Thats not my only problem,i've recently came to the realisation i'm bisexual,since i fell for a close frend of mine,i dnt feel lyk i can tell him this either as when i asked his advice sayin it woz for a guy frend of mine to see his reaction,it weren't good at all,but i dnt feel comfortable lying to him.
Should i still go for him or should i give up now?
and should i wait for him to dump his gal or should what should i say to him bout it???
HELP ME!!!
2006-12-14 05:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by SecondhandTink. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
VALUE YOURSELF.
Don't wait around for some guy who treats you like second best.
I think people make up too many excuses.
If he wanted to be with you, he would be.
Forget about him and take some time sorting yourself out.
Remember: It's your opinion of yourelf that counts not others.
AGAIN, VALUE YOURSELF.
2006-12-14 06:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by Haydn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once involved with a married guy for 2 years. He told me one time he wouldn't leave his wife. It didn't matter at the time because I didn't want a relationship. Overtime we both caught feelings and every once in a while he would say something about leaving her. Well, he has left his wife and I left him alone. I realized we couldn't continue a REAL relationship because I wouldn't trust him. So I would say move on. It's never going to be how you want and if he was to leave her you will always have the question in the back of you mind.... Am I the only one?
2006-12-14 05:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Kenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't continue with lies you do not want to have. You do not need to say a thing about being bisexual - even when/if asked, you can answer jokingly or stating only something obvious that applies to evereybody.
And don't keep yourself single and reseved for only him if he doesn't do the same for you. Go and date other people you meet or hang out with a group of people who already go out together as a group. That way you keep your options open.
2006-12-14 06:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by profound insight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because fantastic adult males are too common, ladies want the buzz of the chase. yet do not hassle, at the same time as she starts off crying and whining about this no longer-so-fantastic guy this is her own dam fault for dumping a guy who dealt with her precise. you'll stumble on a more desirable ideal gal for you(:
2016-10-18 07:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are bit weird about guy on guy action - hence his reaction.
if he's playing you by giving you the chat but not committing i would back away. If he dumps the girlfriend then he can persue you, but don't let him have his cake and eat it!
you're young, don't rush life on boys (or girls). Just enjoy yourself like a teenager should. (being with friends)
Sorry i'm not much more useful help. Life is always easier in words than in actions unfortunately.
2006-12-14 05:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really are confused!
You need to stop and think. Take a break and decide exactly what you want and wht would make you the happiest. Then and only then should you go for it or you will end up hurting others and yourself.
Good look and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-14 05:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO STRAIGHT AND DUMP HIM.
You can not have what is not yours to take.
You sound mixed up and sorting out the priorities and dealing with hangups especially with parents and people in authority.
I gave my life to GOD, Romans 10 v 9 to 10
2006-12-14 05:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, if he really wanted you he would have left her by now. Don't waste your time on something that may never work out. You shouldn't stress over this guy. Tell him you can't wait for ever, and that you dont want to be his hoe on the side.
2006-12-14 05:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he acts like an butthole now he is deffinately not going to change for you hunny id get over it and walk away now men like him are not worth the hassle he is playing you like a kipper luv....
2006-12-14 05:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his reaction wasnt good then i would leave it.
you will lose a good friend as well as making a fool of yourself.
2006-12-14 05:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋