Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

2006-12-14 10:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by Angel Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

he has been verbally abusive to my parents also..his mother supports him...moreover, they say to people that he is the victim..where as the truth is just the opposite...is it possible that he is mentally ill? because he always blame me whenever his anger breaks out...which is very often..even on slightest thing he doesnt like..although theres nothing wrong in it actually..he misunderstands everything and so does his mother...do they want to get rid of me so that they can bring a new wife as i didnt bring much dowry..he told me that he loves me but i doubt when he misbehaves....i m confused whats the reality---whether he wants me or not?? whether he is mentally ill or what?? please help me

2006-12-14 10:16:29 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At the present time my mother babysits for my five year old son. I am currently in the process of getting back with my ex wife. My mother hates this. She has threatened to take my son away from me if i don't give up on my relationship with my ex.

I have also given my mother an ultimatum. I have told her that. Roy-Lynn will change her work schedule so that she can be home at night with our son while I work and I will be home with him during the day while Roy-Lynn works. Thus my mother will not have to babysit for us anymore. And she will have a harder time getting our son from us.
I hated to have to do it this way but I will not let my mother or anybody else dictate who I am going to be with. This is my choice plan and simple my mother has to respect that.

I have informed her that if she fights me on this and loses she will not only lose her grandson she will lose me as well. I am a grown man and have the right to make the decisions I want to make.

Was I to harsh? advise.

2006-12-14 10:16:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was having an affair which is kinda over, and it was really serious, i was and am so into my lover who i've known almost my whole life. i mean, the love is not fake between us, it's just a long and complicated story, but anyway...it wasn't an everyday thing either, just two hours a month, spending time together, and being intimate. ok....so...it's "kinda" over for good...because i have to really grow up and try to fix things with myself and be faithful to my husband and try to rekindle the love i had for my husband from the first time we met. so yesterday night, we were doing it and oh my god, i wanted to kill myself. i just didn't feel right, i wanted to run and never look back. how the hell am i going to convince myself that my husband is my one and only and i have to be true to him and how am i going to make love to him and feel great about it again? i know this q. is complicated but please give serious answers and don't tell me i'm a bit$h

2006-12-14 10:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Any tips ?

2006-12-14 10:16:03 · 10 answers · asked by gdmills37 1 in Singles & Dating

something they wont guess is a setup or see its a setup

2006-12-14 10:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by Everything happens for a reason 4 in Weddings

My uncle remarried a few years ago and now has a step-son that NO ONE in my family can stand. He is lould, whiny, demanding, extremly annoying, gets in everyones stuff and hits people.His latest stunt was on Thanksgiving when he hit my husband below the belt. He is 9 which is old enough to know right from wrong. His mother was sitting right there when he hit my hubby down there and she did nothing to the little brat. She never does anything to disicipline him when he behaves badly. I am dreading Christmas because she will have him this year. No one in my family will say anything to her about this because they don't want to upset my uncle. Being around him gives me anxiety attacks which are really painful so just to ignore the situation is not an answer. They were my family long before she came into the picture so I shouldn't have to give up my Christmas with my family because of this but I don't know what else 2 do. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-14 10:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by kittysoma27 6 in Family

Today, my brother gave me some t-shirts from his college book store. I'm shocked since me and my brother don't have a very close relationship and he's pretty much never given me anything. I remember that I had bitched about how he never brought stuff back from Indiana, but I had no clue that he'd actually bring something back.

My mother doesn't really regard him part of the family anymore. So, I don't think it's a good idea to tell her. But in the end she's going to get pissed and find out.

What should I do to resolve this very akward situation? Should I give him something back for christmas? ( My family doesn't celebrate christmas and we don't really give each other things.)

2006-12-14 10:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Mamta S 2 in Family

I am totally in love with this man. Why? don't ask, because I really don't know. I love him, I love his kids, and we broke up 2 months ago. We tried to just break it off completely, but he decided a week later that I am his best friend and he can't lose me. We are the best of friends, and he still lives with me, but he sleeps on the couch. I hate it. What do I do about this? I mean, it's practically like we're still together, but we don't say it. And we don't have sex as much... let me tell you, that's killing me. (Not like i can bring home anyone else... haha)

2006-12-14 10:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by biz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't spoke to my dad in four months. I feel real guilty because when I last spoke with him I said that I will come see him and never did. I'm scared to talk to him again. Another thing is that he speaks broken english so its hard to understand what he says. What should I do?!

2006-12-14 10:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by Hellfire 3 in Family

2006-12-14 10:12:55 · 18 answers · asked by patty s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am writing him a letter telling him to get help or I'm leaving and taking the baby - What can I say in the letter to really make my point? I think the relationship is worth saving.

2006-12-14 10:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by penny s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a sexy woman in bar and she gave me her email address. She said I want to mack her. What is "mack"? She said everybody knows. Do you know?

2006-12-14 10:11:32 · 18 answers · asked by Beckham 2 in Singles & Dating

While he was gone he wrote me a note every day. When he came back to school he gave me the notes and I read them so eagerly. In his 8th note he told me he loved me. Later on that week I told him I loved him too. He then told me he wasn't so sure if he did anymore. That hurt. Does anyone have any advice?

2006-12-14 10:11:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy i work with that is my boss flirts with me and winks at me mostly when no one is looking. He notices everything about me such as my tan, hair and french manicure on my feet. We had a company trip 2 months ago and we were side by side the whole trip we had few drinks one night and laughhed and relaxed and totally enjoyed each others company we touched like rubbing backs and stuff but thats it. He tells the guys at work he and his wife are just room mates. He looks directly into my eyes when he talks to me and in meetings he even looks at me when he is talking to a crowd. I feel something when he looks into my eyes that I have never felt before. Now he has been giving me mixed signals though like bringing up his wifes name alot and showing me what he got her for christmas. Is he wanting me to get the hint or is he still interested in me or was he ever? One time I told him to blow me a kiss and he said "I would be fired if I did that " Is he just scared?

2006-12-14 10:10:59 · 40 answers · asked by kd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay me and this guy at lunch are always together and i started to like him and i guess he found out and hes been avoiding me and it sucks so much. hes always hugging me . what do i do?

2006-12-14 10:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by monkey sam 2 in Singles & Dating

I have said sorry to my partner for making her mad and now I want to buy her a present to say that I am really sorry for making her mad and that I love her........I am thinking of buying a care bear or something simmilar....,any ideas???

thanks
Mitch

2006-12-14 10:09:48 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 36, and we've been together for five years nearly. He's never really been that bothered about sex (that I know of), but now we haven't has sex since February. Many people regard me as being very attractive and I'm quite sure there is no one else. Also, he's admitted that he masturbates when I'm not there, but never in front of me. It's not like I'm frigid r unadventurous either. Am I doing something wrong or wasting my time?

2006-12-14 10:09:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I met someone online and I have only talked by messages (e-mails) and now I am going to chat with this person, but, I suck at chatting, soooo...can you give some advise on what to talk about?

Thanks!

2006-12-14 10:09:24 · 14 answers · asked by Another Face Of Me 5 in Friends

Guys, be honest... have you ever known a girl and had feelings for her but tried your best NOT to show it? IF so, why? I have a problem trying to decipher the way someone feels for me...I think I know, but he seems like a mystery. Heres the deal, I know this guy(currently just friends/sex partners) and he came out of a relationship a while back with some slut that slept around(they lived together), and now, for some reason, it seems as if hes giving me a hard time. It is as if she scarred him or sumthin. We had a conversation not too long ago and he said "I not thinking about marriage or relationsips right now. But you are the woman that I want to marry someday". Although this sounds nice, he shows no type of affection and/or communication. he hardly calls me and it seems as if he hides his feelings constantly. Do men ususally do this to avoide looking like a whimP? Should I take these actions personal? Should I leave him alone? I am hurt and confused and have deep feelings for him.

2006-12-14 10:09:11 · 2 answers · asked by EmpreSS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know there's tons of these, but please bare with me, my situation is kind of unique, as you'll see at the end.

We're in two classes and he's always looking at me, talking really loud around me, etc. But in this past week it has gotten kind of intense and confusing. He'll be everywhere, looking behind him and trying to get me to notice him, and I do like him, a lot. He's always really close to me and stuff.

This is the thing, I'm moving in 6 months. I can't go out with him, it would be more painful to leave and break a relationship than to just wish I could of gone out with him. I don't want to hurt him more either, this is just how it has to be.

We aren't even friends really, but we act like we've known each other forever when we do talk (hard to explain, hehe). Anyway, right now I've gone into ignore mode, faking disinterest (which isn't working!) Would it be best for me to just announce to my friends I'm moving when he's around?

Please help. :/

2006-12-14 10:08:54 · 4 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask a girl out, but we dont see eachother enough for me to di it in person. Should I ask her with a note, or on the phone? with with the note, what do I do once she returns it and if she says yes?

2006-12-14 10:08:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 10:08:13 · 11 answers · asked by sweeet anastacia from trinidad 1 in Singles & Dating

Since I am married, our sex life is wack. Its like he is 16 years old. He has no stamina anymore. I dont know if its me or him. I tried to talk about it to him but he gets offended or has a pity party. What can I do? Help Me!!!!

2006-12-14 10:07:38 · 23 answers · asked by daprty1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

See there is this really cute boy named Richard at my school but he likes my best friend Saphira but dosen't like him she want to go with someone eles and realyu like him but i'm scared to talk or even say hi to him he dosen't even know i'm alive i would talk to him in school buti don't have any classes with i only see between clases Omg what should i do

2006-12-14 10:06:43 · 8 answers · asked by dominique g 2 in Singles & Dating

What happened to all the cute office ladies ?

2006-12-14 10:06:04 · 11 answers · asked by rockync7 2 in Singles & Dating

I actually have no real friends. I had a best friend but then she ditched me not so long ago and i have friends but no one i can really talk to or trust no one that i could ask to chill at my house or whatever no one i can talk to it's so bad i spent so much time with my best friend who turned out to be a *****.....I have no one left.

2006-12-14 10:06:02 · 24 answers · asked by Nicola 1 in Friends

I was wondering why do you wait until you find someone else to dump someone you seem to don't like anymore, or think there is no future with? it would be just honest, and simple, to say to the person , that you think it is not gonna work instead of rejecting the person, when you find someone else ...it hurts really hard at that time ...

2006-12-14 10:05:51 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 10:05:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few minutes ago I just saw him for lunch at work. We were talking about him driving around all night. I had a chance to read your answer and I took a lot of your advice. One girl said you no your man better then we do. And she was right. He has never did this before. This is not his norm. And when he doe's go out with the guy's he always calls me 3 to 4 times and when he's on his way back home. I just don't get way out of the blue sky he would tell me some crazy story like that. Would you guys still think he cheated on me or was he really thinking and was really just driving around? And those who said check the gas mater I did it's on full and the miles the last time I remember last week was 96 + miles and now it's on 98 + miles. I don't know want to think. My last relaytionship (husband) it was his norm to come in the morning or days later. I no he was cheating, all the time. But my guy now it's not normal for him to stay gone like that. advice please

2006-12-14 10:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce