I don't even know where to begin. I have been with the same guy for 4 years, we're in our mid-late 20s. Prior to being with me, he was with his highschool girflriend for many years, and she just kind of left him with no explanations. I was his first real relationship after that. Sometime she calls him, or his mom, as pathetic as that sounds, trying to get back together. He blows it off, but deep down I have always thought he wasn't over her. He says he is. They have been broken up for almost 7 years. I don;t know what it is, just an instinct i have, that he's just not done with that yet.
Now we are at a place in our lives where we should be moving forward, or at least be at the point where we know we want to spend the rest of our lives together, and he just doesn't know that. He says "he wants to get there" and he thinks we will, and he wants it, but we just "aren't there yet." What do i do with that? How do i know he is over the ex and that is not the reason why?
2006-12-14
09:34:02
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