Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

He also told me that he love's me but i think he just wants too have sex! He said i love you first and i just dont know what to do. Should i belive him?

2006-12-14 09:04:17 · 20 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be ex is a horrible person. He lied to me our entire marriage, took money from me, stole our income tax return last year when i didn't have a penny to my name, kicked me out on the street with nothing, has been arrested for fraud, etc. I want my daughter, 4 years old with me, I'm her mother. I'm planning on moving to Nevada next month but she goes to school in CA and will be with her dad most of the time. Can I still win this battle and then take her with me? OR, what are my rights as her mother? Can i take her to Nevada when i move? He's got issues though, he would go ballistic! What can i do, she's my baby! He acts like she's his and only his.

2006-12-14 09:03:10 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 09:03:08 · 7 answers · asked by Mickey S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by littleroseyposey 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes 15. Im 15.
We have been together for a little over 1 month.
What Should I Get Him For Christmas???

2006-12-14 09:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should I leave?

2006-12-14 09:02:16 · 10 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:01:18 · 34 answers · asked by nick d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How would you manage without ever having sex with your marital partner? I mean, if you were really compatible in all other areas of your lives but your spouse was very unattractive to you physically, how would you deal with it?

2006-12-14 09:01:15 · 17 answers · asked by gentle understanding 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't mind, really, but he always makes a funny face that is so cute. Does he liek me ;)

2006-12-14 09:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need this for an assigment and I need the opinion of the people to do it and have a better grade.Thank you for your attention!!!

2006-12-14 09:00:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, well here's the deal.. i met this guy the other night. we talked for a bit (and he even did the.. so can i take you out to lunch or dinner sometime) and were both getting a little tired of the scene we were in..so he suggested heading back and watching a movie. despite my better instincts i agreed. so we went back and watched most of a movie.. all of a sudden he leans over and starts initiating sex.. well, i wasn't really into hooking up with him on the first night, and i explained this to him..after about 30 minutes it pretty much got to the point where i couldn resist..(yeah, weak i know..but seriously, i love my sex, LOL!) well now the problem lies in the fact that i was actually kind of interested in getting to know him, and after a weekend long of sex.. it's going to be pretty hard to be anything but an easy lay to him. at first he seemd interested and now.. i'm not sure. there's another problem in that. i think he thinks i'm only interested in friends with benefits.

2006-12-14 09:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not sure whose fault the ending of this relationship is? I have known my ex for 5 years ..the first 4 years we were only freinds..I wanted it that way..I was to busy in college and couldnt handle any realtionships at the time pluse he was getting over a divorce that took place 4 years ago...he pursued me always in those 4 years...but i always wanted to remain friends..it is this year that we had a coming together..and he said i finally came around, and i did wholeheartedly...i loved this man..i live here in the sates and he was living overseas at this time..well he asked me to marry him..i accepted and we finally got engaged..as he were continuing this long distance engagement, Iwas becoming suspicious of his communication to me...so I decided to e-mail his sister in law, a woman that cant stand him, an e-mail explaning to her that I have suspicions about my fiancee and cant trust him and need to send some of his papers to her...he got pissed that i sent this e-mail, i badgered him if he was seeing or talking to anyone at this time...he sadi to me yes he was with 4 strippers..i hung up on him and didnt want anything to do with him...he flys to see me the next day ...he is at the lobby of my apartment begging for forgiveness and asks to see counselors...i accepted..then spent the next 5 months with him...but i never forgave him...i pushed him far away..his excuse was he wasnt sure if i ever was going to really move overseas with him , and didnt know for sure, even though we made plans and got engaged..so why am i hurting for a person like this???? he tried to make things right and has bought me tickets all around the world and has tried to tell me he will let me live a great lifestyle to just forgive him...he also has a friend (woman) that is married , they e-mail each other once in awhile..but her e-mails are always long and elaborate...she is married mind you..i asked him to stop,,but he refused saying i wanted to control who he spoke with..i dont know what to do!!!!!! i am not sure whose fault this is, is it my fault because i ignored the fact that he wanted to be close with me years ago?? should i forgive him?? and why doesnt he want to give up this girl??

2006-12-14 09:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

2 things.. 1st - I did something really bad to my boyfriend and I was going to tell him but he found out before.. Now I breached all trust with this thing.. I dont know what to do to earn that trust back. I know its a hard thing to get back.. but I need some advise..

2nd thing is I am pregnant and I have known for a few weeks and he is also upset that I waited to tell him this news..

Please, I need some good advise.. No put downs or yelling of sorts.

2006-12-14 08:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by expensv_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

has been chasing you for over a year,is it likely he will leave you once youve slept with him???

2006-12-14 08:59:38 · 51 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

We've stayed friends, and we talk an awful lot together. But this guy she's been dating is a piece of trash. Doesn't pay attention to her, is mean to her, generally not any fun to be around, and I really wouldn't be suprised if her cheats on her. She's an awesome girl, and she deserves a lot better than him. She's miserable with this A$$hole. I've told her to find a guy that treats her better, the problem is she's not the strongest, and I think that she's just afraid to be alone. What do I tell her? Anyone been in her spot before that can tell me what to say to talk some sense into her?

2006-12-14 08:58:58 · 6 answers · asked by mygosh 1 in Singles & Dating

has been chasing you for over a year,is it likely he will leave you once youve slept with him???

2006-12-14 08:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy over a year ago at a nightclub and we kept in touch for a couple months. He would call me almost everyday,but because he had a girlfriend and i was involved with someone we did not pursue anything.I ended up moving and we lost contact for about 2 months and i ran into him again at a different nightclub and we exchanged numbers again. He tells me he likes me and he still calls me almost everyday,but i'm confused as to what he wants from me. He'll tell me he wants a relationship,but when i invite him over to my place or try to make plans for a date he always has an excuse and will not come over. I like him,but refuse to chase him. What should i do?

2006-12-14 08:58:08 · 6 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Singles & Dating

who uses your life when your not around? i have a friend that does this. she will use my profession and even tell MY stories as her own to try to make conversation with people. i think it's sad. she has even tried to tell me my own stories before. do you think she's mental or is it just me?

2006-12-14 08:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend has just moved to another state about two weeks ago and we both decided that we should be friends, so i guess he is my ex-boyfriend. But anywho, i miss him so much and i want to be with him. But right now its just not in the cards for me. I can't stop thinking about him and looking a his picture and its just killing me to be away from him. What should i do?

2006-12-14 08:56:26 · 22 answers · asked by line6_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

were 14 and we've been together for 3 months. i always end up making things worse ...please help!!

2006-12-14 08:56:06 · 9 answers · asked by olivia n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 08:55:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do I accept her advances? Have a nice time and a possible promotion? Or do I keep my nose clean and work, work, work?

2006-12-14 08:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to cut the chase. We have been married 1 year. I clean,pay bills,cook sometimes,watch the kids, and wake with the puppy all hours of the night. She still not happy. Nag nag nag

2006-12-14 08:55:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well basically im married and have been for nearly 4 years now everyday i have gotten into the habbit of making my husbands breakfast and lunch and packing it up for him for work i make him toasted sandwiches for breakfast and hot food for lunch(leftover dinner etc) but latley he has been not eating his breakfast and throwing it in the bin and i keep finding these sandwiches in the bin which is obviously annoying to me coz its a waste of my time and food.i confronted him and he said he just doesnt have time to eat it,but then this kept going on and he finally told me the real reason is that he thinks they are boring. thats why he throws them away so i said "fine im not making ur breakfast or lunch anymore" find ur own lunch...mind you he never makes his own lunch or breakfast EVER actually he doesnt do anything but go to work come home eat watch tv go to bed...and i do everything for him and he still complains that i dont do things for him i mean come on he cant even tie his own tie..

2006-12-14 08:55:40 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy_mum24 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my godsoon has been living with me off in on for the paast 4 and 1half years and his mother wont give up cousdy because she will lose her goverment benifits and dss in my town says she has tje right to do that they wont help and she is not happy with her he has even told me that he wonted to kill his self and he ia only 5 years old he should not have to fell that way HELP!

2006-12-14 08:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by lazavion 1 in Family

My husband works out of town about 4 months out of the year. When he is gone I get lonely and spend alot of time with friends and family. He gets very upset and says that I need to be at home. How can I get him to see just how lonley it is to come home to a empty house day after day????

2006-12-14 08:53:32 · 24 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in a grade were i have some friends but i usally hang out more with the grade ahead of me.. i like them more then the ppl in my so u know i rather hang with them and what if it is making some of my friends angry and i dont know i wont to hang out with the grade ahead of me but i wont to be able to talk to my grade without them being mad.

HELP

2006-12-14 08:53:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Thirty years old And still longing to find
The girl of my dreams The one that is mine
I've been to the parties, The bars and the parks
I've given my money, My time and my heart
I thought it was this one, Or that one, or her
But then after all, I wasn't so sure
So where is this angel That God sent for me
The one that they said I'd know when we meet
Did I miss her, did I know her, Is fate really true
Or did he forget mine When he sent one to you
Or maybe she's coming A little bit late
Maybe awaiting The appropriate date
So what do I do Just wait til I'm old
Sleep in this bed All my life all alone
Or do I just settle for For the first pretty girl
That smiles real big When I give her a twirl
A cozy warm bed Seems easier to me
Even though she's not quite Who I thought she would be
It all seems so hard, I can't get it straight
I'm tired of waiting For the hands of fate
I guess the stars know more than I'll ever see
I guess I'll just leave it to the powers that be

2006-12-14 08:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by your_name_here 3 in Singles & Dating

The other night my friend went out to a club with her work colleagues and had far too much to drink. She called me up at 4am and was quite upset she said that her manager tried to touch her but she pushed him away and she also told me her dad raped her when she was seven. The problem is that the next day she had absolutely no idea she had told me these things she only remembered a bit about what she said about her dad. She doesnt think that even happened to her at seven. She is extremely confused. I would just like to know whether or not this has happened to anyone or if it was her subconcious mind speaking that nite? Any psychologists around?

2006-12-14 08:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by Den 2 in Friends

He calls me constantly and stays on the line talking to me forever. He has e-mailed me his pics and I have sent him pics of me through the mail; (he lives far), anyway, for the last two weeks he has been telling me that he really likes me and wants to meet me in person and that we could grow to being together and being a couple. I don't know what to do because I am falling for him hard - except that he is only 24 and I am 36. He does act and sound very mature for his age, what can I do?

2006-12-14 08:52:59 · 10 answers · asked by Ladyinred 2 in Singles & Dating