I have been seeing this guy for about 7 or 8 weeks. I bought him a couple Christmas presents (nothing major). How should I go about giving them to him? I mean, we aren't officially a couple and we haven't discussed the whole present thing.
I feel silly asking this, BTW. Thanks for all of your help!
2006-12-14 04:37:16 · 15 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just give them to him and be like marry christmas with a quick kiss .
2006-12-14 04:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by 29LICKS & MR.29LICKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out for dinner or plan one at home and give him the gifts. As long as it is nothing major and it won't scare him away the fact that you are not a "couple" as of yet should not matter.
2006-12-14 12:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by angelahawthorne@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to feel silly. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate but, next time you see him just let him know that you thought of him and say merry christmas. Give him his gifts and then you can go from there.
2006-12-14 12:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel silly, silly. next time you see him or call and ask if you can come over for a few minutes and just hand them to him. Say Merry Christmas.
2006-12-14 12:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give them to him. However do it kind of early. He may not be expecting a gift exchange and did not get you anything so don't be disappointed if he didn't, however if you give him the gifts a little early, it will leave time for him to do some last minute shopping and grab you something.
2006-12-14 12:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't give the presents to him unless he shows up with a present for you. WHY? because you'll be offended by his failure to think enough of you to buy you a simple present. you're setting yourself up for hurt and also, you're setting him up for embarrassment. both feelings could jeopardize the relationship you have started to develop with him.
best of luck!
2006-12-14 12:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrap them up, ask him to your house, hug him when he walks, in ( take that exact time to KISS him) then say come in I have something for you
then give him the presents....and if he says I did not get you anything, say your here that's all that counts..and then say thank you, and kiss him again...
smile
good luck
2006-12-15 20:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think 1 gift is plenty at this stage in your relationship.
More than that makes it seem like you're trying to buy him.
2006-12-14 12:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it over dinner..but not on christmas day or eve if you are not seriously dating..he will take it that you are.
2006-12-14 12:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up slow your roll. Let him buy you the gift first. if he does buy you one then maybe take one out of the stash otherwise you seem desperate.
2006-12-14 12:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by wifeofkerron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋