we broke up almost an year ago and recently my ex has just asked out someone else.i still have feelings for him though i don't know his current feelings about me.and i'm sort of going out with someone else too but i'm not really into my present relationship. so....is it okay????????
2006-12-14 04:31:00 · 16 answers · asked by elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
certainly, especially if you were deeply in love with him.
i'm 40 years beyond a breakup with an old girlfriend. i still hold loving feelings toward her and always remember her on my birthday, her birthday, May 10 (the day of our first date), and at Christmas.
a loving relationship can never be out of sight, out of mind. no matter how hard we try to move beyond the breakup, thoughts of what if and i miss still linger in the quiet of our mind.
2006-12-14 04:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over things but don't linger on those feelings. you broke up for a reason and you need to accept that. You might get jealous because he found someone new but that is normal- just get over it. If you aren't into you present relationship then break it off. Be single for a while and get used to you. Being single is fun, you don't have to spend money on NO ONE else except yourself and you are totally free to go and do whatever you please! If you really want to have a thrill- get yourself a makeover and if you happen to run into your ex (don't go looking for him though) let him see how fabulous you are and how much you are NOT missing him. That'll help ease your pain.
2006-12-14 12:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally ok, I was with my ex for 6 years, with my current for almost 4 now and I saw my ex the other day and realized I still had feelings for him, there's a reason why we went out with them in the first place right i mean I still love him but not so much In love with him you know?
2006-12-14 12:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are holding yourself back in life. realize that the relationship is "DEAD". it's not what you want it to be it'll probably never be. it will take time to get over it, but you deserve the best. if you aren't happy in your current relationship then maybe you should take a break from it or talk to them about how you are feeling or do more activities with your current love. actually don't talk to them about hte other person that would probably upset them.
2006-12-14 12:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know what's make you broke up with him and ask him if he still have feeling for you
2006-12-14 12:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by bonbonfle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon to have feelings for him. It just takes time to get over someone. Remember it didn't work between you two so just be happy for him, and someone special will come your way eventually.
2006-12-14 12:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think its ok...things like that happen....u break up and after sometime u start to like that person again...its doesnt happen very often but it is ok...u should talk to him....maybe he still have feelings for u...it could be that he's going out with someone else to forget u....so hurry before its too late!!! let him know....u got nothing to lose anyway :)....good luck!
2006-12-14 12:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would it be okay? if he has a gf and you have a bf and you two broke up a year ago maybe you should let go and let someone else be happy with him.
2006-12-14 12:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have feelings for him; but i wouldn't purposely go in and step on the new girls toes... you guys broke up for a reason remember... so it's best to just leave a piece of your heart for him and hope hes happy.
2006-12-14 12:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is if your not in a relationship currently.
2006-12-14 12:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋