2006-12-14 09:12:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No- Slapping a girl for flirting is ridiculous and juvenile. I dont know you or how old you are, but you will seriously lose points with your boyfriend and anyone who witnesses you doing this childish behavior.
2006-12-14 09:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Getting into something physical over your man is NEVER a good idea. He should have enough respect for you to ask her to stop or let her know that you are his girlfriend. Its a matter of respect and he should have that for you.
If however, he is not putting a stop to it and you feel you must do something about it yourself, I would be as blunt as possible with the girl and tell her that you dont appreciate her hitting on your man. You are flattered that she finds him appealing but its time for her to find someone that is available and move on. I would also address it with your man and ask him to back you up on this matter. It needs to be a united front.
If he doesnt mention you or ask her to stop as well I would seriously consider if he is the right guy for you.
You serve to be treated with respect as his girlfriend and I would settle for nothing else.
Side Note:I would caution you NOT make a huge deal out of it if the flirting was a one time thing from a random stranger. That person probably didnt know you existed and you will look much more mature if you just let it go. My above answer is assuming its someone you guys know and its an ongoing problem.
2006-12-14 17:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not very smart are you?
Why not slap your boyfriend? There's where the problem lies. but of course...you won't. Know why? because deep down...and you don't know it but I know your type...you love it. The old display of emotions. Well..go ahead. When the broad you slapped spins around and smahes a beer bottle across your puss and you're in the ER having the entire left side of your face stitched up you'll perhaps re-evaluate your actions. especially when the boyfriend hooks up with this little tart he was flirting with because you have 40-50 stitches on your face that makes Frankenstein look like a male model.
2006-12-14 17:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think slapping the girl would be the right thing to do. Just confront her, ask her what her problem is, and if she says she didnt know both of you where together than just leave it. But if she apologizes and keeps doing it than I would kick her a*s right in the spot. But really I dont think any guy is worth fighting for.
2006-12-14 17:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Latina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she is flirting doesnt mean that she wants to get with your bf. I had the same problem a while back ago and I got tired of her flirting and asked my bf if he was interested in him and he said no and i know that he meant it. alot of people flirt because that is their personality. ask her if she's interested in ur bf and if she says yea then tell her that hes taken and if she doesnt then u dont have anything to worry about. and just to be on the safe side, ask ur bf. if he likes her.
2006-12-14 17:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by First L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two types of flirting. Innocent flirting (girls tend to do that) and "I am going to jump your bones" flirting. Decipher which kind of flirting started and then see if its really worth slapping over.
2006-12-14 17:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by P W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, just put your arms around you man and claim your territory (kiss him)
Unless he was flirting back then he gets the slap not the girl
2006-12-14 17:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont slap her, but take your stand. Some sk*nk a** bi*tch took my man from me, and I coudlnt do anything cause of course they work together. Men are idiots, they can be so weak, so even though you may trust your guy, be careful. It's usually the girls you gotta look out for.
2006-12-14 17:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her politely not flirt wit your man. If she seems not get the hint. Tell your man to tell her that flirtin not allowed. That he taken by a beautiful girl. Hopefully she will get the hint. Slappin will only cause drama
2006-12-14 17:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by SEXYCOWGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you aren't so insecure as to make a scene like this. You should be flattered that she likes him. If he flirted back, then you should slap him, not her. Then dump him.
2006-12-14 17:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by danika1066 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋