2006-12-14 04:46:25 · 46 answers · asked by Glendon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. But when you do, can I have her ?
2006-12-14 04:48:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on how long you have been together. If it's only been a few months, I think it's okay to do it anytime. If it's been longer and you have been pretty serious, it might be nicer to wait until after the holiday. As a girl, I can say that if I was in love with my boyfriend and he dumped me right before Christmas, I would be pretty devastated and it would make my holiday pretty sad. On the other hand if she has cheated or you have been at each others throats, go ahead and get it over with.
2006-12-14 04:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait till after christmas. I know i wouldn't like to be dumped on christmas day, if you have any feelings at all for her tell her after, otherwise she will be miserable over the season.
2006-12-14 06:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by susie ooozzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never nice to be dumped at anytime of year
I think if that is how you feel do it it is better for you and for her no point prolonging the agony is it!
And in actual fact it might be better as she will have family and the usual Christmas stuff to help take her mind of it
2006-12-14 05:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy then no it's not too late...UNLESS of course your just to mean to get her a present...not saying that this is the reason but be genuine, if you don't love her, then finish it, and not coz you don't wanna get her a gift....also it will give her the freedom to find someone who does want to be with her, don't forget all them parties going on over christmas (the world is her boystore)....she may well get the chance to pull some real crackers
2006-12-14 04:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet, make her dump you. Be an *** pick some fights, have her getting rid of you that way its not your fault and you still dont have to buy a christmas pres.
2006-12-14 04:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by peardietz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel that you should do it? If you don't want to be with her then tell her. Yes it may hurt her, but if you wait then it will be right before New Years and thats an exciting time too! So what you do is up to you!!!
2006-12-14 04:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by AG3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am imagining that it is gonna gop something like this mate:
11.59pm Christmas Eve.
'Baby i have a suprise for you for Christmas. Pack some stuff in an overnight bag.'
'Why are you taking me somewhere romantic for Christmas?'
'No Bird i am dumping ya! Get out.'
2006-12-14 04:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Litmus180 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its pretty heartless to dump her around christmastime. the gentlemanly thing to do (if you care about her feelings even at all) is to wait until after christmas. Otherwise it'll ruin her christmas, and thats not fair to her. After the 25th, you're all clear for landing. (And hey, If you want to be selfish, think of it this way: if you wait until after christmas to do it, you'll still get a gift from her...)
2006-12-14 04:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by hailey random 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump her now, theres no point in dragging it out over Crimbo, you will feel bad and she will wonder whats going on! Plus if you do it now you will save some £ if you aint already bought her a pressie and then if you are out over Crimbo and New Year you can go on the pull! Woohoo!
2006-12-14 05:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christmas is a day just like any other. If it were any given Monday/Tuesday, any day you wouldn't have a problem. If you feel you need out get out, no matter what time or day.
2006-12-14 04:51:24 · answer #11 · answered by Floss 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋