Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

cell phone and he has been coming up to her work. i felt something was up and we got into an argument and i kicked her out. That was when she started sleeping w/him. She broke it off w/him and a few days later he went back to jail...his second home... The guy she screwed is a loser kid ..like 21 or something..We are both in our late 20's. She begged me to take her back. Which i reluctently did. i still love her very much...and was going good unitl i found out she is writing him from work and having somebody mail it to the jail where he is at. He has wrote her back too. I told her whatever happens, he is not gonna be able to talk when he gets out, much less write!!!! I feel as if i've been betrayed not once but twice!!! she promised it wouldn't happen again. I want to believe her but......I never gave her a reason to cheat in the first place. She had nothing when i me her. I've given her everything i can. I told her i'm not stupid. I'm not putting up w/b s!! what should i do?

2006-12-14 05:37:03 · 45 answers · asked by brien w 1 in Singles & Dating

that you have a crush on them. I ride what they call a dollar van alomost everyday and their is one van driver that i think is hot. I think he wants to say something to me because he ALWAYS stares at me ( i noticed he doesn't do the same to the other passengers).

How do i tell them i think he is cute, without being too pushy

2006-12-14 05:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by queenzhottie78 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:35:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up w/ me 2 months ago. Though I suspect he may still have feelings.

When we were together we shared e-mail addresses and passwords to eachothers accounts.

I checked his e-mail the other day and he is still saving all the old e-mails that I wrote him saying how much I loved him etc.

This is a current account that I know he uses all the time.

Why would he be keeping these? Would he have deleted them if he was over me?

2006-12-14 05:35:23 · 7 answers · asked by jane d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:34:48 · 22 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:33:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My family chose to resolve an arguement at my sons funeral.They were curssing and fist fighting. One is the pastor of a baptist church and the instegator of the fight. The others just left church that morning and no one ever apologized for what happend. No one helped with expenses and shrugged it off as no big deal

2006-12-14 05:32:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I would like to be married Aug or Sept.

2006-12-14 05:32:12 · 21 answers · asked by trenafather 1 in Weddings

I have a new girlfriend who is 200 pounds and they tell me i could do better! Are they right? Iam 5'5 160lbs and she is 4'11 200lbs. what do you think?

2006-12-14 05:31:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:31:12 · 2 answers · asked by Weed 6 in Family

Tonight my daughters pre-school is having their Christmas party for the kids and parents. Would this be a good time to try and hit on some of the young hot single moms that have their kids go there too?

I am a 26 year old single dad, so I would not be cheating if you were thinking that. But I have seen some of the moms that drop their kids off, and some of them are really cute!

What do you all think?

Ok, by "hit on them" I do not mean walking up and saying "If I could change the alphabet I would put U and I together"!

I do mean startigng up a conversation and seeing if they would like to get coffee or something. This question was really more of would this be a good time and place type thing.

And I will NOT be ignoring my daughter for this, she is my little 3 foot nothing world! She will always be the #1 girl in my life, but after being a single dad for about a year now I feel that at least a date wouldn't hurt.

2006-12-14 05:30:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a boy in my class, My friend went out with him twice, but they are still good friends. This boy is like my best friend, we are constantly online, or hanging out. I only got the courage to tell him how I felt once, he admitted that he USED to feel the same way. He acts really weird around me, like he likes me. I am starting to kind of like him.. My friend, always tells me that she kind of likes him, but doesn't want to hurt me if she goes out with him... I really want a chance with this boy... any suggestions??

2006-12-14 05:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kara <3 1 in Friends

Can yo actually tell something about a person by knowing their sign?

2006-12-14 05:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by colb08 1 in Friends

Somewhere romantic, warm, or to party

2006-12-14 05:30:32 · 1 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by anjel m 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I recently got married three months ago...both of us virgins. Still after 3 months and a LOT of KY, sex is still painfull. :~( I'm a very small 5'2 woman size 0-3 in pants!! So my mother and mom-in law tell me its because I'm so small and things will get better once I "get some meat on my bones!" But...I was wondering if anyone knew an actual cause or something I can get or buy to make things "sensational!!"

Thanks,
sad woman

2006-12-14 05:29:10 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK so I go to college full time and work part time. My job consists of working with about 40, 1-4 year olds, and by the end of my shift, I am quite tired. I have 3 days of classes (MWF from about 8 am to 430pm with all my classes back to back), and on T/R I work (have to be at work by 730am). Well, he had the nerve to tell me that i was "recluse" because i "stay at home all day and watch tv". I dont know why he thinks I do nothing all day, just because I dont have a full time job. He tells me I should be able to go to school, work, and have time to go out with friends. I do go out with my friends, but not all of the time because i am very tired when I get home and I have to be up early most of the time. Besides that, I have never been a partier, and probably never will be, but he is trying to make me into that.

How do I get him to understand I am very busy and I do not want to go out? He just doesnt get it! What do I say to him? ...im tired of our fights over this topic

2006-12-14 05:28:36 · 1 answers · asked by swtgrlm 1 in Singles & Dating

I drink for a good reason when i was 10 my brother was killed by my best friend and my father told my mum that he hated me,at 12 my mums boyfriends ,dad, raped me, and i had a **** few years up till i meet my wife and marred at 19 but at 23 my older bother died, 6 years ago my mum died all i have to stop the pain is drink ......

2006-12-14 05:27:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-14 05:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Charissa M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:27:11 · 29 answers · asked by shark 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Thats not my only problem,i've recently came to the realisation i'm bisexual,since i fell for a close frend of mine,i dnt feel lyk i can tell him this either as when i asked his advice sayin it woz for a guy frend of mine to see his reaction,it weren't good at all,but i dnt feel comfortable lying to him.
Should i still go for him or should i give up now?
and should i wait for him to dump his gal or should what should i say to him bout it???
HELP ME!!!

2006-12-14 05:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by SecondhandTink. 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is 35y/o 5'6" and 185-190lbs. and rising She gets very angry and impatient with every one and I think its because she has little confidence and low self esteem.
I try and help I make all the meals do all the grocery shopping ask her to walk the treadmill for a 1/2 hour once and a while.
She respondes by buying pork rines and pizza rolls
Sitting on the couch or in bed snacking.
She tells me I'm paranoid and says since i'm 110lbs I have a distorted image of what people should be.
I'm 18 5'5" Healthy and have my 14 y/o brother and my Dad on a straight line to being healthy. How can I stop her from becoming something I know she doesn't want to be?

2006-12-14 05:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Crystal Blue 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 05:26:37 · 9 answers · asked by spunky.ragz 1 in Singles & Dating

Come on spill the beans!


I have a few I could tell you...


My freshman year of high school, I was dating this boy. One day we had a fire drill outside. After the drill when all the students walk back into the building. I waited for him to walk by. When I saw him walking up, I walked towards him, and all of a sudden, I feel, like right in front of him. I missed him about an inch, lol! And yes, he laughed, and I was mad! To make it worse, geese poop all over the field, and it was all over my coat, and in my hair!


Here's another...

There was this dance back in 8th grade. This boy I liked, grabbed a microphone and anounced he was going to dance with a girl he had a crush on. He said "Latoya Brown!" which is my name, but when I went up there, he looked at me like "what the hell?" There was another girl named Latoya Brown, and she was the one he was talking about. I ran out of there so fast, EMBARRASSED!



Any Embarrassing moments you want to share?

2006-12-14 05:26:26 · 2 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 05:25:54 · 34 answers · asked by michelle p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for christmas, I like him, and want to express that but I am not sure how much I like him and I don't want to give him the wrong impression only to end up not being that into him, but then again, I do like him so I don't want him to think that I am not into him,,, I can't remember but was dating this hard when I was in my twenties

2006-12-14 05:25:46 · 9 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for several years now. I am divorced with a child. His parents don't approve of us dating and haven't since the beginning. They decided this before they even got to know me just because I am divorced. They feel according to the bible that since I'm divorced that I would be an adulterous if I remarry. They stand firm in their decision. When I'm around they treat me as if I'm not there. I'm never invited to any family things. My boyfriend and I have discussed marriage. WOuld it be wrong of me to make him choose me or them? WHat should I do?

2006-12-14 05:24:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had my sister serve him he toke the order..but called my private so i picked up the phone.now he is saying he is going to kill me i dont have evidence on the phone call because he called me private what are some good recording things to put on your phone to record the conversation?? please help

2006-12-14 05:22:53 · 10 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am sorry for asking such a stupid question but itsjust tha i just turned 18 i am in the navy . when i talk to girls and i tell them they do a wierd look i dont know if they are impreassed or they think im supid for that or they dont bealive me WHAT CAN IT BE?
so if you dont mind tellin me please what do you think of this situation

2006-12-14 05:22:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the where abouts of my nephew who was adopted out in or around Rochester NY?
His birth name was Jonathan (Landon). Born November 1983.Do you know a Jon who's birthday is in Nov. born this year? Or some1 who was adopted & born this month & year? His 87 year old bio-logical grandmother wants to meet him as do I.E-mail me.Strictly confidential. Thx ;O)

2006-12-14 05:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family