my ex and i dated for 2yrs had a great relationship, broke-up because fin. problems. stayd really good friends he started seeing sum one for 8mos. i was hurt over, stayd friz. now 2yrs later still luv him told him. he said he does luv me alot. we said this 2mos ago but, he is really not happy w/ his life right now. he is very broke no money, no job, no car & lives w/mom. a now the other girl has started to call him again. he says she is just a friend only spends time w/me. I'm 15yrs older. what should I do? stay his friend and cont. to support him. or just leave him alone? and does he really luv me, like i luv him? whatz up w/ ex girlfriend?
2006-12-14 05:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by luving2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
End this quick. You are being used.
I had an ex that didn't have a job, etc. and mooched off me all the time. I think he just said he loved me for financial support.
You seem to be in the same situation you were 2 years ago. Financial problems..... only it's him that is the problem.
You can't make him change, and he won't. He knows that you will support him, so why should he work?
BTW, drop him like a bad habit..... Don't be friends with him after. That will just want to make you date him again. You need to be free from the burden of him. If he really was your friend he wouldn't have used you in the first place.
2006-12-14 05:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god theres so much confusion inur relation, c'mon ask him , if u feel dat his relationship wid other gul is gettin far more than frienship den forger him, find sum1 in which theres no confusion he loves u truly and u loves, a relation in which he admits dat he is in luv wid u and theres no other gul scene. find sum1 better than this relation, considering dis guy, be a good friend and if u want 2 support him, do upport and help him, may be other gul is just a friend and things get better between u, but keep looking for a clear and better reltion widout confusions,
2006-12-14 13:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by dia a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your way too young to be worrying about some guy who cant take care of him self most-less taking care of you, it is ok that you still have feelings for him because you and him went out for 2yrs. and may he still have feelings for you and may he don't he just have a little and want to try again. but trying again been that problem may start up again and end the relationship.
2006-12-14 13:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by flygi6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he was in love with you and wanted you he would make it happen. I think he probably does not know what he wants considering the state of his life. I would stay friends with him if you can and see what happenes. If that hurts you too much tell him, give him a chance to fight for you, and if not then move on.
2006-12-14 13:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shyte why do you talk to him about this we don't knoe him i would like to help you really... but im srry i can't... im srry... just sit down with him and see you knoe what i mean.. he will understand
2006-12-14 13:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by enjoying_lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you but not in love with you. never backtrack, move on
2006-12-14 13:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋