We dated for four years the first two were great. We were young in our mid-twenties. However, he began to use drugs and cheated on me, but was honest about it. He said he need help and was in therapy. However, he moved to Colorado and is doing well but still has somethings to work on. He wants to be friends I find it very painful because I love him and don't want to let go. I feel like he is my soul mate. We had the best times of our life together. He won't say that he never wants to get back together but he will not give me an answer about the future at all. He want to see me at christmas but just as friends. I am still in love with him and he knows it. I am not sure this is a good idea, but he says he wants to see. I think I just need to find a way to move on or do I wait? I still live in Tennessee and he has no immediate plans of moving back.
2006-12-14 03:53:57 · 6 answers · asked by wen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep him only as a normal friend...done lose him completely
one day u may need him
2006-12-14 03:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go coz it will be torture for you. As he has moved away I think the sooner you sever contact with him completely the sooner you can come to terms with your loss and get on with your life. I promise you that the feelings will fade if you don't see him but by staying friends and seeing him sometimes you are just prolonging the agony. Say goodbye. Your life will be good again in the future but give yourself time. Good luck :)
2006-12-14 04:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it is time to move on. You'll get your heart all involved and he'll break it again. I've seen it one too many times.
Though it hurts now, the only way to let time heal you is to stay away. Him being flaunted in front of you all the time only makes the pain hurt more..
Good luck to you.
2006-12-14 03:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut down on how often yall talk. Ease your way down... like, maybe call once every few weeks or so.. then once a year, just to check on each other. That's the best way to move on.
2006-12-14 04:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, and let him go.
He doesn't want the same type of a relationship.
You are free, go find someone who does.
2006-12-14 04:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i thionk you should talk with him.
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2006-12-14 03:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋