6

Sounds to me that you're looking in the wrong places. Try meeting a guy at a church service or at an evening school for career building.

Answer 7

hey girl,
been there and done that there is no such thing as a perfect man. there are decent ones and they tend to be the older more mature ones. you jsut have to let it find you. dont go in searh of love. it will find you when you least expect it. your time will come. just let it go and find you. go out with ryour friends meet new people and take your time enjoy your life and being single and your time will come promise

Answer 8

the sole thank you to ignore him is to look at your self and comprehend which you're well worth "way" greater desirable than what he needed you for. you would be able to desire to comprehend which you're a eye-catching, good, individual and that there are "plenty" of adult men available who might incredibly opt for to have a gamble with you! You gotta in simple terms positioned that in the back of you and leave it on your previous the place it belongs, and make room on your existence/suggestions/coronary heart for somebody available who is going to handle you like a woman! you recognize such as you for you and not intercourse, somebody who will call you eye-catching even whilst your down and out!

Answer 9

first, try being single for a while, a couple of months at least i think..

if any guy (that you could be interested in) ask's you out during this time, tell him that your single, and trying to figure out who you really are right now, so you can't date...

now, during this time, spend time with friends, and family and just figure out who you are again...

now, after your (minimum) few months of being single, think about the kind of person you want to date. now, the first thing you will probably think of is that they look good. now you need to throw out any thoughts about how a person looks at all, that doesn't really matter... you date a person, not what they look like, so look at the person, who they are, what they like to do...

now think, where would a guy like this be?? he'd be at places that do what he likes to do, so go there looking for a guy, not the bar...

Answer 10

I would like to know the answer to that question as well!! I think about 90percent of all the ladies out there would. I think all of the good ones are either gay or spoken for already. Really sucks!