i'm a 19 yr old girl i'm with this 32 yr old man for 1 yrs and 9 months... for e start our relationship was ok.. he will take initiative to make me happier.. we wud go out and have fun. he wud bring me to places for romantic dinners.. but after half a yr.. everything changed. e first few months of our relationship he used to have sex with me 5 or e least twice a day.. and now.. i will have to ask and Hint and it makes me feel like a ****.. and it made my self esteem went down. (I begged cos it a week without sex thn it's a month thn it's 2 months) and for e last 6 months it's like he jus hav sex with me bcos i Forced him to have it.. Which Makes Me feel So Miserable.. I'm Not an ugly girl.. i have alot of guys out there who wants me . but whenever I talk abt leaving him.. he will shout at me and cos we live together its Hard for me . i don't mind trying to make things work out. BUt when i even try to work things out... he Looses his temper and most Of e time i wud end up crying..
2006-12-14 05:08:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as i cry he wud shout at me again for crying.. and we hav alot of financial issues too... I paid for most of e things.. So it makes me feel worse it's like he's jus with me for my money.. he doesn't celebrate my bdaes valentines or any other festivals tht i can think of. I'm stuck Help me..
2006-12-14 05:10:56 · update #1
I tried so many times to break up.. and he jus begs me and keeps saying sorry tht he loves me and all... ... i hate myself for being soft hearted.. I wanna get out but i dun noe how.. I am out and my parents are those kind of parents tht wud laugh at me and critisize me if i go back home.. I rented e apartment.. and it's killing me financially too.. i duno what to do
2006-12-14 05:23:00 · update #2
you can move out of your 32 yr old mans house, and move into a 21 yr old guy's house ;) i'll give you what you want
2006-12-14 05:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For God sake, leave him for good. You are just with him for less than 2 years, what about one whole life? When will you break down? Since financially you are paying for most of the things, what make it so difficult to leave him due to financial? If you can't afford to lent an apartment, why not just rent a room? Of course, if you still think you can leave with this guy for whole life, then by all meant, if not, leave him.
2006-12-14 12:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to find someone else, before that temper gets out of control. I know you love him but it is time to move on. You are not much older than my sixteen year old daughter and I can tell you dating is not supposed to be like this. You should be happy. You deserve more. There is someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve. Think about it. Mr Right is out there and you are tied up with Mr Wrong. Please find a way out of this relationship before it destroys you.
2006-12-14 05:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. Ask yourself what 32 yr old man would having a 19 yr old girlfriend footing all his bills. He's controling and stupid. He doesn't want a real women he wants somone he can reu over and you're letting him. Move on while you're still young and attractive.
2006-12-14 05:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every men goes thru the same when we are with the same women for too long, if you want to keep him, just act like you don't care don't call him don't look for him do things on you own and he will get back to you just act like you are too bussy to take his sh**.
2006-12-14 05:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out!! seriously!!!
He is using you and I think this guy is a bum. He should be more self sufficient by now. Sorry but I don't think you should waste your time with this supposed man.
2006-12-14 05:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Brandi H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do your self a favor and let this relationship go I don't think that its healthy for you. Maybe you should let mother nature take its corse. Older men tend to want to change young women you put your foot down and let him know that your not going to take his s.......t.!!!!
Good luck
2006-12-14 05:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdiamonds18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta talk to him about your emotion, see how he feels now, you're only 19 .. may be think things over???
make him realize what you really worth and he'll come around hopefully
good luck
2006-12-14 05:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by tele t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get comfortable in relationships
They sometimes don't realize what they have to loose
2006-12-14 05:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋