I think that my BF is cheating on me. He started acting a lil strange i don't noe if it just me or if thats how he shows that he loves someone.I thought he wanted something serios cuz he came 2 my house with his family 2 talk to my parents 4 the fist time. Everything was going good. Intil a couple of days i had court and he told me i have court this friday. So i talk to him when i get out. He askes me if he kan go with his friends and i said yeah. So he went and was soposed 2 come back at 10:30 but he didn't till 12:00. When i got 2 talk 2 him that night he told me he had been drinking. He told me that the only reason he had got back was cuz the girls stated drinking and he didn't want 2 do nothng stupid. So i got mad at him he told me he was sorry, that this was the last time. But yesterday it got worse at night when he got home from work we where talking like we always do (on his house phone) so start hearing him tex and i ask him who you texing. He tells me nobody and keeps texing
2006-12-14 04:50:14 · 11 answers · asked by baby brown eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start checking up on him and you'll get your answers. They may not be the answers you're hoping for, but at least you'll not remain naive and know if this guy is worth wasting your time on.
I had the same gut feeling with my husband of 15 years. I was advised by his mother that he'd never do anything like that to me and to not worry. I chose to not be naive and check up on him. I followed him one night to find him in his truck making out with another woman. It hurt beyond belief, but forced me to make some decisions as to what was healthy for my life. I hope this helps. I wish you much luck.
2006-12-14 04:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by dini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him flat out if he is cheating or not. Ask him who he was text messaging and that you think it is a girl. Don't sound jealous or make it known that you are jealous. Just tell him up front you won't be treated that way and if he wants a relationship with you then female Friends will be talked to when you are there. I would say follow him and see what he does but that sounds a bit childish but if you really want to know and he is not going to give you a straight answer then do what you have to.
2006-12-14 04:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, in my experience, if you are suspicious he probably is.
Catching him is harder.
I thought my ex-boyfriend was cheating on me. Until one day I caught him in a lie. I called him and he told me that he was out with a mutual friend of ours; however, she happened to be standing right next to me at the time. Can we say busted?
Anyway, time after time I have seen suspicions proven true. All I can say is that you have to try to catch him, let it go, or sit down and tell him you think he is cheating. I would suggest you be up front. You will be able to tell if he is lying. (I didn't go this way because I just happen to catch him in a lie.)
2006-12-14 05:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You don't really know he's cheating
2. You have bigger worries than if your boyfriend is cheating.
3. If you really do suspect him, just ask!
4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5 Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7 Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
2006-12-14 05:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about this. Break up with him.
With all of the time that has been suddenly freed up, you could concentrate on something productive. Like studying. You could learn to spell and properly construct a sentence.
2006-12-14 04:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Steve H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may have flirted and may be texing someone he met. It does not appear that he had a chance to cheat yet. He may be seeing if its possible. Just pay attention to how he is changing his patterns and you will know when to say when.
2006-12-14 04:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by curious1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok i had this same problem he most likely is but have you you like um... slept with him?? cause if you haven't then he might be getting tired of you sorry i know it suck but that's what everyone told me too....
2006-12-14 04:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by sweetandspicy_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to St. Louis and have Monkey S*x with me to get back at him!!!
2006-12-14 04:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to convert him and tell him that if he dos cheat again you will end the relation
2006-12-14 04:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dragon Hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you dump him and take yourself back to school for an education??
2006-12-14 04:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by crackerz_in_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋