Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

this is the she's about 23 year old and so am i. t fist- it was because i felt really attracted to him but- now that i've gottten to knwo him- he grosses me out. Hie's married with 2 kids and i have a 4 year relationship with my bf who i'm bored with now. At first i was in it for the thrill and fun of a new guy but nwo- i'm just really turned off by my boss. The first time we did it- it was ok and i felt guilty after because my bf's wierner and sex is better than the boss. Also- his wienier smells really bad since he's not circumsized. But- now that i don't to have anything to do with it or him- he won't leave me alone he wants to "play with me" whenever he wants to and touches me when i don't want him to. What should i do? When he's mad at me for not letting him do things to me he uses it agianst me and pays me less hours our my pay check. what can i do about this? can i tell his dad? the owner? what shouldi do to make him stop i don't want him anymore but he insists in having sex

2006-12-14 09:19:18 · 17 answers · asked by sweetmotherofgod2006 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to learn more about this girl. Somone told me that this girl has a problem telling the truth. Should i ask her about it? I kinda want to know what the deal is. What should i do???

2006-12-14 09:17:30 · 7 answers · asked by dude wheres my car 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy named John. He always stares at me and he talks about me with his friends. John knows that I like him. Yesterday he looked at me walking to the back of the school to play handball. After 10 minutes, I saw him staring at me and he shaked his chest. Then after 5 minutes, his basketball was coming my way and it was 3 yards away from me. When he got it, he stood there for like a minute and was looking at me. When the period was almost over, I was with my friends and I was near his court. I was lloking towards my right and when I turned to my left, I saw him 1 foot away from me, looking at me and he suddenly turned around and went back to his court. In the morning, his eyes were half closed and he was looking at me from head to toe (aka: checkin me out). WHat do you think, does he like me or what is he doing? Thanks!!!

2006-12-14 09:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is so sweet but i like someone else.I don't want to break up with him because i don't wanna hurt his felings.i'm only 11!! PLEASE HELP

2006-12-14 09:16:26 · 16 answers · asked by hates_chase 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. But, I'm not sure if he wants to get romantically involved too, as in bf and gf. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why me and not some other pretty girl who goes to our school...I'm average looking, and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. Do u think he wants more that just to go to a dance? Should I ask him if he wants more, or just wait and see? Am I exaggerating a simple situation?

2006-12-14 09:16:12 · 34 answers · asked by Iamnottellingyou 1 in Singles & Dating

god i dislike christmas to put a nice way all this hipe for nothing and the amount of money we spend is crazy or am i a scrouge

2006-12-14 09:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by bernie g 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, i am 4 months in my new skool, i like it but every1 in my class is so horrible to me except for 1 or 2 people, they keep spreading untrue rumors bout me and i always have 2 sit on my own during lessons, no 1 wnts to sit next 2 me just cuz i`m new, if the tutor makes a seating plan and some 1 has to sit nxt 2 me, it`ll b hell 4 them, they dont know wat i`m like, i`m just like them talketive, chatty, funny but they dont know that i havent shown wat i`m like yet, they all sit next 2 their friends chatting and laughing while i sit on my own wiv no 1 and this really brings me down, this never happened @ my old schools, i wnt 2 be friends wiv any 1 in my class but they all hve their own m8s and if i`ll join them they`ll think wat a b**** she takes our friends away from us, so i cnt hve any friends like that, i`m a bit shy to show my style and make every1 laugh cuz they might say somthin rude 2 me, and i just dont know wat to do i really need ur advice

2006-12-14 09:15:04 · 11 answers · asked by Emily * 1 in Friends

Wut shood i say to a guy if i lyke him cuz i wanna talk 2 him but i have no clue wut 2 say

thanx

2006-12-14 09:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by Ash-Sha-Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

So I wanted a you know to get things started. SHe said no because she hadn;t brushed her teeth and that if she did that, the bacteria would get on Captain Happy. Once the Cap' was inside he would transfer the bacteria and she would get a urinary tract infection. I'm smelling BS, what say you?

2006-12-14 09:14:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for well over a year now. He is always talking about how much he lvoes me and how much he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We'ew even started talking about how we would raise kids together and what we would name them and all the stuff! He's said he wants to marry me one day and even took me to a few jewlery stores to see if I like and RINGS! he had them size my RING FINGER and everything! he picked out this gorgeous ring and had my opinion on it. It was HUGE! ( like 4.5 or 5 carets) I told him that was too much for me, but he said " I'm just getting a gernal idea of what I want to get you for when I do propose."
When do you thin khe is going to do it? Soon?

Im 16, yes I know, too young to get married, but exclude that though. I just want people's honest opinions on this.
Thanks

2006-12-14 09:14:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Would you flirt and wink at a girl at work? Give her compliments all the time and stare directly into her eyes when you are talking to her even in a room full of people. We had a few drinks a couple of months ago at a business meeting and we were obviusly very attached to each other which is not allowed. He is giving me mixed signals, one day he tells me he has a disfunctional family and tells the guys at work he and his wife are just room mates and then he strats bringing her name up all the time and showing me what he got her for christmas. This has been going on for a long time 2 years and nothing has happened but he always wants my assistance with everything and tells me how much he appreciates me. He notices and comments on my hair, tan, french manicure and everything but he wont make a move. He has told me that he would be in big trouble if he done something out of the way with employees what does all this mean? Will anything ever come out of it? I want him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-14 09:14:01 · 4 answers · asked by kd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here's the deal:

a couple years ago @ summer camp, i met this guy. he was perfect and sweet and adorable etc. etc. we were voted cutest couple and everything. it was the best summer of my LIFE.

so last summer was the first summer at camp w/o him, and i realized how much i srsly missed him. everyday i thought about him and the previous summer. then he came to visit for a night and it was amazing. it was like nothing ever changed, like he'd always been there. it wasn't awkward or stupid, just PERFECT.

and a couple months ago, i realized that im in love with him. im truly seriously unbelievably in love with him. he lives about 4 hrs away from me, in another state, and i havnt seen him since about july, and i havnt talked to him since sept.

SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL?
cause its true love. i dont think ive ever felt this way about anyone before...
well?
tell or dont tell?

2006-12-14 09:12:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:12:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy walks up to you out of no where and asked you out on a date or just tell you that he have feelings for you. He would like to get to know you better. It can be a secret admirer or some guy you do know but didnt realized he got the hots for you. How would you react if it happens?

2006-12-14 09:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by epicwolf 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok so this guy who I really like at work, seems all interested when we talk and when we see each other at work...the only problem is that I am the only who seems to call him he doesn't call unless I call him and he misses the call, or he calls rarely like once a week or something, at work he is very attentive with me and flirts alot, he has even given me a ride home, I just don't get why he doesn't call or he's always busy as he says, but when I call he'll talk to me for a long time, I am majorly confused because if he was interested wouldnt he call more??

2006-12-14 09:10:57 · 15 answers · asked by Gordita de Oro 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:10:27 · 11 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating

About 9 months ago I ran into this guy and we hit it off.I was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,ia sked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentlman.Things were awkward when he left the next morning,a mutual freindtold me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who was trying to get me back)I ran into this guy again2 months later and he came to me and said"your killing me"my ex was also there and upset that we liked eachother.I sent him a text a couple weeks later and he never replied.I saw him again at a party 6 months later and he walked in with another girl,made eye contact with me and quickly looked away.Then later we crossed paths and he smiled and said"whats up".My ex was there again also,we have mutual freinds.

2006-12-14 09:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:09:30 · 22 answers · asked by BRANDIE 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this dude but he rejected me but every time i get a nother BF
I break up wit them B/C i think of him i can't forget about him so don't try that??????HELP

2006-12-14 09:09:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And please don't say under 16....

2006-12-14 09:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by MINA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need a good female friend to talk about sexual and non sexual problems with. Can you be that friend? I allow email and IM by the way. thanks!

2006-12-14 09:08:45 · 22 answers · asked by kubandman 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-14 09:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 09:08:23 · 46 answers · asked by Harjinder s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok now i found ut he doesnt like my best friend BUT all my other friends always flirt and hit on him and i and afraid that he will break up with me and go out with on of them! HELP!

2006-12-14 09:08:22 · 7 answers · asked by *KiAnA* =] 2 in Friends

70% of cheaters (infidelity) never get caught? How can this be?

2006-12-14 09:08:18 · 19 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend broke up yesterday and we decided to be friends..but he called me lata on and we spoke for agood 30mins just about the christmas parties that we had planned to go togetha when we was a couple...this morning he called me just to say hiee..and we spoke and he was flirting a bit..i reckon he still wants to be with me...and we broke up because he is going through some stuff..wat do u guys think?

2006-12-14 09:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

So, Bee (me) likes Henry (names have been changed). But Henry flirts, (places feet under chair, and "accidentally" leaves books on desk, stares, drolls--jk bout the last one) but doesn't have the balls to ask me out. He said a week ago, "yea i'm gunna ask her out" does he? of course not. A week later he claims: "i think bee is weird and i dont wanna have anything to do w/ her" Now who is the weird one? But Bee has this guy friend, Bob, who is really cute, and everyone thinks he likes her, but she's not sure what to do. HELP!!!

2006-12-14 09:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

Just wondered if anybody else has or would do it.

2006-12-14 09:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by toff 6 in Singles & Dating

Everybody has ?'s about love. What does it mean to you?

2006-12-14 09:04:28 · 14 answers · asked by americang21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my ex boyfriend and I care for my new boyfriend. The thing is that I was once in love with my boyfrined before but I got him to break up with me to follow his heart.We just got back togther but I still care for my ex and I told him. This is so hard to figure out what I'm going to do. My boyfriend at the time is in college while my ex is in high school with me. My ex is more convienant while my boyfriend now is only two hours away but is much more mature. I care for them both but not in the same ways.

2006-12-14 09:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by Between Times 2 in Singles & Dating