Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

I think that my BF is cheating on me. He started acting a lil strange i don't noe if it just me or if thats how he shows that he loves someone.I thought he wanted something serios cuz he came 2 my house with his family 2 talk to my parents 4 the fist time. Everything was going good. Intil a couple of days i had court and he told me i have court this friday. So i talk to him when i get out. He askes me if he kan go with his friends and i said yeah. So he went and was soposed 2 come back at 10:30 but he didn't till 12:00. When i got 2 talk 2 him that night he told me he had been drinking. He told me that the only reason he had got back was cuz the girls stated drinking and he didn't want 2 do nothng stupid. So i got mad at him he told me he was sorry, that this was the last time. But yesterday it got worse at night when he got home from work we where talking like we always do (on his house phone) so start hearing him tex and i ask him who you texing. He tells me nobody and keeps texing

2006-12-14 04:50:14 · 11 answers · asked by baby brown eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

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ok...heres the scoop. My brother had a sex change operation last year..so he is now a "she". He is married...

and has 2 kids. They are coming to my parents house for Xmas and I will be there. My question is (1). What do the kids call her?..Dad or Mom? (2). It makes me very uncomfortable. This is a small town and Im afraid he (she) will be severely ridiculed. HELP

2006-12-14 04:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Studmuffin 3 in Family

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Is one claims abuse to avoid the separtion period for a divorce, are there legal consequences?

We want out now, and have to wait a year. If abuse is involved, you don't have to wait, but does one get arrested? Just thought we could agree to say one is abusing the other, or both of us are just to get it over quicker.

2006-12-14 04:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I want to be with my boyfriend and he wants to be with me but how can I when my dad might interfear?

We go to the same school and we know where each other live at and we just want to spend time with each other alone

2006-12-14 04:48:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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What do I put in a Christmas letter to my Step mom?

All my step mom wants for christmas is for all of us to be together, my uncle (her brother) just pasted way unexpectedly and faily young. She made a joke about just writting her a letter saying how much I love you. I want to do that, what should I write. We have just gotten close the past couple of years that I have moved back to the area. She is awonderful, strong christian women. I could write about all of that but if she is getting a letter as the main focus of her gift I want it to be powerful. Can you help me???????? What would you want to hear.

2006-12-14 04:47:39 · 12 answers · asked by verlee 2 in Family

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Do you tend to put your foot in your mouth during conversations??

Do your words just come out wrong??

2006-12-14 04:47:08 · 8 answers · asked by lisa s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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How should i set up my brother to meet an ex-coworker on a date?

I just got married and sent my wedding pictures to my old job where an ex-coworker and friend saw a picture of my brother in those photos. She thought he was cute etc blah blah blah so since my brother is divorced and single and looking, i asked if she'd like to meet him. SHe was ok with it and i asked my brother and he is ok with it. They never met. So now i'm wondering how i should get them together. Shoudl i send them on a blind date? Invite them over my place or go out together with my wife and them like a double date? I don't want to put pressure on either of them and they're both kinda shy but i think they'd really be good for each other and it would be a shame for them not to meet. How should i go about getting them to meet and tehy both want to meet each other?

2006-12-14 04:47:01 · 6 answers · asked by IM 2 in Singles & Dating

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I have a friend (girl) who I go to lunch with every other week. We talk about what's happening in out lives

She lives with her boyfriend, and I am married. No we are not fooling around. Her boyfriend and my wife know we go to lunch and they have no problem with it. We just enjoy each others company. We were co-workers and have remained friends even though we have both changed jobs. Our problem is with other people who see us having lunch. Either her firends or mine will ask us if we are having an affair. How can we stop the questions. No we don't plan on stopping the lunch dates.

2006-12-14 04:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by harold 4 in Friends

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dying over my exgf, is there way??!! help!!!!!!?

i'm asian and she's canadian, I went out for 6 months with her since summer, we broke up about 1 and a half week ago, she's 20 i'm 21, I was her longest relationship, she has trouble committing.. i treated her like princess... she said i was her first love, first partner, she gave me everything, but lately we argue more and more because she seems to put less effort into relationship. and we have broken up because of it before but we got back together right away. but then this argument came up and it was intense, i yelled, she swore.. she never want to work it out with me, she just wanted to let it go and acted like nothing happen.. I know she's still immature about relationship. but i love her very much. While she was still mad, she said that we're incompatible,never could be together again, now that she's not mad, i know she misses me but she doesn't say, and i also know she has trouble committing still.... i dunno if i can ever get her back , it's killing me, help me please

2006-12-14 04:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Singles & Dating

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Is it too late to dump my Girlfriend before Christmas?

2006-12-14 04:46:25 · 46 answers · asked by Glendon 1 in Singles & Dating

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there was a boy that liked me last year n it felt like he stalked me and even my friend which is....?

also his friend tried to set me up with him but i still hate him. its been a year now do you thinkhe still likes me?and he didnt get that im asian and he thought i waz mexican and i waz like how the **** do i look mexican cause look nothin mexican
soo wat

2006-12-14 04:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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How can I get a court order to be enforced when the judge who ordered it will not?

My ex has violated two court orders for support from the same judge, I filed a violation each time, go to the intitial hearing, then 5 moths later I get a court date for which another my ex gets another judgement. each time saying "Violating this court order could result in jail time". Just to have it violated again. I am thinking of small claims court instead of family court.

2006-12-14 04:44:38 · 16 answers · asked by gayle2renee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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how do I stop worrying?

I am constantly worried that my boyfriend is going to get bored. We never fight, we constantly do stuff and enjoy each other company. Anytime we go a day without talking, I worry. He usually calls or texts, but on the days he doesnt, I get nervous that this could be the end. We have been dating for 5 months. I realize people are busy and have stuff going on, but I could always find sometime to talk to him. How do I stop worrying and realize this is a normal part of a relationship?

2006-12-14 04:44:28 · 18 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Singles & Dating

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What happened to your first love...do you still think of them? Or did you marry them?

2006-12-14 04:44:21 · 18 answers · asked by ang_172 3 in Singles & Dating

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I get over EX BOYFRIENDS so fast when i thought i was in love?

Everytime i get with someone i can feel like i love them so much and they could feel like the world to me, but when we break up yea it might be hard and i might cry for a day but then its like i just don't care no more and its like f*ck it But i'm just confused with my self because at that time i was so in love then its like nothing i don't know maybe i didn't make sense lolz

2006-12-14 04:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by thinkk_pinkk197 1 in Singles & Dating

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Help! I would like to retract a mean email...?

Been a little frustrated with a friend, and in a bad moment I just sent an email that was meaner than he deserves. Should I call him right now and explain or just let him read it and go from there? I know he's not online now, so I have a few minute, or maybe a few hours... opinions?

2006-12-14 04:43:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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Boyfriend Is A Pervert, What should I do?

We went out for the first time a couple days ago, and he forced me to kiss him, kept putting his hand up my shirt, and told me he wanted to **** me!!
I should break up with him rite away, Rite?

2006-12-14 04:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by BOOM, roasted. 7 in Singles & Dating

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did i do the right thing?

i was asked out my a friend at school. my first reaction was no, but i really didn't want to hurt her, so i said yes. i was very happy being single and friends with her. i feel like a right **** head since i am trying to avoid her. i really don't want to hurt her since we have only been going out for a week. what should i do?

2006-12-14 04:43:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Does anyone have a login and password for 3D sex villa that i can use?

2006-12-14 04:42:35 · 4 answers · asked by JS 1 in Singles & Dating