I am 26 and he just turned 21, do you think that he is mature enough to be in a serious relationship?
2006-12-14 04:50:51 · 16 answers · asked by crackerz_in_bed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
normally the age is not a problem, but is better the older be him, because they mature slowly than women, but actually the diffrence for you is not too much
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2006-12-14 04:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Muteki na Bengoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was the other way around and you were 21 and he was 26 then that would be an easy "everything thing is fine", but like the person before me, men do mature late and he can turn into a completely different person in the next couple of years. Just be careful.
2006-12-14 04:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by Tedo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a funny question because of the numbers. I just turned 21 and the woman I want to puruse is 26. Hopefully your not my lady, Jen. Anyway......
It really depends on who the guy is. Like I told you in my situation, I am a very mature 21 because of a couple of reasons. And that's what you have to base your decision on. I have done a lot of my partying and dating "randoms" already and I am just looking foward to something more stable and maybe lasting. It really depends on the guy there is nothing more to say. Does he seem mature, how much is he willing to do to be in a relationship with you. You really just have to ask yourself questions and go from there. Good luck to you. And whatever you choose, all 21 year olds are not "young, dumb and full of c um".
2006-12-14 05:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age really matters... its not something I really worry about. If you have true feelings for this person then age shouldn't matter. We don't know this guy so you have to decide is he mature enough to be in a serious relationship or not. Maybe you should give it a try see what you think about him.
2006-12-14 04:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by AG3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men at that age are usually not mature enough for any long term commitment. Another 5 or 6 years would make a huge difference!
2006-12-14 05:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say there are people who are really mature for their age, I think you could find out how mature that person is by observing the character.
2006-12-14 04:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by saraa_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but most likely not.
Most women aren't ready to be in a real relationship at 21 (college age), let alone a guy.
This applies, ESPECIALLY, if he's in college.
2006-12-14 05:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really depends on the person, but probably not at 21!! Doesn't mean you can't still go out and have fun!
2006-12-14 04:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO i think age doesn't matter to me but cuz i've also dated a girl who are 4 years older than me, we broke up because long distance... we were still in love..
anyway , please don't confuse between age, and maturity..
good luck to you
2006-12-14 04:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 26 and my bf is 46 so no age is not relevant. we are very mcuh in love and been together for years. He is my soul mate. if it feels right to you dont let any other person tell you its wrong
2006-12-14 04:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by tracfone g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number. there is not that much difference in your ages. yes i think that he could handle a serious relationship
2006-12-14 05:01:37 · answer #11 · answered by ken s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋